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Yeah this is the tricky thing, but I can also brush it off it doesn't go over well. Also, I've learned to be the guy who doesn't actively chase the woman because then you create mystery and have her wondering "Why isn't he trying to hit on me? Chase me?" She starts to wonder about YOU.

So, lately I've been a bit off in my own world, the other day I'm waiting for the elevator and I see this girl come through the door. We don't say anything at first, but then when we get into the elevator, she spots my shaker cup and attire and goes "Just getting back from the gym?" Then we...

To me, Tinder and Bumble dry up super quick in my home state. When I go out of state for work, I'll have bumble and tinder downloaded just to meet new people or get recommendations for places. Nothing has transpired on either app since 2019, where I had previous success. It's a bit odd...

Or the lack there of. I'm 37, and it kind of feels like certain things in life are scarce... and I'm not sure if this is normal? I should preface that my business life is exceptional, it's bountiful, and it's abundant, I stay busy, have a ton of spending money for things that I want to buy...

So I'm pretty frequent to one particular gym and sometimes just say hi to the usual front end staff. Sometimes throw in a nickname just to brighten their day. Today I walked in and saw the two guys I usually see and said "Hey stud 1 and stud 2" And then a girl at the desk goes "And stud 3" --...

I finally got the cojones to talk to a girl I've been noticing in the gym. I made a sly joke about her being late to the gym as I was leaving and she responded "Sorry I was sleeping" So the next day at the gym I see her and I'm like "Oh hey you showed up early" Which lead to a small...

He didn't ignore me but definitely felt like he was trying to divide his attention accordingly. She was the one kissing him and he was I think caught off guard by it. I don't think he was ignoring her, but trying to juggle the amount of people to talk to. I should say I never her once smile...

I'm at the bar last night to see an old time friend, and one of my other friends was there with a new lady. Waved to him, and then talked to the other friend I hadn't seen in a while. Gradually making my rounds around I end up with him and notice he's got a new lady with him, but this is...

I tend to be a bit of an oblivious type of guy, where I treat everyone like a friend and equal, not on a pedestal. Probably keep it cordial cus I work out there and have somewhat of a good reputation with everyone there, nothing worse than working out at a gym and dating someone for only it...

Let me first start off by saying the gym is my mecca, I do not **** where I eat. I come to work out, turn my mind off and leave -- that's it. That being said, I had been noticing a new trainer at my local gym with an incredible butt -- and she's young which is a deadly combo for me cus I chase...

Every time I head to the bank to make a deposit thru the drive thru, I tend to notice one particular teller, who kind of makes eyes at me. Earlier today I went to the bank, and an older lady was there, she asked me how business was going for me, and I saw the other tell walk up. And then stood...

A former FWB of mine is now engaged, but we still keep in touch through text, snapchat, instagram every so often. I've been more than respectful with keeping my distance and respecting her fiancee. She was in a play earlier today, and I attended because I support her arts (as she supports my...

I'm a wedding photographer and photographed a friend's wedding today. One of the wedding guests in attendance was a former FWB, a pretty consistent FWB -- last time I saw her was back in March or so I think... no bad blood. She has a boyfriend now, and throughout the wedding neither of us made...

I live in an apt and finally got around to meeting my neighbor, basically I'm non chalant and laid back and eventually I'd probably introduce myself. I've talked to my neighbor a few times out on her patio (next door neighbors) -- eventually fixed a small thing for her in her apt, and invited...

Matched with a girl on Tinder a few weeks ago, threw it all out on the table, said I was DTF. Comes over to my place drunk, we hook up and then again in the morning. Last week hooked up Wed & Thursday night, then had her kids so she couldn't. Snaps me this morning says that she needed coffee...

Cliffs: Girl I used to hook up with eventually met a new guy, started dating him and claims he's her boyfriend now. She's been seeing him a few months. So I don't make it a priority to talk to her or text first, just checking my imessage and see that it was over 6 days ago that she texted me...

Slight update, girl texted me out of the blue Sunday night (after a weekend of no communication) "How are you" And then proceeded to say things like "How's your Bumble girl?" (Wanted to know more about her) Then I asked her about her new 'guy'

Most FWB's don't last long and I found that out, I suppose we're just trying friendship out currently, but as I mentioned, the moment I started seeing someone she magically reappeared... I plan on cutting off all communication this weekend, basically disappearing.

PREFACE: About a month ago, things came to an end, because she met someone else -- slept with her one last time. Probably went... 5/6 days without talking to her this past week (due to new interest, texting someone) We ended up having a conversation last night and found out that the reason she...

Just a random thought popped into my head. I had borrowed some books from her, and then asked if she'd like them back. About 2 weeks she asked if I could return them sometime, around 10:30pm, I respectively declined her offer told her I was out for drinks. Then just last week I said "I could...