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Its not up to you, it's up to her, and you probably wouldn't even know it.

I wonder if OP isn't confusing her "emotional" investment as romantic bonding instead of sexual bonding. Women view these two things different, but will still seem like she "caught feelings" when she really is enjoying the sexual bonding. No romantic emotions involved.

How old is she?

Are we thinking she likes horses?

Such as?

Would you feel the same if you didn't have kids?

@BeExcellent What's your opinion on this?

This is an obvious but profound statement.

Welcome to the club!

How can one suss out what they're not doing well when the test variable(the individual woman) is constantly changing? What might not work for one woman due to any random emotional reason, might not work for another woman due to a completely different random reason. But will be fine with another...

It's OVER for UnBalancedSerotoninCels

How do you get women comfortable enough with shibari before any previous sexual activity? I've taken an interest in shibari, and may look for a rope bunny soon.

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I know you weren't. I was just reiterating that was on the extreme end, for those who don't understand it.

What do you consider masculine traits?

Can you go into detail about what makes you unapologetically masculine?

That's an extreme example of accommodating. Being too accommodating before one gets to that point will still dry her up. I wasn't a door mat back then, but still too accommodating. As another fling told me... "I don't know.... Sometimes I just want to be told NO."

This was my first rejection excuse. Really it means too accommodating aka too big of a bittch simp.

Then why add the "unless you're hot..." dis-qualifier to the Mode 1 suggestion? Why not just tell him to either gain social experience with just conversing about people or go bold with the "...sexy....want to bang" mode 1 approach?

So you're saying that average looking men can still use the bold "I find you sexy let's bang" overt communication and see results with average success, the same as better/ model looking men? Exceptions to the rule are pointless as most on this site are not the exceptions.