Older I get the more I hate women

[LTG71]

I read somewhere that the bitterness is a stage to really unplugging. There is a point of acceptance so hang in there. Lately i've been realizing the lower my expectations of women are the easier it is to predict/understand their actions.

Bitterness because the years of expectations not being met finally reaches a breaking point. Better to have no expectations and give less fux.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I grew up and spent much of my adult life having come to the conclusion that there was some kind of unfathomable “cosmic law” that made me woefully unappealing to women and that very few other men had this issue. It came as quite the surprise when I discovered here on SS that other men were experiencing similar issues. I hadn’t yet understood how internally destroyed women had become, en masse. Adding to the mix was that I grew up in an all-female family with an uninvolved father, so I lived in a complete nuthouse but thought that *I* was the crazy one. I was gaslighted by them all my life.

Fast-forward to now… the only “cosmic law” that exists is that the higher class of relatively well-adjusted women have me firmly on their radar and they let me know it.

There’s so much gold in these pages, but one must learn how to get their hands dirty and dig for it. The most hopeless guys here are the ones who reject the advice and experience of the older guys here. But it has been that way since the dawn of man, methinks.

Putting women in their place has been the seemingly “magic” pathway to the restoration of my manhood. Punishing bad behavior is a must, even though conventional “wisdom” says that doing this shows that you are “butt hurt” as they say. Understanding that they are children has allowed me to relate to them in a way they find attractive and allows me to tolerate them. The brats and narcissists are not allowed in my Kingdom.

The one thing that pains me more than anything here on SS is the overall reticence of men to stop accepting women’s bratty behavior. Make no mistake, this is the very reason that society is in the mess it’s in when it comes to male/female dynamics. Most men are afraid to reject and discipline women. When children are not disciplined, they run rampant. Put two and two together. Women need discipline from males and deep down they know it. They respond quite positively to discipline.

“Ah, old Uncle Atom is off on one of his rants again. Just wait… he’ll settle down.”
Yet off in a corner a rare young man quietly soaks in that which he hears and starts to put it into practice, and thus begins his journey on the path to freedom and abundance.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

I grew up and spent much of my adult life having come to the conclusion that there was some kind of unfathomable “cosmic law” that made me woefully unappealing to women and that very few other men had this issue. It came as quite the surprise when I discovered here on SS that other men were experiencing similar issues. I hadn’t yet understood how internally destroyed women had become, en masse. Adding to the mix was that I grew up in an all-female family with an uninvolved father, so I lived in a complete nuthouse but thought that *I* was the crazy one. I was gaslighted by them all my life.

Fast-forward to now… the only “cosmic law” that exists is that the higher class of relatively well-adjusted women have me firmly on their radar and they let me know it.

There’s so much gold in these pages, but one must learn how to get their hands dirty and dig for it. The most hopeless guys here are the ones who reject the advice and experience of the older guys here. But it has been that way since the dawn of man, methinks.

Putting women in their place has been the seemingly “magic” pathway to the restoration of my manhood. Punishing bad behavior is a must, even though conventional “wisdom” says that doing this shows that you are “butt hurt” as they say. Understanding that they are children has allowed me to relate to them in a way they find attractive and allows me to tolerate them. The brats and narcissists are not allowed in my Kingdom.

The one thing that pains me more than anything here on SS is the overall reticence of men to stop accepting women’s bratty behavior. Make no mistake, this is the very reason that society is in the mess it’s in when it comes to male/female dynamics. Most men are afraid to reject and discipline women. When children are not disciplined, they run rampant. Put two and two together. Women need discipline from males and deep down they know it. They respond quite positively to discipline.

“Ah, old Uncle Atom is off on one of his rants again. Just wait… he’ll settle down.”
Yet off in a corner a rare young man quietly soaks in that which he hears and starts to put it into practice, and thus begins his journey on the path to freedom and abundance.

I like your little rants filled with some life wisdom of an elder more man than us mostly young bloods here on the SS forum that has not accumulated that life experience yet.
Please don´t stop mate @Atom Smasher

 

[Atom Smasher]

I wouldn't say that, women have always been formless, but did have not the power they do today.

I would say their power over men comes from the laws, movies, music, tv, socirty and the court of public opinion. From the time they are boys, men are consistently brainwashed to service decent looking young women at all costs. They have been told they are scarce, sex is of the upmost importance and men should behave properly and spend money to get it. When you have been brainwashed, you will act a fool to get the girl.

