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She probably had new guy in her apartment and wanted to avoid the awkward confrontation of you seeing him there. She wanted you to leave and go back to your apartment and bring you the keys to avoid the awkward meeting. There is no other reason she couldn't just open the door , go "here"...

She will treat you better than 90% of all other girls you have been with in the love bombing phase. When that phase is over, your good times with her will be over too.

I stopped at Manic depressive bi-polar. All cluster B's = immediate next. The drama and the BS she WILL put you through is not worth it. Even a chick that makes 500k a year. NOT WORTH IT.

Listen to your gut. Past behaviour is a great predictor of future behaviour. She has done this twice, she has low interest. She wants an orbiter .

Probably. QUOTE="R3mmy, post: 2882251, member: 158444"] Think she’ll come around? We were together for 3 years by the way. Who cares if she does. She burn the bridge. Move on. Focus on the new girl. Why did you keep contacting and validating an ex in the first place. It is a total waste...

Yes and she sees you as one. When you began NC she had her doubts and didn't know where she stood but when she seen you give her all that free attention she now thinks you are easy to reel in. Go permanent NC. Next her 100% it is the only thing that will Change her perception of you.

To keep you as an orbiter. Women collect them. They want that free supply of attention and validation and bragging rights to their other colleges about how she keeps you on a string. Women talk. They brag. They enjoy leading guys on. They enjoy giving you false hope so you will drop everything...

Nope. She was having the time of her life having 2 guys compete for her. You did nothing but inflate her ego and validate the schitt out of her. When you go no contact YOU STAY NO CONTACT. When her friend came over and asked "hey do you know my friend?" Your answer should have been "we work...

If you own the house have your lawyer draw up an agreement that states she has no claim to any ownership or any equity in your home. If she refuses to sign it then tell her she is more than welcome to go find her own place. If she balks at this you immediately give her, her walking papers. You...

Record shortest date for me= 5 minutes. Dollars spent = $0 I was was set up on a blind date (this was the 90's) and i called and scheduled the date with the chick. Day of the date i went to pick her up and 5 minutes into the 'drive' to get a bite to eat she starts in on me with her feminism...

Ah no. The conversation would be much more like in message #9.

It would be a short conversation coming from me.

That was just blah blah blah Excuse. Your texting amount was probably fine. She probably saw something different and shiney somewhere else and rather than be honest, she lied and blamed.

Cooking is fine. Picking stupid fights and acting like a spoiled brat isn't

I would think her seeing you at night is better than a chick who would only see you during the day and never at night.

She is acting like a spoiled child.

Both are cluster b type personality. Any cluster b = automatic next.

I had an ex who used PMS as an excuse to become disrespectful biatchy and pick fights over the stupidest things. Her behaviour would become deplorable during the PMS time. It was pretty easy to fix though. She got dumped.

You be yourself and do your thing. You do not go out of your way for her at all. What she thinks doesn't matter because she isn't a priority to you any more. 1. Just cancel all things and then get your own accounts and she can do the same. No need to even deal with her. Just do your own thing...

As long as she is 'your doctor' she may never cross the professional boundary because she could lose her license. Only way to find out is get a new doctor then ask her out with there being no lines being crossed