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I have a good handlebar mustache and it always grows in well. In the past I've had a handlebar mustache/goatee combo and it looks decent but it also has the side effect of making me look like a pirate, especially since I also have long hair. Idk if this is a good or bad thing tho

Well at the very least after religious lectures a few days ago I was talking to a woman I've seen there before. She's not really a prospect in any sense of the word and I don't see her there very often, but I always talk to her when I do. She was just asking about how my sitar playing endeavors...

How should I go out and field test? Right now I'm still very hesitant to approach. What can I do to develop the skills I need in the meantime? In recent weeks I've lost a considerable amount of bodyfat and it's only gaining momentum. Perhaps I can grow a goatee again as well, but I do like the...

All this is true. Any more suggestions as to how I actually learn these tactics? Like I said I'm deliberating whether or not to purchase an online course that I found

You're exactly right. I've made a point similar to this on here. How do I equip myself with those tools? I found an online course that looks legit and is reasonably priced, might try that. Any other suggestions?

I've been going to therapy already

I understand I have to do this, but these mindsets I have are exceptionally resilient. I want to believe that I can change but my mind doesn't let me. What can I actually do to change that?

It's not that I'm unwilling to participate in social activities, it's more that I'm terrible at finding any to do and I'm not sure I'd find any women to date there. I've read many accounts of guys trying to go to different social events or groups to try to meet women, for example, and in almost...

From my point of view it doesn't feel as much like I'm afraid of trying, it's more like I don't know what exactly I should try and what direction to take

Aight man I will

Man that really makes me sad. For a guy like me to meet a woman in real life and eventually come to date her, it would almost have to be the women approaching me in order for that to succeed. I would really appreciate it if a woman did that. I really wish women approached guys more often. Maybe...

This is a huge concern of mine. People have told me to expand my social circle but as an introverted guy it's daunting and there's only so much I'd be able to get out of it. I'm terrible at finding social events or things I can do regardless. ANother thing is that even if I expand my social...

Not quite yet, still working on the backlog I have with getting other pertinent things done. Like getting health insurance for example, havent had any in the past few years

Still tho is there any way to increase likelihood of women approaching you? If I could actually find some way to get them to on a consistent enough basis, it would solve a lot of the problems that I won't shut up about on here

That's so vague tho. It's like when people say "Just get out there" or something to that effect. At the end of the day such remarks are meaningless

Well how do I get them to? Meeting women would be so much less stressful for me if they did that. If a girl approached me irl I would actually really appreciate it. How can I make something like that happen for real? Is it even realistic to expect? Is it possible to learn this power?

With the general trend that humanity is devolving and that the rate of birth defects and chronic disease on the rise, having kids in the present day is a huge risk regardless of age, now that I think about it. People are getting dumber and dumber and ever more sickly and ever less physically...

Women don't really do that tho. It'd be nice if they did but they just don't so I can't expect that

I'm not very good at finding those kinda things, though I attend religious lectures every week and I've met some people that way. Still that's the only thing I really do right now where I can socialize on a regular basis. Meetup.com is pretty much useless in my area and like I said I'm not good...

How do I do that after college tho? Especially post covid. American social culture is just so cliquey and closed off, there's just no sense of community anywhere and people aren't looking to get to know others