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  1. RangerMIke

    Handling Breakups

    Don't worry about this. Her being mad is not a bad thing. It means at some level she still cares. If you want another turn on the ride, worst would be her saying with a smile "Of course... here you go." Apathy is worst than anger.
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    Is this mind gaming or just low IL? Need Advice.

    Trust your gut. What do you think?
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    The different female sexual strategies

    It's really not this complicated. All women tend to behave the same way no matter how old they are. How attractive they are and how much attention they get based on this attractiveness. Everything is based on the level of male attention she gets. I know very good looking 45 year olds that...
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    Girls should be the most important thing to you

    Well... if the OP didn't do the best he can to be attractive to women, didn't have a job and salary sufficient enough to date women, or had a good life.... well.... he wouldn't have women. So if the attainment of these things are required to get women... then how can women be the most...
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    Returning stuff to ex

    Set up a time when you can drop these things off. Be polite and just bring it to her. Have her go through it and confirm everything is there and you are done. Even better have all her stuff packed up and set by the door for her to get them, don't let her in, or if you are dropping off don't...
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    High testosterone attracts femininity

    No problem with what the OP posted but it's really not that complicated. Plan things you want to do... have fun.... don't try to impress her. The minute you stop being a little selfish and start caring about what she wants is when you start losing her. So if you are dressing and behaving is...
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    Chick wants to facetime before meeting up.

    This is easy to do, and you get to see her. Not a problem, I would do it. Just make sure you ask for something in return. Tell her you will face time, but she has to do a little dance while you FTing.
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    Friendzone is a MYTH

    Hate the term 'friend-zone' it's stupid. This condition just means that a chick is not physically attracted to you. She likes you: doesn't want to fvck you. Everything starts with the chick... she either wants you or she doesn't... not a fvcking thing in the world you can do to change that...
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    Explanations on how ugly guys get hotter girls

    Poisson distribution theory. When something out of the ordinary happens we place too much value on the significance of the event. A vast majority of good looking women WILL BE with obviously attractive men.... so we do not notice that. When we see the opposite, then we stop... look... and...
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    Gray hair: keep or dye?

    If dying your hair makes you feel better then do it, otherwise don't.
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    Should you hide being rich?

    It's actually the little things that give you away.... it's in the details. The kind of shirt you wear, what kind of wallet you have, do you have a good haircut, is your car clean and well maintained. Women are epic level spies... you aren't hiding if you have no money: you aren't hiding that...
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    Should you hide being rich?

    She'll figure it out anyway... you aren't fooling her.
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    Reading indicators of interest IOIs

    All I can say is trust your gut. Don't waste time wondering if a chick is interested, assume she is and just go talk to her. Most of this lizard brain stuff is sub-conscious anyway. Don't waste time trying to rationalize emotional decision making.
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    Dating Lessons you've learnt the HARD way?

    This. She's in or she's not. If not, don't waste time on her.... too many women in the world for you to beat your head against a wall.
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    High interest vs Raising Attraction

    There is a difference between attraction and interest. Attraction is surface level 'lizard brain' stuff (looks, perception)... men pretty much live here all the time. If we are attracted to a woman, we tend to ignore those things that SHOULD lower our interest. It tends to take a long time...
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    Stop fixating on targets and outcomes. Instead fixate on PROCESS

    Well.... not just young women, no woman wants to be judged. But don't take @Atom Smasher too literally, his point is valid, but rather than using the term "judge", a better description is that she fits you. She is trying to see if you fit her: the man should do the same. But everything starts...
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    Stop fixating on targets and outcomes. Instead fixate on PROCESS

    Yep.... that is what it is. You are just starting up a conversation with a stranger. That is all it is at the start. PUAs have totally fvcked up everything by suggesting EVERYTHING is part of gaming. I hate the term 'cold approach' because it immediately assumes that the woman you are...
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    Stop fixating on targets and outcomes. Instead fixate on PROCESS

    If you want to complement a woman, do it. The only advice I will give is that it should be a sincere compliment. If it is something you REALLY admire, then giving a compliment is authentic. Just be warned if you over do it then you will come off as manipulative, which is a turn off. Another...
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    Stop fixating on targets and outcomes. Instead fixate on PROCESS

    This is why I keep coming back here. Love this comment, and it is so true. To put this in military terms... NEVER reinforce failure: always reinforce success. The problem I see with most men is they throw resources at PROBLEMS thinking they can fix something, rather than saving those...
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    Rating Ways to Meet Women

    First, she KNOWS when you are complimenting her clothes, you are commenting about her body... without being a total creep and telling her she has nice t1ts. The important thing is that you are giving her a reason for why you are approaching. Here is a couple of examples of things I've used...
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