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Why do you think male models tend to be slim and trim and not bulky jacked guys? (you don't need to answer, it's a rhetorical question). I do lift BTW, my aim isn't to be big and bulky though, it's not a good look at my age. Nor is it healthy. Some years ago, however, I was somewhat larger...

Most jacked guys look good in a fitted t-shirt and other casual clothes, but that bulky bodybuilder look often doesn't translate so well into formal wear - suits, ties, blazers, etc. A slimmer, more athletic look tends to look better then.

In my experience, clothes, style, dress and deportment become more important with age. Yes, you need to be in shape as well, but frankly you're not going to be as jacked in your 50s as in your 20s or 30s (unless, of course, you want to kill yourself on gear). So, to me, a combination of being...

A lot of women find it hard to grow long hair once they hit the menopause. It also tends to be more brittle and harder to keep in good condition, so it is hard work for an older woman to have good-looking long hair. So, there's a reason why long hair is a sign of youth.

I like long hair but shoulder length can still be good. It's short hair, that cropped spikey or short back and sides look I'm not into.

I found this is generally the case. They also want you to fail and will enjoy it if you do. And, yes, unfortunately I think it's a largely British thing.

I also think the strip club analogy is quite good. It might be a bit extreme but it makes you think about the balance of power in these relations.

That's advice, man.

If she's BPD get rid of her whatever. You're better off without a woman than with a BPD woman.

Once attraction and respect are gone, it's over. I know it's hard to come to terms with, but it's best to walk away. Otherwise you're going to end up hurt and humiliated. If we're honest, we've all been there.

That must be a relief. You may well have dodged a bullet there, my friend.

I suggest you find the best divorce lawyer you can and speak to them before you do anything If you're wife is vindictive, she can ruin you - financially and professionally. Proceed with care after getting proper counsel from an expert. Please note - all divorce lawyers are not equal. There are...

This is the answer to the conundrum the OP is facing.

In my experience, a woman in a LTR going in for cosmetic surgery is a sign that she's more likely to stray. This can also be the case with other radical changes in appearance - weight loss, new wardrobe, hairstyle, etc. Especially when it all happens at once. I'm UK based BTW, I know cosmetic...

It's good that you've already reported this woman. But, for her, 'evidence' is easy. She can turn up at a police station with a few cuts and bruises and say you did it, and get one of her nutty friends to back her up. Trust me, it happens. She can also buy a burner phone and send text messages...

Agreed. Be proactive, otherwise you might be sorry. I suspect you'll be reluctant to report this because you're probably afraid that she'll make accusations against you if the police speak to her - and yes that is a possibility. But, she might do it anyway and you'll be in a much stronger...

Thanks, that makes sense. Although I guess that rule would apply to black men when they're with women from other backgrounds rather than a black man with a black woman.

Why should a black man end a relationship earlier than anybody else? I'm not try to be cantankerous, by the way. I'm just curious about your reasoning.

Excellent post in all respects, sir :up:

I agree. Best avoided if you know she's a nutter. The problem with some crazies, however, is that it's not always initially apparent.