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Insulting someone who disagrees with you isn't blunt, it's insecurity because you feel threatened that your viewpoint is inferior to the person who challenges your perspective. It's hard for me to take anyone who has 4,000 posts seriously. You are the classic "do as I say, not as I do". I'm...

I never once accused you of being a hater and failing miserably with women just because I disagree with your viewpoint, but apparently that's what you resort to. Perhaps a little projection? If you get this defensive over the internet when someone has an opinion that is different from yours, I...

The issue I have with your post is it's black and white thinking, like every other piece of advice on this forum. The main analogy you gave was trying to teach your dog to speak English. At the end of the day, he just can't do it. So you're inferring there's a group of guys that will not succeed...

So how many times has that been repeated on this forum that a certain amount of guys are going to be instantly disqualified? Is that positive reinforcement to newer and existing members who are struggling? Is that that the motivation they need? That's benefiting their game how? You're either...

It's incorrect according to who?

I knew exactly what his point was. That had nothing to do with the point I was making.

The mistake the OP makes is assuming a woman makes her decision within 5 minutes. If that were true, every guy she was attracted to would land a one night stand from the bar, since she made her decision so quickly. We all know that doesn't happen. A woman's attraction for a man typically builds...

What determines whether NC works is how heavily the woman's emotions were invested, and how it ended. If you were dating for a month or two and she called it off because there was no chemistry, it's over. If you were in a relationship with her for 2 years and you cheated, the woman will almost...

Not only did she mention her ex, but she followed it by mentioning sex? Then said "but" he has a girlfriend? Almost as if she's saying the only thing preventing her from sleeping with him is he's taken. One thing you absolutely do not want to do, is let your girlfriend know you overheard this...

How do you know it's not a good guy they're portraying to be a jerk?

A group of women gossiping around a table about men couldn't tell the truth if they were held at gunpoint. Anything I overheard would be totally disregarded.

Correct. He pays. It's the masculine thing to do. That must have been awkward, and I don't blame her for not wanting to meet up with him again.

I disagree. Ignoring her texts comes across like your feelings are hurt.

So from their behavior of being nice and trying to avoid hurting someone's feelings, you can only imagine how screwed up the rest of their life is? Now she's a narcissist and needs a dose of her own medicine? That makes absolutely no sense. Are you okay, dude?

Robert, you have to get over the bitterness man. It radiates in every post of yours. Look... most people, especially women, are non-confrontational. They're not going to come out and say "I'm not attracted to you, and don't want to date you." So they go the route of a soft rejection to not hurt...

Both examples were polite rejections that you didn't pick up on, regardless of what happened years previous.

You already told you her you can't make it Wednesday, so leave that be. For me to give you further advice, do you only view this girl as FWB, or do you want a relationship?

At least you recognize it. This forum conditions your mind to be cynical and paranoid if you're not careful. You're considering nexting her because she had a conversation with a guy? And she didn't make you breakfast and give you sex like she usually does? So unless she does this every day it's...

You're FWB, what are you worried about? Sounds like she's banging your brains out. Ghost her for what? That doesn't make any sense. Sounds like someone's catching feelings.

Don't listen to some of these guys. I would have felt played, and so would they. It's easy for them to say you got too invested, when they weren't in the situation.