Can someone please give me a rationale explanation about this

[RangerMIke]

He's a type. Women have types. He's good at finding women that like what he has. There are plenty of women that are into thin Asian dudes.

Find women that are interested in what you have, if she is into men with dark hair, brown eyes, with a foreign accent. He will beat out a man that is blonde, blues eyes, rich, with muscles.

No one man can get any woman he wants... he can only get the women that are interested in what he has.

 

[MtmVaott]

It's because he "has frame". He is not self-conscious about living at home, being mama-boy, dressing like a f@g, not being that successful, being short, ... He could see himself that negatively. But he doesn't. Maybe he never will.
I think in our society (western), men like him are the ideal (right now).
If he will smoothly change into being more mature, changing his views and life slowly, he'll be confident throughout the time.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

I agree with @RangerMIke. He is probably smart and has learned to stay in his lane. Most men just shoot at everything that moves so of course there'll be missed shots.

 

[RangerMIke]

I agree with @RangerMIke. He is probably smart and has learned to stay in his lane. Most men just shoot at everything that moves so of course there'll be missed shots.

I knew this guy who just lost it over this chick. She was pretty hot, and she passed on him and started dating this fat dude. My friend was beside himself... couldn't believe it. Anyway, I know this woman, every dude that she spent time dating was fat... she digs fat dudes... it happens. I know women that will only date bald guys... I know women who would NEVER date a bald guy. You really won't know what a woman is into until you try and make something happen... If nothing materializes... then you are not her type... just move on.

What makes this all confusing for men is the chick that digs fat dudes.... well one morning she might wake up and decide she likes dudes that are into fitness. The fat dude she is dating won't know what hit him... and he thinks it's something he did.... Nope, it's just that the woman's emotions took her in another direction... can't control that... you just move on and let the next dude have a turn.

 

[BadBoy89]

Inb4 some stupid Alpha fvcks beta bucks nonsense or he signed some covert contract to be completely submissive and that’s how he pulls them.

Love it when guys tell a story that fits every stereotype, look for an explanation, and then say “but don’t tell me this because this is not the case”

That’s like saying “I need advice but just tell me what I want to hear“

Not made up at all.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Love it when guys tell a story that fits every stereotype, look for an explanation, and then say “but don’t tell me this because this is not the case”

That’s like saying “I need advice but just tell me what I want to hear“

Not made up at all.

get out of your feelings

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Women have low standards these days.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Women like 'trouble(d) men', especially 'reformed' bad boys who are 'trying to get their life in order', because women like to be needed and being able to influence a bad boy to go straight.

Just like some men love “bad bitches” and try to wife up women that are only suitable as cvm dumpsters.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

This thread reminds me of this SWU episode I watched early this year. If I recall correctly this guy slept with loads of women, including others’ wives and girlfriends, all while having not a dime to his name and heavily drinking.

So much for grinding, hustling, and “doing the work.” Likely the most time efficient and least costly, but most reckless and dangerous, way of attracting women aside from being strikingly handsome is being violent, criminal, bummy, or edgy. Those who plan on waiting for some unforeseen date on which they finally actualize their decades-long goal of emerging in middle-age as a gorillionaire silver Fox with an assortment of toys and a McMansion to get women might want to take notice.

Here’s the video. Even much of the sympathetic comments are from women. Haha.

I believe that the key to fast attraction is activation of lizard brain. This is they reason black dudes have an edge. They are intimidating due to their rep and swagger. This shuts down habitual calculation on a woman's brain. Only 10% of white dudes could pull this off as we are conditioned to be part of society which is good but not good for attraction.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Btw ur asian friend sounds like a niche. He also sounds like he has a special gift for negging and doesn't take women's ****iness personally which is thee biggest reason I'll never get laid in the US. I take girls bitchiness and feminist traits way too personally. It causes me to become resentful and wanna ghost women super quick.

 

[corrector]

So my friend’s brother is consistently rotating girlfriends with little dry times in between…max a month, and he breaks every rule according to this site. His Gfs are decent in looks, so he’s not dating trolls either.

He’s 5ft 5, Asian, lives in his moms basement, constantly gets bailed out by his mom, dresses Gen Z feminine/Anime, doesn’t have a degree, his dates are 90% and chill on the couch, non dominant personality, and average in looks. The only explanations I can come up with are that he doesn’t date white women, he dates NEETs/younger blue collars, and he has that negging nerdy personality.

Inb4 some stupid Alpha fvcks beta bucks nonsense or he signed some covert contract to be completely submissive and that’s how he pulls them.

