Attraction is natural, it can't be forced

[oc16]

She is barely aware of your existence when you are in her line of vision? Seems like you have to work hard to get her attention to just say hello?

I am talking about attractive women you may see repeatedly at your place of employment, gym, college campus, continuing education class, etc.

Women like this are NOT playing hard to get or SHY; they aren't interested in you whether it be your looks, age or she is happily already involved with someone. Usually, it is NOT personal and it's because she already has a borefriend/fiancé/husband.

When a woman finds you attractive or wants you to engage her in conversation, her eyes will let you know (even if she is shy).

It is feels you are WORKING to get her attention, her IL in you is low. Stop wasting time with women who act like you don't exist.

 

[Sgthaytham]

It's the look, it's the look... the look of love

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Why we look at pretty faces - Department of Psychology

Few visual impressions can be compared to humans’ interest for faces. New research suggests that our brain rewards us for looking at pretty faces.

www.sv.uio.no

 

[oc16]

It's the look, it's the look... the look of love

Great Song by Absolutely ABC

 

[Bigpapa]

She is barely aware of your existence when you are in her line of vision? Seems like you have to work hard to get her attention to just say hello?

I am talking about attractive women you may see repeatedly at your place of employment, gym, college campus, continuing education class, etc.

Women like this are NOT playing hard to get or SHY; they aren't interested in you whether it be your looks, age or she is happily already involved with someone. Usually, it is NOT personal and it's because she already has a borefriend/fiancé/husband.

When a woman finds you attractive or wants you to engage her in conversation, her eyes will let you know (even if she is shy).

It is feels you are WORKING to get her attention, her IL in you is low. Stop wasting time with women who act like you don't exist.

most women are shy , and they will not make eye contact like you think they would

think about when you were shy , would you stare at the girl you liked ? Only when she did not look most likely

 

[Sgthaytham]

most women are shy , and they will not make eye contact like you think they would

think about when you were shy , would you stare at the girl you liked ? Only when she did not look most likely

I used to be pretty shy. I used to look when they weren't looking, but I'd always get caught

 

[oc16]

most women are shy , and they will not make eye contact like you think they would

think about when you were shy , would you stare at the girl you liked ? Only when she did not look most likely

Really? I would think more men are shy than women

 

[zekko]

Great Song by Absolutely ABC

And here I was thinking Burt Bacharach

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It also can change quite a bit over time which most people don't seem to acknowledge

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Great Song by Absolutely ABC

No thanks..

And here I was thinking Burt Bacharach

That would've been greatly preferable lol. Dusty over these guys any day.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Breaking my back just to know your name..

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She is barely aware of your existence when you are in her line of vision? Seems like you have to work hard to get her attention to just say hello?

I am talking about attractive women you may see repeatedly at your place of employment, gym, college campus, continuing education class, etc.

Women like this are NOT playing hard to get or SHY; they aren't interested in you whether it be your looks, age or she is happily already involved with someone. Usually, it is NOT personal and it's because she already has a borefriend/fiancé/husband.

When a woman finds you attractive or wants you to engage her in conversation, her eyes will let you know (even if she is shy).

It is feels you are WORKING to get her attention, her IL in you is low. Stop wasting time with women who act like you don't exist.

Interest should be one of the top priorities in the game on this site. It can make you or it can break you!

 

[Bigpapa]

Really? I would think more men are shy than women

man , you Have issues

women are ever more scared about being rejected than guys are

that is why most of the time will not be that blatant to show IOI . It will all the time use the plausible deniability

but if for you is important to be blatant , then yoj will Mainly bang fatties and cave trolls

 

[SW15]

Back in the early to mid 2000s, David DeAngelo used to say that "attraction isn't a choice". He was referring to female attraction towards men.

She is barely aware of your existence when you are in her line of vision? Seems like you have to work hard to get her attention to just say hello?

This happens all the time in the grocery store, mall, or a walking/hiking path. A lot of times, you’ll have to decide to approach or not approach based on zero choosing signals. I make eye contact & smile with every woman I’m considering approaching & I look to see who reciprocated. In a big city, these aren’t the types of women you’d ever see repeatedly. You have one shot with them. If they don’t have earbuds in, I’ll start something on zero choosing signals but those approaches don’t tend to gonas

I am talking about attractive women you may see repeatedly at your place of employment, gym, college campus, continuing education class, etc.

Women like this are NOT playing hard to get or SHY; they aren't interested in you whether it be your looks, age or she is happily already involved with someone. Usually, it is NOT personal and it's because she already has a borefriend/fiancé/husband.

When a woman finds you attractive or wants you to engage her in conversation, her eyes will let you know (even if she is shy).

There aren’t too many women I see repeatedly. I can think of one attractive woman from the general gym floor at my gym who I saw repeatedly over a 5 year period.I did eye contact & smiled many times with her. Zero acknowledgment or response. I know she didn’t have a boyfriend at times. I saw her at the gym early Saturday & Sunday mornings. If she had a boyfriend, she wouldn’t have been in the gym at those times, she would have still been in bed with her boyfriend/borefriend.

It is feels you are WORKING to get her attention, her IL in you is low. Stop wasting time with women who act like you don't exist.

Likely true & good advice. I prefer not to deal with low interest women. Some guys will spam approach anything though. I’ve never been able to do things that way.

 

[RBK]

 

[RangerMIke]

Yep... you have to pass her screening criteria based on your basic APPEARANCE (how you look, how you dress, and how you carry yourself), otherwise you don't have a shot. All this depends on the individual woman and her preferences (at that moment in time).

If she likes what she sees, and you know how to read body language and sub-conscious clues chicks toss out, then you have something to work with.

At that point, the next step is to figure out if she is available, because even if she is in some kind of relationship, she can not control her sub-conscious cues. She could be giving you the green light, but she'll let you know early on that she has taken herself off the market.

If she is attracted and available, it's only at this point that interest can be developed with what is commonly called 'game'.