Call a girl out on two word text responses?

[GreatHornedOwl]

This girl I've been chatting with always responds, but is very short. Typically two, maybe 3 word answers. Could that just be her texting style?

Or is it always a sign of low interest?

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Dont call her out bro. It'll make you look horrible.

Stop texting her, she's low interest. Golden rule, you want her to do 2/3's of the texting. You should be the one hitting her with 2 or 3 word texts.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

I hadn't texted her in two weeks. Tonight was the first time I reached out to her.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

I hadn't texted her in two weeks. Tonight was the first time I reached out to her.

And she hits you with 2 or 3 word texts back? Ay bro trust me, if she was hot for you she would be oozing happiness and excitement hrough her texts after 2 weeks of not talking.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

Why is she responding then? It's clearly not for attention, because we went two weeks without talking.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Why is she responding then? It's clearly not for attention, because we went two weeks without talking.

Just ask her out bro. MAYBE her texting style is like that but I doubt it. Only way to find out is by asking her out and see what she responds. Maybe post some screenshots of the texts here if you really want help.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

March 31st
Me: One of these weekends we should have a rematch in pool
Her: Ya?
Me: Yeah, you were a good time
(no response from her)

April 16th
Me: Hope your week is going well
Her: Hey how r u?
Me: Good, afternoon dragged. How are things?
Her: Okay lol
Me: That doesn't sound reassuring lol
(no response from her)

I'm trying to be mysterious, while not double texting. It just doesn't seem like she's giving me much to work with to initiate asking her out again.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

March 31st
Me: One of these weekends we should have a rematch in pool
Her: Ya?
Me: Yeah, you were a good time
(no response from her)

April 16th
Me: Hope your week is going well
Her: Hey how r u?
Me: Good, afternoon dragged. How are things?
Her: Okay lol
Me: That doesn't sound reassuring lol
(no response from her)

I'm trying to be mysterious, while not double texting. It just doesn't seem like she's giving me much to work with to initiate asking her out again.

This is dead. Move on to other prospects.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

Well she said "Ya?" Like she was waiting for me to ask her again. But I didn't, I played it cool.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Low interest and bad texting. Move on.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

You guys give up too easily. I mean, she responds, she asks questions. I think we might be writing this one off a little to soon. I'm going to see how it plays out.

 

[TheProspect]

Or is it always a sign of low interest?

Usually, but not always.

You'll find out her interest level when you attempt to plan a date and escalate on said date. So do that.

I'm currently seeing a chick who texts similarly to the girl you mentioned. It's just the way she texts. However, she shows up when I make plans and allows to me escalate. That's all that matters.

Don't get too wrapped up in one particular girl's texting style, and definitely don't call her out on it.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This girl I've been chatting with always responds, but is very short. Typically two, maybe 3 word answers. Could that just be her texting style?

Or is it always a sign of low interest?

If she is seeing you and fvcking you don't worry about it. I am dating a woman like this now. She hates texting and sends short responses but always sees me and we fvck like rabbits.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

We're not fvcking. We met up once in early March. We've kept in touch here and there.

Keep in mind, I have not asked her out since then. Why? I don't know.

Guys, what's really weird is I have 5 plates right now, 3 of them are more "attractive" than her, but it's always the one that plays hard to get or isn't interested that I want.

My attachment style has been like this since I was young. I don't know what the deal is. It's almost like I enjoy this feeling or something.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

We're not fvcking. We met up once in early March. We've kept in touch here and there.

Keep in mind, I have not asked her out since then. Why? I don't know.

Guys, what's really weird is I have 5 plates right now, 3 of them are more "attractive" than her, but it's always the one that plays hard to get or isn't interested that I want.

My attachment style has been like this since I was young. I don't know what the deal is. It's almost like I enjoy this feeling or something.

Likely she isn't interested at this time. Try again in a couple weeks.

 

[Xenom0rph]

OP, I have the answer to your question in this thread right HERE.....

Please read it in full and gain wisdom (should be a quick 2 minute read, it wasn't a long post)..

 

[Georgepithyou]

For crying out loud, LISTEN TO THE POSTERS HERE AND LEAVE HER.

 

[Barrister]

March 31st
Me: One of these weekends we should have a rematch in pool
Her: Ya?
Me: Yeah, you were a good time
(no response from her)

April 16th
Me: Hope your week is going well
Her: Hey how r u?
Me: Good, afternoon dragged. How are things?
Her: Okay lol
Me: That doesn't sound reassuring lol
(no response from her)

I'm trying to be mysterious, while not double texting. It just doesn't seem like she's giving me much to work with to initiate asking her out again.

A good rule of thumb is to never send “how are you” texts out of the blue or to check in out of nowhere. If you do initiate texts it should be lighthearted/fun and simple - not asking her how her day/week is going. That’s boring and makes you look very available for bullsh1t chit chat. Not a good look in early phase dating.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

What's wrong with saying "How are you?" lol. And it's a bad thing to check in? I'm confused.

 

[Barrister]

What's wrong with saying "How are you?" lol. And it's a bad thing to check in? I'm confused.

Yes. Checking in for the sake of checking in is not good. She’s not your girlfriend. You look too available.