Here's what I thought to be an interesting situation and am curious to hear how it's interpreted by others:
I met this girl who is in the music biz with me and is super hot and talented with guys chasing her around everywhere. We're casual at first until one night at a party I move in on her and we spend the rest of the night making out. She tells me that she didn't see it coming like that at all and she wondered how I could be so bold when she thought I was really shy and reserved.
I end up taking her out on 2 dates where she tells me she never dates people in the biz and has no idea why she keeps finding herself wanting to hang with me, but that I'm a great kisser and keep surprising her more and more with how bold and forward I am when she thought otherwise.
Yesterday afternoon we're hanging out and end up in her bedroom when she starts saying this:
"Normally I'm completely down to fvck or I don't even bother with the person; I don't like to date and I don't like relationships. Except I have a lot of fun with you and you're making it really hard for me to be classy right now."
She goes on to say that she's conflicted because I'm right in the middle. She thinks I move fast and act like the guys she would like to fvck, yet I'm also nice like the guys she usually passes on. She says that I'm right in the middle and that she's never been in this position before and doesn't know what to do.
I play it cool and hardly say anything the whole time (I feel like my game in this situation has been solid) and there's a push pull between the escalation. Finally, I realize nothing is going to happen so I get up and we end up in the living room. I finish the rest of my beer and tell her that I need to get going. From her facial reaction she seemed pissed and said that she was sorry if she led me on - I replied with a smile and said "in which direction?" I kissed her again and then headed towards the door where she said "I'll see ya", blew me a kiss with an F you vibe and shut the door.
What do you guys make of this? Do you think she was conflicted because she actually liked the combo of dating and sexual attraction for the first time? Did she want to "keep it classy" because she liked me more than a DTF buddy and didn't want me to think of her as slvtty?
I feel like I played everything right but I'm curious about the end - was it the right move to leave once it was clear that things weren't going to get more physical? Or did I come off as AFC because I didn't get want I wanted? I didn't leave in a huff or upset though.
Curious to read the interpretations
I met this girl who is in the music biz with me and is super hot and talented with guys chasing her around everywhere. We're casual at first until one night at a party I move in on her and we spend the rest of the night making out. She tells me that she didn't see it coming like that at all and she wondered how I could be so bold when she thought I was really shy and reserved.
I end up taking her out on 2 dates where she tells me she never dates people in the biz and has no idea why she keeps finding herself wanting to hang with me, but that I'm a great kisser and keep surprising her more and more with how bold and forward I am when she thought otherwise.
Yesterday afternoon we're hanging out and end up in her bedroom when she starts saying this:
"Normally I'm completely down to fvck or I don't even bother with the person; I don't like to date and I don't like relationships. Except I have a lot of fun with you and you're making it really hard for me to be classy right now."
She goes on to say that she's conflicted because I'm right in the middle. She thinks I move fast and act like the guys she would like to fvck, yet I'm also nice like the guys she usually passes on. She says that I'm right in the middle and that she's never been in this position before and doesn't know what to do.
I play it cool and hardly say anything the whole time (I feel like my game in this situation has been solid) and there's a push pull between the escalation. Finally, I realize nothing is going to happen so I get up and we end up in the living room. I finish the rest of my beer and tell her that I need to get going. From her facial reaction she seemed pissed and said that she was sorry if she led me on - I replied with a smile and said "in which direction?" I kissed her again and then headed towards the door where she said "I'll see ya", blew me a kiss with an F you vibe and shut the door.
What do you guys make of this? Do you think she was conflicted because she actually liked the combo of dating and sexual attraction for the first time? Did she want to "keep it classy" because she liked me more than a DTF buddy and didn't want me to think of her as slvtty?
I feel like I played everything right but I'm curious about the end - was it the right move to leave once it was clear that things weren't going to get more physical? Or did I come off as AFC because I didn't get want I wanted? I didn't leave in a huff or upset though.
Curious to read the interpretations