GreatHornedOwl
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 11, 2010
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How long were you two together?
like 9 monthsHow long were you two together?
Prologue
So there was some talk about my gf having fancy dinner plans with her family this New Years and I didn't want to just invite myself to it, so I was just kind of waiting for her to tell me the details if I was invited. Fast forward to like 6pm and she tells me that she's going to a party with her friends(her friends do not like me because she I'm the evil bf to them because she shvt talks about me to them/I do the same thing with my friends about her so this is why I have left this alone). She then gets upset because I never invited her to do anything, and I said I don't celebrate New Years Eve because it is the worst holiday and that I thought she had better arrangements than just sitting at my apartment lol. Her response is passively aggressive, but she leaves me alone from this point.
The Incident
This girl calls me crying saying some guy was stalking her and kissed her and grabbed her and that she was sexually assaulted. I tell her that she needs to leave the party immediately/arrange a uber or drive and she says that's not happening and that I should just drive 40 minutes to downtown with 4 shots of whiskey in and meet her. I tell her that's not happening because I cannot drive and that if she gets an uber to my place or even her parents then I will taker her to her car the next day. She basically tells me to fvck off and hangs up. Afterwards, I fall asleep because I'm drunk and there's really nothing I can do.
The Fight
I wake up to her calling my phone like at 3am and she's crying again saying that I'm a pos for just falling asleep after she told me she was sexually assaulted and that I'm the worst boyfriend in the world. You can hear her friends in the background shvt talking me and trying to calm her down and basically she's not rationalizing with me and the only thing I could've done was just basically try and chase her down. She basically dumps me on speaker phone and proceeds to keep texting nasty text messages and that's basically going to cheat on me tonight because I deserve it, and her friends take care of her better than I ever will. My response is that if they are so great, why do they let you get "sexually assaulted" at parties and that makes her even more mad. Oh, she also tells me she is sober at this point at which Idk if she was lying or not, so that made me more upset because she could've just left the party. I basically tell her that unless she does not sleep at my apt tonight then I'm going to assume that you cheated on me tonight and that I can actually make her feel 10 times worse if she wants to keep badgering me. She doesn't know that I have side girl and that I went on a two week trip to Greece and Italy with her. I didn't tell her this because I didn't want my tires slashed, but eventually I admitted/apologized that I was a shvttty bf and that you shouldn't keep trying to date me if I'm that much of a pos. I never got a response after that, but didn't expect to wake up a free man in 2022. 2021 wasn't the worst year of my life, but it damn right could've been if I didn't have the knowledge and experience I have developed over the course of my life. I already have two dates planned next week and I've gotten off my workout/diet routine due to stress from this dating bish and my new job, so it's time to get rolling again.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Everytime someone mentions NYE party, I immediately think about them wretched garden-tools seen in this dailymail article:The 5 Times Of Year When Most Breakups Occur, And Why
There's an old misconception that no one gets dumped on Valentine's Day. This comes from the romantic folklore that any couple that makes it through the "turkey drop" — the annual pre-Thanksgiving breakup frenzy that sweeps through the nation,…www.bustle.com
Pretty much all of November-March is bad for breakups. Divorce filings are most common January-March.
Thanksgiving - New Years' Day was designed for women, beta males, and families. They were not designed for single, unattached/marginally attached childless men.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Looks like a normal Saturday night in large cities around the UK.Everytime someone mentions NYE party, I immediately think about them wretched garden-tools seen in this dailymail article:
January the thirst! NYE revellers ring in the roaring Twenties
There were raucous scenes in London, Birmingham, Manchester, Cardiff, Newcastle, Swansea, Leeds, Blackpool and in Edinburgh as the UK entered a new decade.www.dailymail.co.uk
it is, british women are an embarassment, and theyve all got 20% fatter since those pics were took 1 year agoLooks like a normal Saturday night in large cities around the UK.
