IMO, BPD chick would have already blown his mind in bed since date 1 or 2.
OP had been pulled on by her string that's attached to her little finger.
He needs to use S&D and instantly find out what her true interest level is. I would guess super low. She just wants the attention and...
Oh they are fun......until it goes from fun to highly toxic in a blink of the eye.
But some of the best lessons in life are the ones we have to learn the hard way!
Lots of women will quickly catch back up after that. Some won't. But the silence says that you're interested, but not going to break your neck as you have other options that make it easy.
It's a IDGAF approach. Gets their wheels spinning.
And there are probably several I never heard back...
Why 2 months? 6 months? 3 years?
As long as you keep chasing and begging women to shyte on you with your current mindset, it won't matter.
If a chick blows me off, I don't EVER reach out.
EVER. EVER. Not a week later. If I see her out I say hi and move on. I don't watch what she's doing. I...
You're missing the point. NC will RARELY make a chick come back. They might hit you up for attention, to see if you're on the hook, etc., but they aren't wanting to get back together.
You already said this chick had other dudes lined up when she ended it with you. Therefore she made her mind up...
Buy her some roses. Chocolates. A big teddy bear. Hire someone to sing her a poem you wrote for her.
Come on dude! Move on! Too many other women to start fresh with and (hopefully) not keep making these same mistakes with.
You are your own worst enemy. Why even acknowledge this chick? Do you...
True that. When we kick them to the curb, we see the truth about them. We recognize them for the skeezers they really are.. ..... I don't have time for chicks with poor character.
But when someone is wrapped up in a chick and has oneitis, it's hard to see them for what they really are and we...
Dating often magnifies one thing about humans nowadays......there is a complete lack of character.
I would only call out a chick if you never want to meet her after she flakes. Honestly I don't see anything wrong with it as long as you don't appear butthurt.
"You're cute, but all chicks I...
OP you're obviously into this chick. You have good sexual chemistry with her.
Ask her what she wants out of this. Tell her what you want out of this. Bottom line, it's been 8 months of back and forth game playing. Either give it a go or let the flame burn out by bringing up what you both want...
@Jesse Pinkman this is a very good topic to a thread.
I can only speak from my personal experience, as I am in my 40s, but I date women much younger than me to women in their late 30s. But I think the perception is still the same if I am dealing with a 25 year old or a 38 year old.
This past...
I swear the last 10 chicks Ive dated have brought up the astrology thing within the first 3 dates. I am also a gemini, and outside of being a split personality I think I carry most of the gemini traits.
I like to play around with it when they bring it up. I will look up the compatibility...
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