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OP, do you realize that she is already gone? She checked out a while ago. You need to make a preemptive strike immediately. Cut her off and don’t look back, even if she begs. She is ABUSING you. You are not in love with her. You are in love with the idea of what you wish she would be. The...

Something’s wrong with your style my man. You’re doing something to turn them off. You remind me of an aspiring pilot I knew who was slow in getting the knack to be a good pilot and he concluded that the things being taught were worthless. No, the things being taught were life-saving, as he...

I don’t think it’s the principles taught here that is your problem. It’s your improper, miscalibrated execution of said principles. The principles are here because they work. I used to think there was a cosmic law of the universe that most women hate me. When I finally decided to apply myself to...

You have annoyed her. The thing to do here is to present her with flowers and a box of chocolates. Dude, when you cook a steak do you throw it in the pan and then take it right out and eat it at the first sound of a sizzle? Of course not. You make sure it’s properly cooked first. Seduction is...

Do you give off a feminine vibe? You’ve mentioned your voice a lot and your youthful appearance. Are you sing-songy when you speak, with lots of ups and downs in your voice? Do you shake your head and shrug your shoulders while speaking? These are all feminine habits that can turn girls off.

Me no likey licky for any length of time. It has always had a submissive feel to it. I guess it’s better when it’s happening mutually, but that vague feeling of submissiveness keeps my tongue above the equator.

So OP, what does your gut tell you that could be the cause of girls losing interest? I’ve always found that gut feeling or suspicion usually has some truth to it.

Pook last signed in here in October of 2013. He didn't post. I used to speak privately with him quite a bit, both here and outside of SS, but I lost track of him. Definitely a good guy. I find myself wondering if he is still on this earth as it wasn't like him to just disappear from private...

The first part was a question… DO you do this? “Do” was misspelled as “”to”. You seem to be confusing what goes on after the date (not texting) with what goes on during the date. I’m talking about a level of nuance that you’re not yet aware of. During the date are you light, fun and relaxed...

When a woman is interested, she will make it easy for you. Anything less is not worth your time. Either she shows eagerness to be with you, or she gets the heave-ho. You need to cut bait and fish more productive waters.

@G-Unit , when on dates to you convey that you’re “all-in” with the girl, that all she needs to do is green-light you? Most men do this, and it makes them come across as having that puppy dog, “please like me” vibe. I always say that the first order of business is to convey that you’re...

OP, I think you did pretty well considering you’re on a learning path. Credit where it’s due. You showed some strength. You need now to be absolutely ruthless in dishing out consequences for the next time, in a completely dispassionate and uncaring manner. You will need to dismiss her when she...

Funny… I met my wife on OLD. But I agree that most experiences on it are bad. It’s a good platform to practice messing with their bratty behavior. One asked me for more pictures once and I declined. She disappeared in a huff. Are you guys on OLD sites flipping the script immediately and letting...

Or… “I asked you about Saturday and didn’t get a response. I expect a response when I ask about availability.” To the point, ruthless and a statement of boundaries and expectations. No chess game, no wondering what’s going on.

Yes, I think a simple “Not ignoring. You didn’t seem that interested, so naturally I backed off a bit.” This cuts to the chase, puts the ball in her court to get real with you. The “naturally” part lets her know loud and clear that it’s reasonable for a man to back away based upon her behavior...

The problem with cold approach is that we think of it as some kind of special operation. Make it your lifestyle. Simply train yourself to talk to women when you’re out and about. When you get good at it there is no more game, no more “special operation”. It’s just what you are… an man who...

Nofap has never worked for me, even though it looks good on paper. In fact nofap tends to lower my sex drive.

I’m more inclined to agree with @Pedrito0906. Here’s why: Women live in a foggy, ethereal dream-world. They don’t understand their own sh!t tests and bad behavior. They are largely unaware of it. “Pointing out the obvious” is necessary because these things are not obvious to them; only to us...

Good list. I’ve found though that most women (well above 50% anyway) are slobs with their cars even if they are impeccable with cleanliness and orderliness in the home. To a woman, a car is something that gets them from point A to B. They will let the interior remain dirty and will have no...

Excellent. This is the solution that will work.