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Sorry fug but there seems to be a sh*tload of basing your esteem around your body image. I like the way I look when I get a pump too, and used to be really into the validation I get from girls jaws dropping when they see me all dressed up and ready to go but I realize that there is very little...

I'd go with one of voices responses, because a NC does show your butt-hurt over it. I'd then not hang with the girl because she doesn't sound like a very cool chick to be using you to validate her ego (which she really is).

I think she's just being honest with you in the way she understands it. Just be patient w/ her if you like her man. Sounds like she just doesn't know how to handle someone who fits the mold as the guy she would f*ck who is also the guy she would hang out with / date. Your in a good place, keep...

you going to dooooo herrrrrrrr

I probably would have made sure she had my phone number to start, then not confirmed either, make them do that by being quiet about the whole thing. That gives HER the onus of anxiety over whether or not I even meant it when I asked her out. Whenever I've done it, she has called and did what I...

Congrats man! I'm glad you found a better balance for yourself that you are more at ease with!!!!

Your prob being a dancing monkey. Trying to entertain them vs. being attractive to them. I would not be negging, it never seems to work well for me as a lot of girls are insecure. I would (just for the fun of it to see how it goes) try being more direct with women and have good eye contact...

So she was feeling you but you didn't make any / try to make any plans with her because you are secretly a super mind reader and you just KNOW that because you didn't demonstrate leader of men / protector of loved ones blahblahblah DHV's via story telling that it would have been a waste of your...

Adam Lyons. & Don't work on building attraction work on feeling sexually dominant while you talk to her, don't use the words though just feel it and talk normal. careful pickup is a slippery slope.

If you woulda left out that first part of the last text it actually woulda been pretty smooth

Ya you went too far. You can't talk about using this girl like that. I would apologize personally. Yup it won't build attraction, but it's the right thing to do.

Persian girls are suspicious and are about appearances.

ha - pretty honest. I never really worry too much about creeping them out. If I don't put on a move I'll look like a pu55y to her, if I do and she thinks it's Suuuuper creeeepy then she wouldn't have wanted to hang out anyway so no big loss. My friends are so scared of looking creepy.

I've got similar issues (I believe). You can "Let out" your masculinity when your f*ckin, but it doesn't stay out at other times. Sometimes I (maybe you...who knows) have behaviors that I do without thinking to keep people from getting to really know me (I'm pretty funny, don't take life that...

Pull out my **** and lay it on the table casually. Look at the guys after you do this and tell them all things at this table belong to my ****. You sure you want to stick around????? If they leave then have 3-way w/ both girls. If they stay....... not good

I like some of what your saying... Basically that you are good enough right now....THAT I can agree with. THAT is also one of the big problems a lot of guys have when trying to meet women, they don't think they are good / entitled enough right now (like she's some kind of f*cking perfect...

This year...dunno something like 50. Kinda sorta hanging out with someone though so not great on calling them...

F&ck me, I've got some issues. I went out this past Fri night and was having fun at first. Was opening up loads of girls with my friend, who actually is in this lair thing and a lot of those guys were there as well. They didn't used to go but I posted online on this board a while ago places I...

"Thought yours were too, but want to be sure, what are you doing this X"? by the way conversating isn't a word. conversing is. This one is in the bag