This is my current problem. I've met girl in a club. Spend few hours with her then went on a date spend another few hours and she did not let me to even hug her. I thought that she is just using me for attention so I decided to not contact her. Then she saw me in club and wanted to talk to me. I...
I have set up date with another girl (younger, HB8, lean and more interested) for the same time. She agreed. I think she wants me for LTR but it may be only my wishful thinking. I have also second plate (same age or a bit older than me, very pretty (HB8 or 9) with tits but I'm not sure about...
My slim experience:
- Don't let her win verbal fencing. I used to let her win so she feels better. It was mistake. She don't want to win.
- Vacuum -- let her do the work
- push-pull compliment
- Humor is very effective way of "solving" difficult situations. You don't really solve the problem but...
I did not take alternative because first one was far from my place and second one was coffee shop that I do not know at the mall I know very poorly. So for me it was bad place because I wouldn't be able to lead (lack of familiarity of place) and would not be able to escalate (lack of privacy in...
On Friday I met a girl in a club. Spend and two hours with her talking. During the talks I did a lot of kino (wrapping my hand around her, touching legs and face) but no make out. We exchanged numbers.
At Monday I have following sms exchange:
Me (9:01): Hi Martha, How was your weekend? /Geek...
It's fallacy. There are guys that womans like and those that are not liked by them. So natural consequence of that is those better guys does something differently hence they make woman talk.
She wrote last message so currently I'm not sure whether I should answer or just keep silent. Beside lack of escalation (just regular dancing with touches it provides) it looks good -- she was giggling when I was telling yokes, she told me some personal things about her. She was smiling to her...
On Saturday I spend like 2h with girl in the club. She was interested although she did not let me escalate to much touch. I messaged her on Monday evening. She was keeping few hours spacing between SMSes so I was also sending messages with similar spacing. On Tuesday evening she agreed to have...
I wake up about 4am and can not sleep so I decide that to hit the gym before the work. I'm at the gym at 6am. There is like 3 guys in the big gym. I sit on leg extension machine and start working out. After a while I notice a girl running on running machine -- directly in front of me. She is...
I actually used few advices from the book and saw them working out better then I ecpected.
What I do not like about the book is that it advertises "just be yourself" attitude which is counterproductive for guys that want to learn pickup.
I'm concerned by two things:
1. No one likes to know she is the second one and she knows that.
2. I do not want to look like some crazy pickup artist asking to dance every girl.
I have following situation few times. I see two girls dancing I extend the hand toward one and she accepts we dance for few songs with some conversation. Then she goes for the drink or go to friend. After few minutes that girl I was not dancing with me is checking me out many times. It always...
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