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I’ve only skimmed the thread, so I may be repeating a point that was made. There is a way to train oneself so that one’s entire life is “daygame”. There’s no more drumming up the courage to approach, no anxiety. It’s all an easy flow. The trouble is, men who find their way into this flow have...

Pure gold.

There’s a fine line between being too eager and losing momentum. I think you tend to operate close to the momentum loss line. Once a girl’s memory of the feeling of an encounter fades, her interest drops drastically. As others have said, a man should never make a “hang out sometime” request. It...

My wife needs very little correction, but the couple of times I removed attention it took her forever to notice. She is so easy-going that she just thinks I must be deeply involved in something. Most women I’ve dealt with have noticed attention removal very quickly, so it was a breeze to make an...

You guys know that I always advocate calling women out for their ridiculous behavior, but there’s a big difference between expressing anger and expressing disappointment or derision. Usually directly expressing anger is counterproductive as it shows your own emotional involvement. Instead I...

That’s a losing mentality. I can assure you, no elder here could care less if you don’t take their advice. The fact that you say you’re left to figure stuff out on your own shows that the principles here are flying right over your head. Why are you here when you’re so intent on “forging your own...

You know, as a New Yorker myself, I never found NYC women all that attractive in the day-to-day sense. When I used to travel out to the suburbs of Chicago, I found a lot of attractive girls out there. Maybe they look and act a little more natural, which appeals to me. They certainly were more...

You’re one of the few who gets it. In my life I always enjoyed talking with my elders because no matter how crazy they sounded, I was always able to extract some wisdom that I had never pondered before. When you come across an old man yelling at a cloud, listen carefully. ;)

You say that women have always been formless, and I disagree. It is men who historically gave them form, according to nature. In the natural order, women are the stormy ocean, and men are the rocky shoreline. The shoreline says to the ocean, “This far, and no farther”. The shoreline defines and...

I grew up and spent much of my adult life having come to the conclusion that there was some kind of unfathomable “cosmic law” that made me woefully unappealing to women and that very few other men had this issue. It came as quite the surprise when I discovered here on SS that other men were...

Thanks. I just wanted to say that I'm so glad you brought back the spanking icon. I love it!

They are ruled by emotion, and emotions are like clouds in the sky, always changing, always swirling, one blowing by after another. I perceive constant flux as formlessness; indefinability. Formlessness puts others on edge, at a disadvantage because they are unpredictable and not easily defined...

I agree 100% about Home Depot. 20 years ago I would go in there and virtually any man I asked would know exactly what I needed for any given project, and would often offer tips or better ideas. Now, not only are the women worthless, but a good percentage of the men seem to have never lifted a...

That’s the truth.

Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you our own Jack Handy.

If most men would only directly tell women they blew it, and why, the problems we face and routinely discuss here would all but vanish. Consequences. They need to be trained by experiencing consequences. Men should be the Kings of this world, but because of fear of rejection, we are mostly...

I definitely would have asked the other girl what’s going on between them and if she turned out to be pissed at the guy I would have absolutely asked if she wants to jet outa here with me. What an epic story that would be!

You should ALWAYS let them know how they screwed things up, but in a detached, dispassionate way. “Since I found the end of our date to be awkward and distasteful, I won’t be seeing you again. I genuinely wish you all the best.” This will shock her, and women like this need to be shocked and...

I’ve got the popcorn this time, gents. This promises to a good one.

Your ex friend had other issues. This was just a tipping point for him. It’s NEVER cool to take joy in a weaker person’s suffering. I’ll bet you thought you’d get a lot of “Attaboys” here, but all you did was expose a very ugly aspect of your character.