Notice this brainwashing is about young hot women who are childless. Men instinctively know how to act when the women is fat, menopausal, ugly, or older,

Like Hollywood says, to act in their movie, they ask ONE question: Is she “f*ckabke?“. Ruins the fatansy otherwise. But I’m going off on a tangent.



I would disagree with that,

The only way a man to counter is to focus on his goal. A man can’t bring himself down to a woman's level, run on emotions and not be logical, he would destroy himself.

You say that women have always been formless, and I disagree. It is men who historically gave them form, according to nature. In the natural order, women are the stormy ocean, and men are the rocky shoreline. The shoreline says to the ocean, “This far, and no farther”.

The shoreline defines and gives shape to the ocean. The ocean conforms to the shoreline. The drinking glass gives form to the water within. The water conforms to the glass.

Women, by nature, can only be given form by men. Historically, men were the rulers and disciplinarians. They were not afraid of women. Women were forced to conform to men’s rules and expectations. Men have become afraid of rejection, and women can no longer conform to their authority.

In keeping with the ocean analogy, when the rocky shore erodes, the ocean overruns it and dissipates thinner and thinner, losing its form and definition. Farther and farther it travels and dissipates, until it is so thin that it evaporates into nothingness.

Make no mistake… it is men who give women definition and form. Women are wired to conform to men, but what do we see today? Nothing but men conforming to women.

You say that a man can’t bring himself down to a woman’s level, presumably in the context of formlessness. The mistake that you make is in thinking that male formlessness is the same as female formlessness. The two are vastly different.
Male formlessness consists of maintaining a mysterious vibe, a certain reserve, a withholding of information, and a lack of reactiveness. Does a man answer every single question a woman asks? Then he is dropping the ball on formlessness. Does a man show all his cards to a woman and discuss every aspect of his life with her? Again he is dropping the ball.
A man’s formlessness is deliberate and by design. He constructs it. He leaves a woman in tension and suspense, the very place where she is happy and thrives.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I like your little rants filled with some life wisdom of an elder more man than us mostly young bloods here on the SS forum that has not accumulated that life experience yet.
Please don´t stop mate @Atom Smasher

You’re one of the few who gets it. In my life I always enjoyed talking with my elders because no matter how crazy they sounded, I was always able to extract some wisdom that I had never pondered before.

When you come across an old man yelling at a cloud, listen carefully.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Thanks @Atom Smasher !
I tend to always listen to people elder than me and listen. You can pick off and learn things if you are just willing to listen. Just like when you attend various gatherings it is always smart to assume that you re that most stupid person in the room ha ha...

 

[SargeMaximus]

I grew up and spent much of my adult life having come to the conclusion that there was some kind of unfathomable “cosmic law” that made me woefully unappealing to women and that very few other men had this issue. It came as quite the surprise when I discovered here on SS that other men were experiencing similar issues. I hadn’t yet understood how internally destroyed women had become, en masse. Adding to the mix was that I grew up in an all-female family with an uninvolved father, so I lived in a complete nuthouse but thought that *I* was the crazy one. I was gaslighted by them all my life.

Fast-forward to now… the only “cosmic law” that exists is that the higher class of relatively well-adjusted women have me firmly on their radar and they let me know it.

There’s so much gold in these pages, but one must learn how to get their hands dirty and dig for it. The most hopeless guys here are the ones who reject the advice and experience of the older guys here. But it has been that way since the dawn of man, methinks.

Putting women in their place has been the seemingly “magic” pathway to the restoration of my manhood. Punishing bad behavior is a must, even though conventional “wisdom” says that doing this shows that you are “butt hurt” as they say. Understanding that they are children has allowed me to relate to them in a way they find attractive and allows me to tolerate them. The brats and narcissists are not allowed in my Kingdom.

The one thing that pains me more than anything here on SS is the overall reticence of men to stop accepting women’s bratty behavior. Make no mistake, this is the very reason that society is in the mess it’s in when it comes to male/female dynamics. Most men are afraid to reject and discipline women. When children are not disciplined, they run rampant. Put two and two together. Women need discipline from males and deep down they know it. They respond quite positively to discipline.

“Ah, old Uncle Atom is off on one of his rants again. Just wait… he’ll settle down.”
Yet off in a corner a rare young man quietly soaks in that which he hears and starts to put it into practice, and thus begins his journey on the path to freedom and abundance.

