Can someone please give me a rationale explanation about this

[AmsterdamAssassin]

This was my first rejection excuse. Really it means too accommodating aka too big of a bittch simp.

Yes, if a guy acts like a doormat and lets her walk all over him, he's not exactly tickling her fancy.

 

[CornbreadFed]

So I dug in some more info and apparently most of his gfs have been NEETs without vehicles.

 

[Solomon]

So my friend’s brother is consistently rotating girlfriends with little dry times in between…max a month, and he breaks every rule according to this site. His Gfs are decent in looks, so he’s not dating trolls either.

He’s 5ft 5, Asian, lives in his moms basement, constantly gets bailed out by his mom, dresses Gen Z feminine/Anime, doesn’t have a degree, his dates are 90% and chill on the couch, non dominant personality, and average in looks. The only explanations I can come up with are that he doesn’t date white women, he dates NEETs/younger blue collars, and he has that negging nerdy personality.

Inb4 some stupid Alpha fvcks beta bucks nonsense or he signed some covert contract to be completely submissive and that’s how he pulls them.

I remember in late 2013-2014 I use to go out with a broke guy who was 5'5, 140 pounds soaking wet, and had the best field rate I have ever seen (50% pull rate meaning if we went out Friday and Saturday he would pull one of those days for sure) the guy was RSD follower, and did RSD style approaches religiously meanwhile at the time I was 6'0(still am) in the best shape of my life and he was dusting me infield.

A lot of the black and white generalizations are true on here for the most part but when you get a guy who doesn't care about social conventions, believes in himself, and is willing to put in the work no matter how hard, you have outliers and exceptions like him

 

[DonJuanjr]

Yes, if a guy acts like a doormat and lets her walk all over him, he's not exactly tickling her fancy.

That's an extreme example of accommodating. Being too accommodating before one gets to that point will still dry her up. I wasn't a door mat back then, but still too accommodating. As another fling told me... "I don't know.... Sometimes I just want to be told NO."

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

That's an extreme example of accommodating. Being too accommodating before one gets to that point will still dry her up. I wasn't a door mat back then, but still too accommodating. As another fling told me... "I don't know.... Sometimes I just want to be told NO."

I'm not saying you are a doormat.
I'm saying some men 'act like doormats' and offer too little resistance. And I guess you understand that you have to tell a woman 'no' once in a while or she will consider you a pushover.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Height, hair, and money are the your Big 3 for success.

Face.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I'm not saying you are a doormat.
I'm saying some men 'act like doormats' and offer too little resistance. And I guess you understand that you have to tell a woman 'no' once in a while or she will consider you a pushover.

I know you weren't. I was just reiterating that was on the extreme end, for those who don't understand it.

 

[RangerMIke]

Are you sure that she was specifically selecting for fat guys or perhaps they had some other trait that they all shared which she liked? How fat are we talking here? The average American adult is overweight, so this isn't like we are talking about a small niche population for her to choose from.

Don't know... maybe... Good point, I didn't know any of these men. only what they looked like.