agreed. I think having so many options makes them hot/cold. My guess is they really do like you but then the next guy, etc makes them lose interest
HB9 go out with a great guy and he shows her fun night, etc. Then next day another Chad takes her to lunch. She meets a hot guy at the gym. Then...
Razorsharp- Just clarify its 3 different girls. But I’m open to the fact lots of girls doing this so I’m not naive. I assure I’m not showing interest. In fact, part of my question is how often do you all experience this sorta assumes lots of girls telling multiple guys this. But I get your...
All good points.
I’d rather not give out personal info.
Why do you think they switch to cold?
Hard to imagine going from ‘I’d like to spend rest of my life with you” to “oh, I saw your text and didn’t care for another date” in a matter of days (with no other factors except maybe they w someone...
I’ve mentioned this before but just happened again and I think it’s fascinating. Here is the pattern of extreme hot & cold and I’m curious from a psychological perspective what is going on?
(And before you say it, I’m not chasing these girls)
This same thing happened with 3 different girls...
Good Stuff - thank you guys
some key points-
becoming crazy cat ladies. This is for real and there are a few living near me. I’m sure these legitimately crazy old ladies were at one time relatively attractive young girls trying to act normal.
family/child issues- didn’t think of it but sadly 4...
Just discussing the hot/crazy girls from my HS with my guy friends from high school. Interesting, all of them single/divorced despite being 10’s.
The conversation noted they are getting worse mentally. Girls that were just sorta relationship crazy, clingy, a little weird from age 16-30...
Yes. Condoms are like 99% effective against most STDs but only 70% against HSV2. I believe this is because it is a ski disease and generally shows up anywhere from knees to waistline. So condom doesn't protect your scrotum, pubic area, etc.
I have a 4-5 guy friends that are around 200 notch count (mostly rawdog) and I believe them when they say they don't have it.
This is puzzling.
I wonder are they: (1) lucky (2) dating virgins (hah) (3) somehow more resistant (4) lying (5) is the CDC overestimating numbers (6) infected...
Good info. Thanks
The stigma is very powerful. After reading, I thought to myself... if 87% of the people didn't even go to a doctor it must not be that bad. But I still wouldn't want something that popped up every year.
PSA - I just read this and had to share
https://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes-detailed.htm
HSV-2 infection is more common among women than men; the percentages of those infected were 16% female versus 8% male, among 14-49 yearolds
(interestingly 35% of black females are infected-studies...
This has nothing to do with 2008 recession. It has everything to do with smart phones. High school kids interact with opposite sex 1/10 of what they used to. They are at home on electronics and at school they all sit around on their phones not talking. In 1995, boys/girls were sneaking out to...
So true. If you look at any couples dinner or guys at the bar, it is always the guys entertaining the girls and sharing the interesting stories, etc. The guys are telling funny stories and doing fun things while the girls just sit there.
On couples trips, it always the guys doing fun things...
It really is crazy how they pop back into your life when you least expect it with "what's up?/How are you?" text. I'm not sure if they are on a rough patch in their own life/boyfriend and looking for ego boost or a backup guy. Maybe bored. Maybe wanna hookup. Maybe they just miss you. Who knows...
Ever run into an old flame and think "what was I thinking" or "she's really aged poorly"
This happened to me a few times recently and I remembered this thread.
The decline for girls from age 27 to 31 is monumental
This is especially true if they party/don't exercise enough. A woman can age...
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=WGTOW
"Women Going to Obtain Welfare. After riding the carousel throughout their 20's, some women are abruptly shocked by metaphorical dating wall when it slowly dawns on them that men will no longer pay for everything"
I hadn't thought about this. They might suffer from ALPHA WIDOW.
These girls all dated some serious Super-Chad's in their early 20's. They didn't think much of them then, because they always dated Super-Chad's in HS/college. But now that they are 30, most of those guys are married and few...
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