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Another plate I'm spinning guys. We texted for a while, she always responded right away, and initiated half the time. I invited her out for drinks and she agreed. She calls me a half hour before we meet up and says "bring some friends." I've never had a woman say this to me, and it caught me a...

Now I know a lot of guys on this forum get plenty of action, but so does my friend, and his approach is vastly different. He's very patient. I've seen text messages from his phone where girls have given him excuses on why they can't hang out, but he keeps talking to them and ends up banging...

Women don't end a relationship and become single. They do it because there's another guy in the picture.

You're exactly right bill. The problem is, I knew it was a test. It's almost like I screwed up on purpose.

What you don't understand is that a lot of women will stay stuff like this to test you on how you're going to react.

It wasn't really a date. Her friends were there. She was playing bar dice when I walked in, lol. She did give me a hug when I walked up to her, though. And drink water? Sit there sober while everyone else is having a blast? Yeah, that's really going to impress her.

You know what I did? I got drunk and acted like an idiot. Apparently I was having a serious conversation with her, then I'd walk off for no reason to the other side of the bar. She said at times I wanted nothing to do with her, and was sending her mixed signals. She said I flirted, told her she...

Constant rejection sucks. It can only happen so many times before a guy has no self-esteem left.

I know this sounds crazy, but I think this chick digs me.

She texted me that she wants to be friends, but she isn't ready to open herself up or her heart right now. I texted back a smiley face. Her: You're not very open are you? Me: It's not in my nature. Her: Soo... idk what else to say. Me: Nothing really. You made your intentions perfectly...

Why are you so negative man?

*UPDATE* We ended up meeting for drinks, played some darts and had a great time.

What's that supposed to mean? Was that a cut?

I deleted her number. Maybe 15 minutes later she texted me: Her: Heyy (This was at 8 a.m.)

So, you don't think there's any chance she wants to get together?

I tried to make plans for this weekend and she basically blew me off, lol. Didn't you read what I wrote? Me: Hey, are you going to be around this weekend? Her: Unfortunately no, I'll be with my sister this weekend. What's up? What about next weekend maybe? Me: I wanted to see what you had going...

So, how should I handle this situation?

First of all, you quoted something I never said. Secondly, I never addressed how attractive she was. And of course I don't know her that well, I never said at any point in this thread that I did. My point was what I'm looking for at this point in my life is not a hookup. So what are you going...

What's your point here? What does that have to do with the update I gave? Are you trying to tell me I shouldn't want something more than just hookups? Why are people on this forum so weird?

Last week she told me possibly for this weekend. She's telling me maybe again. Make sure you read the info before you comment.