Her reaction tells me she definately gave the other guy a lot of thought.
You said she may not have cheated but she sure thought about it. Her reaction gave that away
The sudden shift in her attitude towards you is 100% another dog in the yard. She is getting new attention.
When things are going great and she blind sides you with this sudden change in attitude, you can bet it is a new guy giving her attention.
You should always be too busy for an ex. Period. She wants to see you "sorry love. I already have plans. Sorry dear. Too busy. " No matter what time she throws out.
She wanted to break up because she was receiving new attention and is looking to blame you "not enough effort," because women...
If she was a willing partipant and she participated in the act and everything was consentual them there is nothing to apologize for.
"I'm sorry we had sex that you willingly participated in and i'm sorry you enjoyed it?"
Is that what she's looking for? Or is she looking for an apology for...
I also have a younger sister and have been in your shoes many times. I found if you voice your opinion that you disapprove it will drive her faster into his arms. If you keep quiet the ship will eventually right itself. She will eventually see him for what he is. The only time i ever ever ever...
Why at midnight? The big question is she doing it on the sneek and Is she trying to hide it from you or are you the type that stay up late and she is texting "friends" with you knowing about it?
If she is doing behind your back you immediately terminate. No blow up no emotional reaction. Just...
Could be narcissists behaviour could be she is aware of her narcissistic behaviour could be someone had called her one before. She could have responded because they have increadibly fragil ego's and they do want to drag you into their drama to get their narcissistic supply, but in this case you...
Give it a week of space then ask her out again. The next day may have seemed a bit thirsty to her. After a week ask her out again if she acts distant again i think you have your answer.
No offence taken. I agree you don't want to date a dead beat mother that is Huge red flag. I 100% agree. Your kids rely on you they need you and being a proper parent they should be their first priority, but a woman can be a wonderful mother who loves and provides for and nurtures her kids AND...
This is why i am a firm believer in you give a girl 1 chance. One. If she blows that chance she is history. Remember you are GIVING HER A CHANCE TO BE WITH YOU. You are the prize not her.
When you give them multiple chances you are teaching them to disrespect you. Bottom line, you are...
Thanks for more background, you said a magic sentence in there that told me everything i needed to know.
"I was the lowest priority."
This tells me the relationship meant nothing to her. So when someone makes you their lowest priority, they become your lowest priority.
You are now too...
She broke up with you to go after or be with another guy. That didn't work out and now she is dropping bread crumbs to see if she can get some validation and free attention. She may regret breaking up with you but actions have consequences. I don't buy the BS about the pill being the problem...
She showed her true colours and there is nothing redeming about her at all. Kick her out. If you have to take your son and leave. She already abandonded him(and you) once, she will do it again.
it is Better for your son to see a father who stands up for his convictions and morals and walks away...
Blocking her was 100% the right move.
I usually say ignore all texts from ex's because even answering them with " hi " or " " hey what's up " shows them ( even if it isn't true ) that you still care about them. They get validated and their ego boosted.
That being said guys still do feel the need...
"What started out good has now become stressful and pressurised.'
This says everything. You were enjoying the fake her in the beginning and now she is letting the real her out and it is in your words
it is stressful and preassurised.
Sounds like you and her are at different places in the...
She is justifing her poor behaviour. She thinks she deserved secutiy even after admitting she never loved her husband. She thinks she deserved security after using her husband. She thinks she deserved security after cheating on him and betraying his trust, betraying the security he gave her and...
Typical garbage quality user. Used her husband for his fiances and his sperm. Will most likely divorce rape him soon even though she left and do the same to the next idiot that comes along that will actually commit to her. 11 year younger guy could be in for a nasty ride. You would be foolish...
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