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  1. jamesfromhouston

    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    That's true. Increasingly I feel that we men have the shorter end of the stick. Girls are always so indirect and expect so much from us. Society expects us to live up to their standard. But most of the time, they contribute so much less to the dating and relationship table.
  2. jamesfromhouston

    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    Great answer. Your view is quite similar to my buddy's answer in some ways. My own interpretation to girls who say stuff like this is, is that they are girls who have become jaded because of hook-up culture or casual dating. Maybe too worn-out, so they're only looking for serious...
  3. jamesfromhouston

    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    Hi gents. Simple question really: Would you guys immediately disqualify/pass on a girl who says she's not into friend with benefits or casual hook-ups on first encounter? There have been a couple of times I've met girls on OLD and during cold approach and they tell me this from the get go. I...
  4. jamesfromhouston

    "I don't usually do this"

    The last time I heard a girl say this she was deepthroating me for the first time since we hooked up. Oddly, she was very experienced at it for "first time". "I don't usually do this." She said whilst doing the deed.
  5. jamesfromhouston

    LMR or Something Else? How Would You Have Proceeded?

    Thanks everyone for the input. I think it is unlikely that it was my apartment. I live in an upscale place and my apartment is very clean and well decorated. Never had any complaints but compliments about it from girls. I can see how this can be an issue but I am sure it is not in my case...
  6. jamesfromhouston

    LMR or Something Else? How Would You Have Proceeded?

    Could be. But odd to me as other women had been fine with it. Its the same place that I bedded other chicks. I am suspecting its ASD, she doesn't want to feel like a slut. Or maybe other guy in the picture. Kind of annoying because I thought everything was in the basket by the end of the night.
  7. jamesfromhouston

    LMR or Something Else? How Would You Have Proceeded?

    Hello Gents. I was at a nightclub with my friends and bumped hot chick that I previously met at the same club on a different occasion. The whole night, things were golden. Me and the chick were hanging and had a lot of fun dancing and eventually making out. I felt she was all over me in the...
  8. jamesfromhouston

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thank you bro. Knowing your story personally I am confident that you really dodged a bullet. I been dealing with some ridiculous EE girls recently you should check out my thread on it. EE girls are so combative that I rather not deal with that crap. Nothing is worth our dignity!
  9. jamesfromhouston

    Hot Girl Demands Good Dinner For Date. Smash Or Pass?

    I agree. These EE girls seem to have a very high sense of entitlement. It seriously baffles me how a girl I've never met demanded me to organize and pay for a cab to our first meet and feels offended that I questioned that. They're looking for Simps.
  10. jamesfromhouston

    Hot Girl Demands Good Dinner For Date. Smash Or Pass?

    Mainly NYC but nowadays I travel a lot. Especially to Europe and been meeting these crazy girls there. Haha dude. I wasn't bullied into it. I rejected her in the end. I told that dinner chick that we weren't vibing because she kept insisting on dinner rather than the plans I had set in mind...
  11. jamesfromhouston

    Hot Girl Demands Good Dinner For Date. Smash Or Pass?

    I thought I'd give a funny little update to this thread. So a couple of nights ago, I matched another EE chick from OLD. She asked to hangout with me. I said sure. Let's meet at x and x for a date. She then proceeds to say to me that it would be nice if I could order a cab for her to pick her...
  12. jamesfromhouston

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hi dudes. 90 Days NC Been roughly 90 days since NC. Never broke it once. Kept straight at it. Here are some personal lessons learnt. I'll keep it brief. Pain The sharp intolerable pain has gone away. Went away after about a month. Instead there is still moments of longing over the past 3...
  13. jamesfromhouston

    AMA 15 plate spinner

    1) Logistically, how do you make it work? 5 to 15 plates a week, wow! Do you have time for work, hobbies and friends? 2) Do you feel happier spinning so many plates? 3) What's the key to keep those plates spinning? Do they not fizzle out?
  14. jamesfromhouston

    Hot Girl Demands Good Dinner For Date. Smash Or Pass?

    Haha that is exactly what I did. I told her, let's check it out next time. Let's go to my spot this time. But she more or less freaked out and got persistent. Which really put me off. Just made me think, she was more into the spot than me. Got me wondering whether it was an issue with IL or...
  15. jamesfromhouston

    Weird Situation. What Do You Think?

    That's your interpretation bro. I've never come to SS to seek attention. For what purpose? To get the attention of other "anonymous" men? I'm straight. The bold is just a matter of how I edit. In my mind, I'm just highlighting the main questions for those who want to skip the other parts that...
  16. jamesfromhouston

    Hot Girl Demands Good Dinner For Date. Smash Or Pass?

    I agree that bar dates are better than dinner dates. Bars you can aim to sit side by side. You can easily kino and establish tension. Dinners you're usually sitting across. With bar dates the chances of kiss closing is much higher. With dinners it feels more for deep comfort building. Feels more...
  17. jamesfromhouston

    Hot Girl Demands Good Dinner For Date. Smash Or Pass?

    Why do you suggest I was trolling?
  18. jamesfromhouston

    Hot Girl Demands Good Dinner For Date. Smash Or Pass?

    Wow. I honestly did not expect that this thread will turn into a debate. But I really do thank everyone for their input. I have the latest update of how things resolved in the end and I also feel compelled to explain the situation more clearly. First the situation & why I started the thread...
  19. jamesfromhouston

    Weird Situation. What Do You Think?

    Thanks for the input guys. I would have gone for the close that night but I was feeling quite tired. Since her IL was so high that night (which I determined from: 1) the make-outs/kisses 2) her compliance of bouncing with me 3) her overall giggly, lovey-dovey stares, bright smile 4)...
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