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I'm not expecting to meet any women in '24 anyway. From the way my experience in the dating game has been in the past few years, there's no way I'm getting my hopes up. I'll focus on getting my life together in the meantime but hookers are illegal where I live and I have religious objections to...

I know it'll never be the same. I still am really kicking myself in the head about those missed opportunities. I still don't know what to do since I've relied on apps for so long. I have a hunch that there's a fair amount of guys in my situation, guys who only really learned to meet women from...

Well ideally I should incorporate both. But so far I haven't been able to get this approaching thing off the ground and given the time and difficulty required to learn it, even with the shortcomings of online dating I technically have a better chance meeting women online. It is indeed true that...

Well technically it's about four years and one month. Still with the amount of time and effort it would take me to be able to cold approach successfully (we're talking years of hard effort here), I feel I have a greater chance at meeting women with dating apps than irl. That's why it sucks that...

So far I haven't been able to end my reliance on apps. I don't like having to keep using them this much but it still feels like I have no other way

I'm telling you, in the past when I've had sex it was too nerve wracking because of the possibility of accidental pregnancy. I need to get a vasectomy in order for me to feel comfortable doing it. Otherwise accidental pregnancy will always be in the back of my mind.

I do see that, but I cannot afford to have one fail if I'm in that situation. In my case my options are get a vasectomy or remain celibate. I'm not going to take any chances. I have to prevent all possibility of accidental pregnancy occurring

1. My band depends on me for certain equipment, our van, and our practice space. We're also still working on a new album so now would be a very bad time to quit. 2. I know I need to make more friends, but making friends after college is very difficult 3. There weren't many opportunities to talk...

I already go to therapy

Condoms aren't reliable enough. They still can fail

Well right now I still don't have any real aternative to tinder so I have to make do and pay for it. Apps are still the best way I have to meet women even though they don't work for me anymore. As for my concerns about accidentally getting women pregnant, I can't afford to ever let it get to...

Shouldn't I get a vasectomy so that I don't ever have to worry? Like I said a friend of mine recently accidentally got a woman pregnant and it was a very distressing experience for him. I don't EVER want to find myself in the same situation. Had I found myself in my friend's shoes I would have...

1. I think it would take me a while to find another band, and this band is a hard one for me to leave since I've been in it for so long and others in it depend on me. Further more the only friend I have that I hang out with on a regular basis is in my band too, and thus it would be weird if I...

As for that girl I mentioned, I don't know when I'll run into her again and I still don't really know her all that well. That's the thing, even if she may be interested I don't have much of a way to do anything with that as it stands right mow.

I've already been in the same band for the past nine years. We haven't been able to play live much in recent years due to the fact that we've been unable to find a drummer who lasts more than one show. When I was in college I played a lot of gigs but even back then I only was ever able to meet...

I know it's been a long time but I've fallen so far off the wagon. One huge thing that's affected how long it's been is that I'm so afraid of getting a woman pregnant accidentally that most of the time I don't consider sex to be worth the risk if I'm not sterile. In the past, even when I was...

The past few months have yielded very good progress with fat loss. I lift weights and since I ride a bicycle instead of driving most of the time I get my cardio in too. This year my physique has noticeably improved. In the spring I looked pretty fat but because I was eating too many protein...

I'm not obese and I lift weights frequently, the olympic lifts are the cornerstone of my training. This year I've also lost a lot of fat. I got a bicycle in June and now use it as my primary means of transport, and since that time my bodyfat percentage has dropped. Even though my numbers in the...

So based on everyone's comments to my threads here, I've started to do a few things. I've begun to go out more and now I often go to concerts or football games with my friends, and I also continue to attend my religious lectures every week. In recent weeks I've been out in public more in...

These points are basically the entire essence of what I've been saying all along about my own situation with respect to my challenges meeting women