I appreciate the feed back guys.... I didn't plan on saying nothing after reading your posts.. but it kinda happened anyways... my heart no longer feels so heavy ...
Epi
I ended up in a convo with her... she reached out about our son.... it went from there
As for the balance of the hurt... I think it was pretty equal... besides her finally pulling the plug... which I couldn't do...
Crazy you almost died 3x.... makes you appreciate life I bet.
I appreciate the feed back..... I sent my apology.... funny she msgd me first b4 I sent it.... we haven't spoken/texted in months... her ears musta been burning. She brought up dental shyt for our son... and then we had a civil back...
Is it sad?... I have been having an urge to reach out to my ex wife of 25yrs? We been apart 2.5yrs now with no closure really. Not even divorced yet. No hurry really.... I'll let her pay for that when she's ready. I didn't want it so I'm not paying for it. We are amicable and civil.
But I am...
I meet people all the time..... it would depend on the context.
My wife of 25yrs left me and nothing will ever be that hard. And as a result.... my heart has hardened and I couldn't care less if my new woman left me.... it either works or it doesn't.
Seeing more and more of posts like this has really turned me off of being here.. shows me the quality of men that frequent... yet.... men complain... "oh she's a *****" yet it's ok for them to behave the same.... no big deal right? Every where I read here it's double standards. Just like women...
Life is like a roll of toilet paper..... it goes faster as you get closer to the end.
Seriously.... when we are young we can't wait to be older and once we get there we are like wtf where did time go? Especially of you have kids... it multiplies this effect.
Epi
I'm 43.... my requirements are..
-Not fat
-Decent cook
-Enjoys hunting/fishing/outdoors
-No kids or at least adultish children (I did my time so I don't care how pretty she is.... young kids is a no for me)
-A decent job/self supportive
-Loyal
-Respectful
-Kind hearted and thoughtful...
I just gotta say.... love is Always conditional.. has to be. You wouldn't love someone if they beat you daily.... or if they cheated on youu but apologized every weekend after they did it..... no. There's lots of examples on why love is always conditional.
Lead your heart. Don't follow it...
I know the feeling brotha!
16 to 41 with my ex I'm 43 now... I was in love.... she left me for a guy with more money after our kids grew up (ages 23 and 17 now) ... I got the kids she left to other side of Canada.
Dated about 13 ladies... have found one that "works" right now.. sadly I have...
I'm 2yrs out of my marriage from my high school sweet heart. We had been together from 15 and 16.... she left me after 23+ yrs of marriage for an uglier guy with more money than I can compete with.... kids (23and 16) picked me after 1yr of Seperation. Anyways.... what I have learned is that you...
I was born in 1978.... so I think the younger generation is fvcked... so many women in the instant gratification mindset.... men too... too much micro analyzing... attention spans of one orgasm... pleasure seeking only.... and money hungry bytches.
I must be old.... lol..
Epi
Judging by everyone's "red flags" your all gunna be single forever... or gay...
99.9% of all women have at least 1 of every red flag mentioned... no ones perfect and the ones that seem perfect are often too good to be true... they are hiding their "red flags" as long as they can.
You should do the right thing and let the other lady you banged know.....
Always put a wrapper on your zapper. Guess some just Wana learn the hard way. *shrugs*
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