The answer is simple. He has the X factor.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Its just being associated with a culture, and having a personality baseda round it. Someone with any type of real culture and self expression will beat out most average guys who have no self expression and lack a personality/social archetype.

@CornbreadFed

I and others in the past on here have spoken about having an archetype that women are interested in. There are a plethora of them but some common ones are athlete/gym buff, skaterboy, rock n roll head, street dude/hip hop culture kinda guy, businessman who enjoys cigars and fine luxuries, and in this case, anime gender fluid kid, ... Another example of gender fluidity that women were attracted to for a while was the emo/scene archetype. We had one kid in highschool who kinda looked like magician Criss Angel in his prime, but way more scene.. almost every girl found him attractive/cute.. despite him coming across as pretty feminine.. eventhe ghetto chicks who chased after the gangbangers and thugs.

 

[sangheilios]

I’m not being sarcastic. He likely gets women precisely because of what you’ve written. Contrary to popular RP belief, women are attested to a variety of archetypes, not just Chad, Tyrone, and gorillionaires. Some women like bums and scumbags who don’t have a red can’t to their names. Back in high school, one of the biggest womanizers I knew dropped out and spent the majority of his days in his unsupervised, fatherless home smoking weed, drinking, and doing other drugs.

The guy you described might have a higher SMV than some ordinary guy working on his STEM degree. To think young all young women go for men with good qualities. Pfft!

I think there are a lot of variables as to why some women seem to go for guys like this, and I've also seen this many times. You are totally right that different women will have various "types" that they go for.

I can cite a couple examples where women were rejecting men that were "too nice". Basically, when you listened to the story and really paid attention the trend was that these men didn't really create drama and were just normal/stable men. Now, why these women needed a lot of drama in their life I don't know. This type of behavior is far more common in women from lower class backgrounds based upon what I've seen.

Something else that I feel is at play is that some women that are insecure or have low self esteem may feel that they don't deserve a decent guy. They basically self sabotage the relationship and end up going for the opposite, which is what they are more comfortable with.

 

[sangheilios]

I knew this guy who just lost it over this chick. She was pretty hot, and she passed on him and started dating this fat dude. My friend was beside himself... couldn't believe it. Anyway, I know this woman, every dude that she spent time dating was fat... she digs fat dudes... it happens. I know women that will only date bald guys... I know women who would NEVER date a bald guy. You really won't know what a woman is into until you try and make something happen... If nothing materializes... then you are not her type... just move on.

What makes this all confusing for men is the chick that digs fat dudes.... well one morning she might wake up and decide she likes dudes that are into fitness. The fat dude she is dating won't know what hit him... and he thinks it's something he did.... Nope, it's just that the woman's emotions took her in another direction... can't control that... you just move on and let the next dude have a turn.

Are you sure that she was specifically selecting for fat guys or perhaps they had some other trait that they all shared which she liked? How fat are we talking here? The average American adult is overweight, so this isn't like we are talking about a small niche population for her to choose from.

 

[CornbreadFed]

So I dug in some more info and apparently most of his gfs have been NEETs without vehicles.

 

[Solomon]

So my friend’s brother is consistently rotating girlfriends with little dry times in between…max a month, and he breaks every rule according to this site. His Gfs are decent in looks, so he’s not dating trolls either.

He’s 5ft 5, Asian, lives in his moms basement, constantly gets bailed out by his mom, dresses Gen Z feminine/Anime, doesn’t have a degree, his dates are 90% and chill on the couch, non dominant personality, and average in looks. The only explanations I can come up with are that he doesn’t date white women, he dates NEETs/younger blue collars, and he has that negging nerdy personality.

Inb4 some stupid Alpha fvcks beta bucks nonsense or he signed some covert contract to be completely submissive and that’s how he pulls them.

I remember in late 2013-2014 I use to go out with a broke guy who was 5'5, 140 pounds soaking wet, and had the best field rate I have ever seen (50% pull rate meaning if we went out Friday and Saturday he would pull one of those days for sure) the guy was RSD follower, and did RSD style approaches religiously meanwhile at the time I was 6'0(still am) in the best shape of my life and he was dusting me infield.

A lot of the black and white generalizations are true on here for the most part but when you get a guy who doesn't care about social conventions, believes in himself, and is willing to put in the work no matter how hard, you have outliers and exceptions like him

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Height, hair, and money are the your Big 3 for success.

Face.

 

[RangerMIke]

Are you sure that she was specifically selecting for fat guys or perhaps they had some other trait that they all shared which she liked? How fat are we talking here? The average American adult is overweight, so this isn't like we are talking about a small niche population for her to choose from.

Don't know... maybe... Good point, I didn't know any of these men. only what they looked like.