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    It doesn't matter

    After reading this I felt this fantastic feeling in my chest. This was really empowering.
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    how to stop being the nice guy in life?

    It's not parents. It's society as whole. At some point you think it is your own idea and start being too pleasing and complacent towards others. You get ****ed many times and start to question people behaviors.
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    how to stop being the nice guy in life?

    That's interesting concept. Can you elaborate?
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    Take salsa classes

    This is typical when someone is treating classes as sport. They goal is to get better, not to find partner, so they prefer better dancers over better boyfriends.
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    Does anyone here actually like "talking" to women?

    I feel old and I feel that something is wrong if I hit on 10 years younger girl even if I did not know about her age. I do not want to feel like some kind of creep or sleazy old man.
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    Age insecurity

    Age (33) is my biggest insecurity. I've read on the forum that some people takes age as an advantage. I would like to start this thread to get some outlook on this topic. I do it to know the "truth" to adjust accordingly. Age factor spoiled some of my approaches and prevented probably 50% of...
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    Does anyone here actually like "talking" to women?

    Can you please elaborate on this more. We are almost same age and age is my number one insecurity. It is always in back of my head and spoiled some of my approaches. I have created separate thread for this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/age-insecurity.238863/
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    Does anyone here actually like "talking" to women?

    I love when woman giggles. From some woman I get a lof of giggles and I play with them to get those giggles becuase I like it not because I am trying hard. They giggle I am having fun and to be frank a bit of validation. I do it for entertainment of both of us not only for her.
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    My main insecurities

    I have some main insecurities when I want to approach woman. I know I should just "fvck it" and go for it but it is easier said then done. Those unsecurities are universal for day/night time, ordered by how serious they are: 1. My age. I feel like to old for this and I try to find woman around...
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    Today I did my first day time approach in crowded place

    Today, I did my first day time approach in crowded place. I entered the restaurant and looked arround for a table. There was a small table free and big table for many groups available. There was one girl at the table. I picked chair separated from her chair by two other chairs and asked if it is...
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    What's the worst you've ever been rejected?

    I got into provider frame. Meeting and entertaining her for long time. During the party she could not decide between her many options and picked to fvck married guy. Objectively speaking it was for the better. After this I googled for "pick up". Found "The Game" and I am on the improvement path...
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    Is sideways glance IOI or IOD

    Yes, I have to overcome approach anxiety somehow. Problem is when woman I do not know comes near and I know I should approach her I feel very nervous -- I do not have such problems in e.g. work enviornment. I am not sure what do you mean by warm approach. Only form I know of worm approach is...
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    Is sideways glance IOI or IOD

    Today I wanted to approach few times. I had few IOIs in one situation girl just sat down on the same small coach that I was sitting. I was in the mall so there were a lot of people so I chickened out. My number one excuse is that people are watching. When I see the girl I just become ultra aware...
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    Boyfriend objection

    How do you tackle boyfriend objection. I know that this girl has boyfriend but I can see she is attracted to me. We already had secks but then she started to bring objection. I should be able to tackle it because I know she experimented with few other guys in the meantime.
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    Is sideways glance IOI or IOD

    If cold approach is waste of time how do you find a woman then? There is very little IOI I am gating lately or I am missing them. Situation in the queue is to much for me. To many people to go direct and I find it hard to go indirect. Often there is nothing to talk about.
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    Is sideways glance IOI or IOD

    I saw this few times today and I remember reading about this sideways glace somewhere it good to know such cues but of course utlimately what counts is whether she decide to go for date. Unfortunately I chcickened out so I will not know soon.
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    Balancing behaviours

    What is that?
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    Is sideways glance IOI or IOD

    I am walking towards the girl on the right side of pavewalk. She is on the left side looking straight in front of her. I look at her face. She moves her eyes rapidly to the other side (but no downward movement) without or with head movement. Then get back to looking straight ahead. Is it IOI or...
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    Rules To Live By

    What does it mean to take me for granted?
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    What do you screen for before you decide to enter a LTR ??

    See how she treats other people e.g. friends, bartenders other random people. It will say a lot about her true character.
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