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That's akin to saying let's just assume we are on the same financial page about money, spending etc. when entering a relationship or before getting married, that if you have to make sure you're on the same page rather than assuming what's acceptable or not, it's too late. Relationships require...

I watched a couple conflicting videos today that made me think about some things I've seen with friends and experienced myself vs guru advice. Boundaries are a masculine thing IMO. DariusM for example says that the beta males who let their girls go hang out with other guys or what not are A...

She chased her husband for years. They had sex once a month even in the beginning. They slept separately. When they divorced they were separated for 3 years before hand due to her wanting to try to work it out. But I'm going to see where this leads. We've both learned and told each other nothing...

This. She told me early on she is crazy in a semi joking way. She even said laying in bed one time months ago I haven't seen her crazy. I asked for examples, she didn't say anything. Later she said she worries her crazy will drive me away. It just reminded me writing that of one of my exes who...

The girl is a 10 and she is rich. She doesn't work. She's a full time investor. After our first date, she called to ask me about dating exclusively, because I had joked about it (semi joked) on our first date because we had some serious chemistry and everything in common. We waited a few dates...

Interesting perspectives. I do think there is some codependence. Monkey branching, maybe, but if you knew her like I do, I doubt it. She's been single for years since her divorce. Barely went out with one guy that her sister invited her out with as a group function not knowing he would be...

About three months together, love each other. We recently took a trip together and we got in a fight over the same thing almost every day. I kept trying to leave and fly back, and each time she would jump on me and try to stop me from leaving. She'd cry, she'd block the door, she'd wrestle me...

Fair question. So, I'm 99% sure the answer is no. Not only because she's not the type but because she's told me before if I want to go date other women NOW early on (on a break) I CAN. I asked her why. She said she'd rather be hurt now than really hurt in the future if I wanted to leave for...

Sorry she doesn't date midgets. ;)

New relationship after a recent breakup with a different girl. The girl is hot, put together, well-off, etc. Long story short, laying in bed, she asked me my sexual fantasy. I told her. I asked her why she asked, she said to make sure she pleases me. Next morning after we wake up she said she is...

Now THIS is a quality post. I've already told her nothing lasts forever, I've been in relationships that lasted 3 months or 10 years, with most being 2-3 years. She has been in relationships three times before as well and she understands this, though we talk about "forever". Anyways, you are...

No idea where you get that idea, she has more money than me, lol. And she had a guy with a private jet chasing her when we first started dating. Oh I see you're new....

You know how you both spend a lot of time thinking about each other in the beginning, getting to know each other, wondering and trying to figure each other out, what they think of you, how they feel. All those exciting sparks and sleepless nights, etc. Next thing you know it's been a couple of...

So using that logic everyone here has inner game issues for asking any questions. Got it....I'm about to turn 40, have many hobbies and friends, an executive career and a portfolio of multiple rental properties. You somehow turned a single question about whether I should bring up the topic to me...

My thoughts as I noted are that even with no male friends, attractive women will get hit on EVERYWHERE, there's always a risk. Yeah, one mans 10 is a 5, sure. But she didn't have guys with private jets chasing her when we were dating because she's a 5 in their eyes... She went out with her...

We've all been there, the woman with male friends. It's a battle that I've never seen anyone win. Since my twenties with my 9 and 10 gf's they always had male orbiters, besties, etc. Trying to cut them out has never worked. Some became an issue, but largely in hindsight, because of the girl...

I think I may be over thinking this. My new gf and I have been seeing each other for almost two months. Her interest level was so high on our first date she wanted us to take our profiles down, etc. She was on time, etc. when we were dating early on, save for having trouble finding parking once...

No, she is not a Filipina. I've dated women of her culture once before though, they are usually very traditional, relationship first then sex kind of girls. As I said, we REALLY hit it off on our first date. She's a ten and veeery successful financially, owns her own company, so the comments...

So, one lesson learned here. Don't artificially try to skip dates. If I had texted her I had other plans and wouldn't be able to hang out that this week, she wouldn't have called me and invited me over. Met her family and had sex together. I would have missed all of that had I played games here.

Tl;DR Long story short, we hit it off on our first date, she called me a few days after and talked about us taking our profiles down and dating exclusively. We did and kept dating. She is asian and traditional, so she wanted to wait a whiiiile before having sex. She invited me over for dinner...