Just noticed the article was 1 Jan 2020, thought it was this year!it is, british women are an embarassment, and theyve all got 20% fatter since those pics were took 1 year ago
Did the sexual assault even happen or was this her staging drama to set you up as the bad guy?. Most girls shut down and hide if they have been sexually assaulted, not call you and pick a fight.Prologue
So there was some talk about my gf having fancy dinner plans with her family this New Years and I didn't want to just invite myself to it, so I was just kind of waiting for her to tell me the details if I was invited. Fast forward to like 6pm and she tells me that she's going to a party with her friends(her friends do not like me because she I'm the evil bf to them because she shvt talks about me to them/I do the same thing with my friends about her so this is why I have left this alone). She then gets upset because I never invited her to do anything, and I said I don't celebrate New Years Eve because it is the worst holiday and that I thought she had better arrangements than just sitting at my apartment lol. Her response is passively aggressive, but she leaves me alone from this point.
The Incident
This girl calls me crying saying some guy was stalking her and kissed her and grabbed her and that she was sexually assaulted. I tell her that she needs to leave the party immediately/arrange a uber or drive and she says that's not happening and that I should just drive 40 minutes to downtown with 4 shots of whiskey in and meet her. I tell her that's not happening because I cannot drive and that if she gets an uber to my place or even her parents then I will taker her to her car the next day. She basically tells me to fvck off and hangs up. Afterwards, I fall asleep because I'm drunk and there's really nothing I can do.
The Fight
I wake up to her calling my phone like at 3am and she's crying again saying that I'm a pos for just falling asleep after she told me she was sexually assaulted and that I'm the worst boyfriend in the world. You can hear her friends in the background shvt talking me and trying to calm her down and basically she's not rationalizing with me and the only thing I could've done was just basically try and chase her down. She basically dumps me on speaker phone and proceeds to keep texting nasty text messages and that's basically going to cheat on me tonight because I deserve it, and her friends take care of her better than I ever will. My response is that if they are so great, why do they let you get "sexually assaulted" at parties and that makes her even more mad. Oh, she also tells me she is sober at this point at which Idk if she was lying or not, so that made me more upset because she could've just left the party. I basically tell her that unless she does not sleep at my apt tonight then I'm going to assume that you cheated on me tonight and that I can actually make her feel 10 times worse if she wants to keep badgering me. She doesn't know that I have side girl and that I went on a two week trip to Greece and Italy with her. I didn't tell her this because I didn't want my tires slashed, but eventually I admitted/apologized that I was a shvttty bf and that you shouldn't keep trying to date me if I'm that much of a pos. I never got a response after that, but didn't expect to wake up a free man in 2022. 2021 wasn't the worst year of my life, but it damn right could've been if I didn't have the knowledge and experience I have developed over the course of my life. I already have two dates planned next week and I've gotten off my workout/diet routine due to stress from this dating bish and my new job, so it's time to get rolling again.
oh it gets better, she was fired from work last week and threatened a lawsuit but she was apparently partying with work friends lmao
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
9 months too long. Too much dramalike 9 months
so what would a victim of sexual assault do during a party environment?9 months too long. Too much drama
Men,Prologue
So there was some talk about my gf having fancy dinner plans with her family this New Years and I didn't want to just invite myself to it, so I was just kind of waiting for her to tell me the details if I was invited. Fast forward to like 6pm and she tells me that she's going to a party with her friends(her friends do not like me because she I'm the evil bf to them because she shvt talks about me to them/I do the same thing with my friends about her so this is why I have left this alone).
She would definitely leave and most likely go home, hide and retreat into herself. Trauma usually causes a woman to become withdrawn and distant and hide, not seek to pick a fight and seek a person to bang and shove it in your face.so what would a victim of sexual assault do during a party environment?
okay, this is what I thought too. I’m glad I’m not the only one that thinks this.She would definitely leave and most likely go home, hide and retreat into herself. Trauma usually causes a woman to become withdrawn and distant and hide, not seek to pick a fight and seek a person to bang and shove it in your face.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.