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My calendar is insane. I'm one of the obsessive compulsive people that schedules everything. But to answer your question, yes I suppose I could have changed plans, and worked on this Sunday, but my Sunday was filled because it's usually the only day that I can spend time with the kids, and...

Every now and then you meet a woman that just knocks your socks off. This happened to me at a friend’s wedding this past Saturday, where I met MM. She was just freaking awesome. Things were going well, dancing and having a great time, she is the complete package. But the problem was I had to get...

Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, by Covey. That is all you need. But then you need the discipline to build these habits. You can't read a book and immediately develop mental toughness... You really don't need a book to do this. Mental toughness is a function of disciple, and...

Not really. I just don't go out on weekend evenings unless there is something going on that I really want to do. Right now, post Covid shutdown, people are going out like they have been in a cage. It's just too much... everything is packed, and just about any place you go... the placed are...

It's really a waste of time trying to figure out what women want.... What any particular woman wants changes with her emotional state.... which no man has any control over.... and can turn on a dime. Yes... women like sex if they are attracted to the man they are with. If a woman loves you...

True. But aren't most women like this? Your woman is only with you because she is getting something she wants from you. Oh sure there are a minority of women who are going to love you for you, but they are rare. A majority of women are opportunistic and I'm okay with this, as long as she...

Yeah.... that is true, she reminded me of women I dated in Texas, and one I'm dating from North Carolina. The only difference is Southern women have this indirect way of communicating with you. Example: If a Southern woman doesn't like your beard, she'll say something like "I bet you are...

I dated a Russian woman who was a college professor at Tulane... She was awesome I was nuts about her. I might still be dating her if she didn't take another professorship at Brown. Smartest woman I ever met in my life... lots of fun... total package. The only thing that was off-putting was...

Women are valued for their ability to screen out men: men are valued for their ability to get many women. It's like this now, and it was like this 6,000 years ago when we learned to write and keep records. A man that has not slept with many women is demonstrably un-masculine. A woman that has...

True. I just tell people what works for me and what I do. I've never been someone that leaned on PUA techniques. I have honestly never headed out with the INTENT to get chicks. I go and do stuff that I want to do and if I happen to meet women GREAT. I'm sure some of the PUA stuff works...

First... it's not really day game... it's starting up a conversation with a stranger... then seeing how it goes. You have to know how to read body language and see if the women is interested in talking to you. If you are getting green light signals, well... then you ask for her number, then...

Divorce is tough when you can't pay for a good lawyer. I was lucky I guess, my ex didn't want the kids so they lived with me. If I had to go though that knowing my kids were with a crazy woman, I'd be stressed out like you. Hang in there... feel free to vent here, many of us have been though...

At 56, I get this A LOT with women in their mid to early 30s... I don't even try with women in their 20s... they are too flaky and difficult anyway. Depending on her body language and how she says this I either say "You are probably right." Then chit chat for a couple of minutes and move on...

@manfrombelow and @LARaiders85 are correct. You should look for women who fit you the way they are. If all this attention seeking on-line brothers you, you just need to go find one that doesn't do that. You can not change or control women... they will be what they are.

This is not my experience with Filipino women. A good friend of mine who is Black is married to a Filipino. I know plenty of Filipino women that are married to Black men. Most are former service members. Maybe that is the difference. They met and married these women when they were based...

Yes. But it depends on the woman. It all starts with her, her culture, her family, and her preferences. "Asian" is a broad definition. Japanese and Chinese culture -- Probably not. Korean, Pilipino sure... I see it all the time. If she is Asian-American, well... truth is she's going to be...

He died a couple of years ago. His partner I think is still running his website.

Never re-heat left-overs. Like the late great Doc Love once said, "You get one chance, per woman, per lifetime." It's always best to learn from experience and move onto a clean slate.

Yep... you have to pass her screening criteria based on your basic APPEARANCE (how you look, how you dress, and how you carry yourself), otherwise you don't have a shot. All this depends on the individual woman and her preferences (at that moment in time). If she likes what she sees, and you...

Oh boy.... that's not good. You have to be VERY careful about what you text back... do not apologize for the sex, in fact don't say anything about the sex. Seriously DON'T TEXT ANYTHING. Call her, talk to her over the phone, if she will meet you out, even better. Text back "Let's meet for...