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hahaha That's one funny analogy.

I fvcked up guys. I was nc for 2 days and yesterday i kept getting texts and calls from her... Then a text at 3 am saying i need to see you asap, followed by a call at 3:35am. I answered. I know idiot! She tells me she misses me a lot wanted to see me, etc... It set me back up... This is why...

Actually, that's what i'm trying to do. I'm not forcing anything, or trying to date etc... whatever happens, happens... I'm going to live my life and accept the pain i'm going thru... I seriously don't want to go something like this again in 5 years or 10. It's better to go thru it and learn...

I would really love to do that... but i feel like the condition i'm in... i doubt i'd be able to spinn a spoon let alone a plate... Which girl would want to talk to me now in this condition?? Sh!t, even all the openers, nags etc. etc. i used in the past... pretty much gone... It's been 2...

RomanGod, Thanks a lot man, I apreciate the comments. I'm just curious, how long did it take you to overcome your 3 year LTR? You're saying it was ok for a while until she got someone else... When did that happen? I pray to God that even if she does get someone else... I don't find out...

This is true! It helps... really does help to read some stuff and get opinion from Men that were in the similiar situation. Thanks a lot bud.

I did do it. Thanks for an eye opening. I understand where you're coming from. R

Thanks a lot romangod! Your posts (even deleted) seem to show wisdom and help that I need. This is only day 1 for me... so i may be very strong today and then 2 days later messed up a bit... But I know myself and I believe in ME! I will overcome this! Even the reality is that she's not...

hmmm a lot of posts have been removed... Weird! To answer some of your questions... I blocked her number, her texts and her MMS, so i can't see them nor read them. That'll help some if she contacts me. As far as my desire to contact, well I know that'll happen, but I'll overcome it...

Thanks guys. Just 10min ago i talked to her for the last time... Said what i wanted to say... Told her that's it with me. She Shouldnt contact me anymore, and i sure wont either. I'm starting my NC now! I did go out with friends and it wasnt the same... I dont really feel like meeting women...

Thanks. I can block her number thru apps without the phone company... that's not the problem. Problem is, I can't do it! AFC... I guess I am... I can't help it. I know everythign i'm supposed to do, but I'm not strong enough to do it! Thanks again

It's not so much that I feel i need to go NC... I love just hearing from her and talking to her... but it's the fact that at the end of conversation, she's still single as am I. Once we were a couple, now we are nothing! I'm finding new hobbies and really bad trying to ocupy my mind with...

Thanks a lot. I really needed to hear that from someone more mature. do you or anyone else have any tips on how to overcome this feeling? I know NC would be the way to go, to actually get over her... but every time i try to do it... Her Texts, or just seeing her number on my phone make me...

I haven't posted here much as i've just been reading a lot and looking at many threads... Most of them about getting over a "oneits" and moving on etc. Mostly they all focus on NC and focusing on myself etc. First the background: I've been with my now ex for 2 years. We had our...

Thanks a lot.

So, your advice here is.... Go NC, right now... don't write her back on her Texts, don't answer her phone calls... just act as if she's gone? No explanation, no talking or saying this and that... just disappear?

Thanks for replies guys. As far as asking where we are etc... she was the one that kept saying stuff like: "I don't know where we are, you said you don't want to be friends, and we're not together, yet we sleep together and all... i'm just so confused..." I remember asking once: "Do you...

Before i start, i just want to say that i have my flame suit on and am ready for whatever you guys have to say. I've read many threads on similar issue, and what to do after breakup... read many ebooks on the subject... but I can't put stuff in play! On to the story: I'm 28 years old...