And then there’s people like me who forge a new path and the elders hate me because I won’t take their advice that doesn’t work, they get butt hurt because “no one respects elders hur dur” and I’m left to figure **** out on my own

 

[Atom Smasher]

And then there’s people like me who forge a new path and the elders hate me because I won’t take their advice that doesn’t work, they get butt hurt because “no one respects elders hur dur” and I’m left to figure **** out on my own

That’s a losing mentality. I can assure you, no elder here could care less if you don’t take their advice.
The fact that you say you’re left to figure stuff out on your own shows that the principles here are flying right over your head. Why are you here when you’re so intent on “forging your own path”? What does your success rate look like? Why not share the “new path” with us? I can learn from any man, no matter his experience level, so have at it.

 

[LTG71]

You’re one of the few who gets it. In my life I always enjoyed talking with my elders because no matter how crazy they sounded, I was always able to extract some wisdom that I had never pondered before.

When you come across an old man yelling at a cloud, listen carefully.

Each generation has to deal with different forms of adversity and opportunity. Best to listen to elders who have lived through multiple seasons. Once you get older this realization will click.

Have you heard the story of the young bull and the old bull?

Two bulls in a field and they see a bunch of cows below. Young bull says,”let’s run down there and fvck one of them”. Old bull says, “let’s walk down and fvck all of them”.

My buddy (60) and I (51) laugh when our younger colleagues don’t listen and fvck things up. All we say is “young bull” . Not saying we can’t learn from each other, but when someone has seen more sh!t than you, give them a listen is all I’m saying.

 

[SargeMaximus]

That’s a losing mentality. I can assure you, no elder here could care less if you don’t take their advice.
The fact that you say you’re left to figure stuff out on your own shows that the principles here are flying right over your head. Why are you here when you’re so intent on “forging your own path”? What does your success rate look like? Why not share the “new path” with us? I can learn from any man, no matter his experience level, so have at it.

I have shared all my insights in my “Missing Keys” thread/journal.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

 

[AureliusMaximus]

And then there’s people like me who forge a new path and the elders hate me because I won’t take their advice that doesn’t work, they get butt hurt because “no one respects elders hur dur” and I’m left to figure **** out on my own

Nothing wrong with going your own way and trying other ways.
In fact you should; I do that myself too, but on the flip side there is no reason to reinvent the wheel and guys before us have tried and failed on the very same thing we do today.

So with that in mind it is just at least in my opinion smart to listen to the elder ones as they might give you short cuts or call it "cheat cards" in life to thing better smart and faster as they already found the best way before us through trial and error.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Nithing wrong with going your won way and trying other ways. In fact you should, i do that myself too; but on the flip side there is no reason to reinvent the wheel and guys before us have tried and failed on the very same thing we do today so with that in mind it is just at least in my opinion smart to listen to the elder ones as they might give you short cuts or call it "cheat cards" in life to thing better smart and faster as they already found the best way before us through trial and error.

I did when I first started, but it doesn’t work so now I go my own way

 

[Rainman4707]

I have seen numerous women on face book posting screenshot of a man blowing up their phone.

I detest that type of behaviour.

..one poster on this thread said be careful about posting screenshot of her bad behaviour. He makes a good point, but the elephant is in the room, of that she does it and gets away with it......

 

[LTG71]

At 51, I don’t hate women, I just don’t care to listen to what most have to say anymore. All this rhetoric about toxic masculinity and being bombarded with man-hating feminism leaves me feeling resigned. A good majority are chaotic with a childlike freedom to misbehave while men are held to a higher standard and expected to have purpose and act responsibly.

There was a breast cancer awareness booth at work this week. I love boobs but at the same time have never seen any support for a man specific cause in the past 25+ years. I felt like asking, “are you ladies going to be here for men’s testicular cancer week?” The company probably would have sh!t themselves if men wanted to have a booth with rubber balls to teach men how to look for lumps. It bothers me that they don’t seem to fvcking care about men at all.

Another issue at this age is women are no longer interested in sex so it kinda leaves you with a conundrum. What is the point of this engagement if there is no endgame? I don’t think this question ever leaves the male mind. One told me she was going to be at work tomorrow. My initial thought was, “who cares, we’re not fvcking and I don’t care to listen to your thoughts on topics I have no interest in.” I’d rather talk to my buddy about where we’re fishing this weekend rather than listen about the drama Karen is causing this week.

 

[Rainman4707]

I'll be honest....maybe i've spent to much time indoors this week studying. I never tell women this but my subconscious tells me that why should I like women. Yes I've had several that like me, but on the whole......women have never liked me. I've truly never had success with women.

I'm a nice guy....so I don't get women. Soo....why the fu'k should i like them.