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This has been happening recently, and it never used to. If there was no interest, she wouldn't meet up at all. And they're not getting a free dinner; we're having 1 or 2 drinks. Sometimes they even offer to pay for their own (which I actually take as a bad sign). I know it's hard to tell for...

From my experience in situations like this, the woman probably wasn't interested from the start. You'd have to screw up pretty bad to not hear back from her again, which probably isn't the case. Usually there's another guy in the picture. As far as waiting for her to reach out after the date...

What do you mean?

Yeah, you're right. I don't know why I jumped the gun and got defensive.

I think you're right EyeBRollin. Not every girl is a slvt and wants to jump into bed right away. And we had talked before and she had mentioned she was looking for something "casual". That's the only reason I mentioned going back to my place.

Me: Grab something to eat, then back to my place? Her: For what? lmao Me: That's where we have dessert Her: lol, sounds good but I have to work Saturday morning :(

It has been over a month since our first date, BTW.

Had a few drinks. Was there for maybe an hour. Walked her to her car. Hugged, and kissed for a few seconds. It usually takes this chick 1-2 hours to respond, every time. She's only quicker when we're about to meet up.

No keyboard warrior responses please.

This would be our second date. First was drinks, then I suggested a Mexican place and she responded with that. Maybe she's just flirting, I'm not sure. Her response kind of rubbed me the wrong way. Thoughts?

What's feminine is expecting the woman to reach out after the date. We are the men, it's our job to pursue. We lead, they follow. If you don't reach out at some point after a first date, they're going to assume you're not interested. Don't make this more complicated than it needs to be.

The only thing I disagree with, is advising him not to reach out a few days later after the date. What's he supposed to do? Women are going to assume you're not interested if you don't. It's not like they're going to think "omg he's sooo mysterious, I'm going to message him and set up the next...

When you deal with a woman who posts those type of pictures, that's what you get.

When you get rejected, it's because she's not interested. When you get dumped, it's because she met someone else.

How long were you two together?

How did he pass away if I may ask?

You stopped a 3 girl rotation when you started dating this woman. I knew right then and there she was the one who called it off.

We hung out as "friends" the following weekend. The weekend after we had sex.

That seems like a big red flag to me, but she wants to grab a drink on Friday night. Something about that rubs me the wrong way. Thoughts?

That other guy she left the 3 LTR for... was me. Never expressed interest. We were friends. Clicked well, got along. Made each other laugh. We were at work and I kissed her... 4 years after I met her. Of course I dealt with many women in between that period, but the point remains the same. And...