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Good. Now its time to gain muscle.

I'm just learn this game. What would be proper escalation time frame? When to kiss, when take her home etc.?

So why did she invested whole night for me?

On Friday. I was standing at the bar drinking my whiskey. I saw girl standing 1 meter from the counter waiting for some space to open. She is student, solid 8 or 9. I am 33. I make her some space. She comes to counter. I tell her that she just should say if she wanted to stand here. We get some...

Most community is convinced that dinner dates are very bad choice dor date.

Do you have any system for night game? I'm going out solo for like 2 months now, two days in a week. At the moment my results are miserable. The best thing I sometimes get is make out or number. I've never get ONS yet. It kinda suck to admit but I need some solid advices/books.

As a software engineer working with a lot of others I can confirm. Software Engineers don't get the pvssy or hot wifes. Same time when I observe who girls hook up in clubs I totally don't understand what criteria they use to choose.

Yeah, I saw power of social proof. It's pure gold. What kind of action dates works for you? For me coffe/walks worked. Any kind of action date was rarely accepted.

It's not that money doesn' t matter. It's that people don't like idea of being bought.

Do you have any good tested cold reads/assumption stories?

Ahhh, mystical value everyone is talking about. I feel like value is another fountain of youth on sosuave. This term is so generic and abstract that no one can tell what it really means.

Well put. Unfortunately I feel like most of the people on the sosuave have this mentality. If you ask about any tactics or advice the say "if she wants it does not matter what you do" or "have a value and screw everything else" as if pretty girls will know to your door begging for sex.

Problem is both are pretty. I would like to have both of them as plates but I do not believe it is realistic option because at some point it will be to obvious.

Hmmm, In my country (wester Europe) coffee between adults of different gender is may mean sex. E.g. if man ask woman do you want to come for coffee it implies sex. I know it works also like that in some different western European countries.

My idea for the date is to ask her for coffee then after an hour bounce to pub and try to get a make out there. If I get make out then I will try to take her home.

I've been talking a lot with a girl in yoga class. Recently I asked her for a coffe. She said it's not a best time but gave me her number anyway. I will try to setup a date in a week or so. In a mean time another girl in same class is sending me some signals (proximity, smiles). I spoke with her...

I tried nofap but my balls where constantly aching and in fact I got more ED after nofap. Cutting porn is very good but I have to fap once a week or two. Additionaly when I fap once a while I become more horny for several next days.

So you set up the date e.g. coffee then bounced to some pub to grab a drink. Now you're in the pub and you want to pull home for some sex. How do you know when the right moment is and how do you set it up? Do you use some excuse or routine?

So what? You got all the benefits. She was the one driving and investing her time and resources. If you did not plan LTR with her you ripped as much as you could from this relation.

I just invited her out through message. I will se what happens. I think I create some mental barriers for myself. She has her own brain and desires and I can not guess them so I will just check. I will keep posting when situation develops or I need advice.