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    Difference between DIRECT and INDIRECT? Help people...

    Tried / trying both and I think you get a feel for it over time. With indirect you give her a chance to get to know you and you can demonstrate to her that you are a higher value than her, with direct you show confidence and that you are into her but you remove the mystery and the chase. If you...
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    whats a good comeback when you get friendzoned?

    reply to original post: "Introduce me to your friends"
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    Yuppaz Field Reports of Trials and Tribulations

    Crazy - was at my normal coffee spot for lunch when these two platinum blondes walk in. Wanted to figure out a way to talk to them but didn't seem to be a good way. Kept looking over at them when they were sitting down. Noticed they were speaking another language. Later had a chance and opened...
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    Yuppaz Field Reports of Trials and Tribulations

    Thanks Jblitz! I'll give it a shot mate! So Friday delivery didn't work out. She seemed really excited that night....but I think I f*cked up. I was pretty touchy-feely with her and might have taken away all the mystery, or made her feel uncomfortable. I called the next day and her daughter...
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    Yuppaz Field Reports of Trials and Tribulations

    Thanks Jblitz, totally appreciate the feedback and will def check it out. I try to go the same way with the growing up in a disfunctional family. I guess it was on my mind yesterday and I was reading up on it so it kind of clicked with me what one of my issues probably is. INteresting though...
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    Yuppaz Field Reports of Trials and Tribulations

    Hey Jblitz - thanks for the feedback man. The convo you mentioned in the post was a while ago. I don't bring in sexual innuendo much right now, that's true. At this point I feel like I've been there and done that it it really hasn't been working very well. Think it has it's time and place...
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    Girls Dont Want to Go On Dates Anymore

    "I'm going to check out xyz over at abc, it's going to be amazing, they have blah and blah blah. you should tag along" - setting the meetup isn't my strong suite, so maybe someone good at this can chime in
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    Yuppaz Field Reports of Trials and Tribulations

    So I get back to conversation with the group sitting next to me. One of them is a pretty cute chick that I tell a joke to. She cracks up, then tells me one (interrupting cow) and kind of screws it up. I tease her for it. I do the rings on her, did it better that time and she was somewhat...
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    Girls Dont Want to Go On Dates Anymore

    never ever ever ever call them 'dates' to girls under 27 or so. You're 'hanging out' or 'Getting together' the word 'Date' to them is a boring, high pressure thing they can't handle unless they are already super into you.
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    waiter flirts hard with my date

    With the whole tipping thing, I agree with fatdog. It's funny that we are expected to make up for restaurants being cheap with their serving staff. It's stupid that it's expected to tip a buck for every time you get a drink or two from a bar as well. Also Iqqi, they only pay taxes and split this...
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    Tell me what I can improve on with my looks

    I would agree with all of the above. You have a slight cave man look going on w/ your facial features, that's a good thing. More toned, wear nice, fitting dress pants and dress shirts and a little unique bling (index finger ring, classy bracelet, necklace etc.) to show some style. I would start...
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    Need your opinion

    Been there done that with the work thing.....wayyyyyyy too risky if things end (or even if they get awkward, like she mistakes a c&f line as a serious insult). Find new plates to spin. DON'T SH*T WHERE YOU EAT
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    Thanks Sosuave...

    awesome job man!
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    Yuppaz Field Reports of Trials and Tribulations

    How strange that my last post was about forgiveness and at one point I mention nut kicking and my Friday night started out with a conversation that included nut kicking....hahahaha I (sort of) got stood up. Was supposed to have a date with this yacht club girl. She didn't actually agree to get...
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    Chick gave wrong #

    Think he means the right number was the wrong number, that was her way of saying she wasn't interested. Pretty *****y way to do it. She could have just lied and said she was involved, pretty dumb move considering she's his neighbor.
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    My GF has a butt chin

    chin f*ck her!
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    What if nothing changes after yrs of struggle?

    I'm just going to throw this out there. You first need to forgive yourself for not having the success you wanted. You then need to realize that you're a cool guy and that women would be lucky to hang out with you. You then need to approach more, and approach to GET REJECTED, go through that ****...
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    Ole K-mans first real outing in ten years...

    Great job man! You went out and had FUN, that's 99% of it right there! Keep with the fun times!
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