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In my experience really attractive women don't throw themselves at anyone... mostly because they don't know how.. they have never had to do this. Oh, I've seen really attractive women in some kind of 'competition' with other chicks at a club or party over a guy, but none of that has anything...

I have seen tats of women that just completely turn me off. One woman I met, I really liked, she was a yoga instructor and later when I saw her without her clothes, she had this epically horrendous tat on her back. It was this weird as fvck giant thing... I can't even begin to describe. She...

I really don't have anything against people who get tattoos, people can do whatever the fvck they want with their bodies. Having said that, I just don't get it. It's like seeing a shirt you really like when you are 18, then on the spot agreeing that you are going to wear the same shirt...

It is MUCH better to be alone than to be shackled to a chick that really doesn't want you.

True. You walk away because you don't want to waste your time. You have to get to the point where it bothers you that women come back when you ignore them... rather than hoping they do start chasing you. I blame PUAs and relationship coaches for this bull cr@p, they teach this as a way for...

If alcohol is causing you to behave in such a way, do yourself a favor and quit drinking. When I hit my late 40s I discovered my body just could not process alcohol like I used to and significantly cut back. Now when I go out I limit myself to one drink, then the rest of the night drink tonic...

You are acting like a toddler who had their toy taken away. You need to get control of your emotions. You are NOT behaving like a man that has a lot of options. We have ALL lost women to other dudes... this happens all the fvcking time to EVERYONE. You just need to forget about her and date...

I never cut anyone off... they cut themselves off. He's my Saint's game buddy. If he stops being a fun guy going to games, or if he turns into a non-productive basket case, yeah I'd stop spending time with him. It's not like he is always whining about chicks, thinking he is just a victim...

This is so true. Nothing dries up a woman faster than constantly having to let you know they 'like' you. If you don't get the message, and fail to act on it, the window closes. Some chicks it closes fast as hell... some will give you more time to do something, but eventually if you don't take...

True... I will also add "If you haven't learned and need another lesson, you will get it." Life is a b1tch, get used to it.

Go on a date or study. Not both. Do this for the same reason you don't go the bathroom and eat at the same time. These things are mutually exclusive.

I think you are doing fine and don't need advice you are making an effort. That's really all that matters. Just don't worry about making mistakes, just learn from them.... and know what works for one isn't going to work with another. Focus on yourself and what you want and not so much on...

"Experience is the most brutal of teachers but you learn, my God, do you learn." CS Lewis It's sort of unfair really... life gives the test first.... then you learn.

This guy has had really horrible luck with women... there really is nothing wrong with him, decent dude, maybe a tad on the heavy side (6' 205lbs), late 40s but he carries it well. Makes a good living, 6 figs, stable... normal... married once for 12 years (divorced 8 years ago), no kids...

Human beings do not love unconditionally... men... women.... we are the same. Men have old t-shirts they just can not throw away. This isn't love, it's habit and attachment. The average woman is more emotional, and their responses to stimulation can change as quickly as her feelings. So it...

Maybe... but my point is that you should never go out and do something just because you think you are going to get laid. They might be motivated, but if you are not having fun then you will not be attractive. If you like being in crowds with lots of noise and drinking then absolutely go out...

Well.... more break ups happen on New Years Eve than any other time of the year. You were on your way out anyway and she was just looking for an excuse to cut you loose. You did nothing wrong, she's just letting you know your turn on the ride is over. Just go find another chick that just...

I never go out on NYE... it's just a sh1t show.

Nothing you do will work with any woman that really isn't attracted to you. Women will let you know when you have an open door to do something, you just have to keep your eyes open and notice, and mirror her behavior. Then it's just making an effort and not fumbling the ball on the goal line.

Never allow yourself to be used. Also do not use other people. EVERYTHING needs to be reciprocity. Using people creates enemies long term... being used creates selfish users with bad attitudes. Do this with EVERY person, not just chicks, and you will have a better life. I do this with...