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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    Actually I’ve been having some incredible workouts the last 3 days, the bit of anger and test from the recent sex last Thursday has me feeling pretty alpha lately
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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    I was just in it for the sex, my work life keeps me plenty busy (almost to the point of no social life, like almost interfering) so I have no regrets. Wasn't no two pump chump nor a dead fish (sure I could have been more vocal but it was still new to me) -- anywho, I've been NC last 2 days and...
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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    I would say that I did not catch feelings, but feel she was starting to, and kept convincing herself not to. Example, one time she said that me not much of a reader, "this is why we wouldn't work out" Another example she said after sex "We could never date, we have nothing in common but we...
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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    Let’s make one thing clear I never wanted her to be a GF or anything like that. She was never told she was beautiful or adored or even complimented on her body by her ex, and I did all those things. I was just hoping that the sex would keep continuing on and off, she told me that she’d never...
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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    I'm actually pretty content with FWB due to my work/lifestyle (wedding photographer) so I'm either working or traveling somewhere.
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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    The "until it wasn't" threw me through a loop. She had always told me over and over that she wasn't going to waste anyone's time, or she valued her time, which seemed a bit hypocritical because clearly if it was over, just tell me -- don't just fade it out with this false pretense. Last...
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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    I've screen capped last night's conversation, if any of you want to take a look at it;
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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    Previous post might have been a bit over the top, but that's my flare for drama I guess. Any who, wasn't even a feelings thing because the last time we hooked up it just felt really off for the both of us. For me, I was just under the impression that things were kosher and would hook up as an...
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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    No, she started texting me again the other day because I didn’t text her. She said to me she’s not comfortable sleeping with two guys at the same time, which basically translates to “I like this other guy more than I like you and don’t want to jeopardize it” The last time I saw her (assuming...
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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    2 months of hooking up, never any staying over. Hanging out with one another before sex, tons of cuddling afterwards, things like sharing music with one another. Last Thursday, saw her the last time, she hugs, kisses me and I tell her a few things that lead to her crying, kissed her one last...
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    Turned the tables on the dumper last night

    Live update, she just texted me one of her current favorite artists and told me to check out a few songs... titles like "Honey" "I Need It" "U Make Me Feel"
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    Turned the tables on the dumper last night

    Appears we have some updates. I went out of town for the weekend for work, and she kept watching all my Instagram stories, even though she was at a halloween party. Then last night I posted something on my Instagram story, and she replied "Loooooooove this" and has watched my stories since...
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    I went out to a little house party tonight

    Or you could have perhaps made friends at said party and then got them to introduce you to their friends at the next party...
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    Turned the tables on the dumper last night

    I guess if you knew the back story to this you might think differently. Basically this girl was never told she was beautiful, appreciated or even compliment on her body and looks. My job is a wedding photographer so she had fallen in love with my work, telling me I had a way of making people...
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    Turned the tables on the dumper last night

    What could I have done better? And what are the chances of her coming back?
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    Turned the tables on the dumper last night

    Also this particular person told me too “I love the way you touch me, kiss me and F me”
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    Turned the tables on the dumper last night

    She told me this after sex, which I found odd, but all she said is that she slept in someone else’s bed and nothing further, I kind of feel it was attempting to make me jealous, which I wasn’t going to be
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    Turned the tables on the dumper last night

    6 weeks without seeing her or sex, should have been obvious, but I always give people the benefit of the doubt when it comes to being out of a nearly 4 year relationship. I went over to my FWB's apartment for the last time tonight, during after sex cuddling/kisses, she asks "When's the last...
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    Just broke up a few hours ago

    You're going to go through a rollercoaster of emotions and that's perfectly normal. People are going to attempt to drag you out, meet new people, set you up with people, but all the while you're still going to feel some what disconnected from everything inside -- and only you know when the time...
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    FWB acting weird, but still talks to me...

    I had taken a Lyft downtown to go get drinks and didn't want to risk anything, I had a feeling she would text me but wasn't certain. I'm still interested in hooking up with her as much as I can.
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