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Probably should try that first lol

Yeah it seems like it's a huge risk in all actuality

I guess it's an option for those attracted to asian women, but I personally am not attracted to them. But like I said I wouldn't resort to mail order brides unless I've exhausted all other options. If I do go that route I'd look for women from like Rumania or something

I personally wouldn't resort to mail order brides unless it was my only option left. If I'm in my early 30s and in the same situation as I am now I may consider it but I would really have to watch for scams

Are they a viable option for guys who are fed up with the dating scene in the west? All the major mail order bride companies seem like scams designed to part lonely men with their money. I personally wouldn't go that route unless I had no other options

For a lot of guys on the spectrum it may be the only way they can. At least that's the impression I get

Yeah there's overlap there, that same fear of rejection kept me from doing anything even though I had never really been rejected because I never tried anyway. Perhaps even if I had ended up talking to the girl I mentioned earlier on a regular basis the same thing you described might have...

Yeah I really did have a lot of FOMO about it back then, and it really upped the amount of frustration I felt about having not gotten any action. Even in college it took a while before I got laid and had a girlfriend. But in the end I succeeded that time even if I missed out on dating in high...

At least you got dates to begin with lol. Not dating in high school is one of my biggest regrets, and it really impacted my success with women in the long run

Man that would be a blow to anyone's self esteem. I'm sorry that you had to go thru that. From a social standpoint I was pretty cringe in middle school, especially due to how my ADHD (and the side effects of ADHD medications) affected me back then. Looking back on my middle school experiences I...

What were your high school years like?

For those interested, The Strongest Shall Survive by Bill Starr is a really good book about training and nutrition

Anybody know where I can get online coaching to learn how to approach? Google doesn't yield many results and the few I've found have ridiculously high prices

For the past week already I have not consumed porn of any kind. I haven't jerked off to anything depicting sex between two individuals in more than eight years anyway, but I still would jerk off to softcore images. But now I realize I have to stop with that too. You're very correct that porn...

For what it's worth from these threads I've come up with a few things that I should do: (In no particular order) 1. Continue to lose bodyfat 2. Get vasectomy so I can alleviate my fears about accidental pregnancy forever 3. Get career counseling, I found an ADHD specific one 4. Start reading...

Come on man I’m not trying to be one

Well what do you think I should do? Just give up on trying to meet the kind of women I want? I’m not trying to be difficult, I’m just frustrated about my situation and am not sure what to do. I may have been born into a somewhat well off family but there was a fair amount of adversity I faced as...

I feel like I’d need to at least somewhat like a job in order stick with it

Yeah it really doesn't surprise me

From what I've heard about the experiences of women on the spectrum is that it's easier for them to get into relationships or be sexually active compared to men with the same condition, but the flip side is that they're far more likely to be manipulated or abused in relationships