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If this was the case and she just wanted attention from an orbiter, wouldn't she say more to make sure I keep texting her?

Update: She left me on read yesterday. Texted me today "lol, it's fine" So she read my message yesterday, said nothing. Opened it up again and responded today. Looks like we got a game player, boys.

That's what this forum does to people. Turns their mind into a perpetual state of cynicism.

Who cares?

One thing you have to give me credit for, I'm keeping it short, and recognizing right away when she isn't adding to the convo. Then I go silent.

So what's a better option? Don't communicate with women at all? I'm being facetious, but checking in here and there is letting her know you're still there. If I went a month or so without any contact, she would assume I wasn't interested.

What's wrong with saying "How are you?" lol. And it's a bad thing to check in? I'm confused.

That seems like an odd thing to say from a woman who is interested in you, but... Regardless, I would respond with "No".

We're not fvcking. We met up once in early March. We've kept in touch here and there. Keep in mind, I have not asked her out since then. Why? I don't know. Guys, what's really weird is I have 5 plates right now, 3 of them are more "attractive" than her, but it's always the one that plays hard...

You guys give up too easily. I mean, she responds, she asks questions. I think we might be writing this one off a little to soon. I'm going to see how it plays out.

Well she said "Ya?" Like she was waiting for me to ask her again. But I didn't, I played it cool.

March 31st Me: One of these weekends we should have a rematch in pool Her: Ya? Me: Yeah, you were a good time (no response from her) April 16th Me: Hope your week is going well Her: Hey how r u? Me: Good, afternoon dragged. How are things? Her: Okay lol Me: That doesn't sound reassuring lol (no...

Why is she responding then? It's clearly not for attention, because we went two weeks without talking.

I hadn't texted her in two weeks. Tonight was the first time I reached out to her.

This girl I've been chatting with always responds, but is very short. Typically two, maybe 3 word answers. Could that just be her texting style? Or is it always a sign of low interest?

And you're best friends with those landscape guys, car guys, computer guys, plumbing guys? You have quite the wide network of friends. In this "hypothetical" situation, you are automatically assuming it's not even a remote possibility she's not banging, or having an affair any of these guys. You...

No offense, but there was nothing smooth or charming about your responses to her questions. You gotta have a little finesse, man. Sounds like the issue wasn't with the message she saw, it was the way you handled it. If the shoe was on the other foot and a woman responded that way to you, it...

You're telling me these women go on 3 or 4 dinner dates with guys for pure attention and free meals? Seriously. Does she not have money for food? Doubt it. You expect me to believe she's going to waste time on multiple dates with a guy she isn't interested in? You want to jump back into reality...

What you just said didn't make any sense. According to you, it was a business associate where she felt the *need* to meet up with because of work, which was one of the few exceptions I actually gave. Then you said she was there for validation. Well, which was it? Was she there because she had...

I'm not talking about chicks on the internet that these guys send money to. Those are thots, and those guys are suckers. Has nothing to do with orbiting. We're talking about real interactions between men and women. I don't know ANY women, in recent memory off the top of my head, that ever took...