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Sad truth. I really need to figure out why I crush so hard and so easily. For the record, how I pursued things with this girl is very different from how I did with "It ain't over yet" girl. I hung out with her for months before I told her that I liked her, then I blew up. This girl, I...

Spinning plates is a really funny concept when I don't even have one girl. It takes me some time to build enough confidence in myself to ask somebody out. For some reason, I thought I had a chance with this girl this time. I asked her out, got shot down and now I need to get back to my...

Wow, I can't tell if your being serous with your reply or not. BTW, off course I know not to mope around girls or let them think I'm desperate. Best thing I can do is keep my distance when I feel I can't control how I feel. I've thought about that subject a lot. Even average girls have way...

So stage 7 is, get lucky. That's it?

Just because somebody had to do it.

I have considered older women. The problem is I just can't see somebody older being into me. I don't see them being more "tolerant of a less confident/experienced guy." I actually expect the opposite. It is an option and I really need to have a regular sex life. It's driving me insane. So...

I really think that there is an actual stage between six and seven. Going from hating women, to sleeping with them is a HUGE jump.

Dude stop trying to troll me, you're being annoying. ------------ Does anybody know how the transition from 5 & 6 is made to reach seven?

Interesting read. I'm definitely at Stage Five: Is there a point to Stage Six and can it be bypassed? I have no interest in swearing off women. There seems to be a stage missing before seven. How does one go from hating women to pulling them?

Dude, stop saying that I'm a troll. How is me not being sure that women actually want sex, making fools out of everybody? I keep hearing how women are as horny if not hornier then men and I just don't see it. BTW, this thread isn't about me...

How? I have a real hard time believing that women want sex. It just doesn't add up. How? What new things?

If she was a 6 then the current girl I'm trying to get is a 5. And people keep telling me that I need to lower my standards. They can't get any lower. The crazy thing is, the girl whose picture I posted was going out with at least three other guys in addition to me and she just kicked me...

LOL! I wish I could. Believe me, I know how ****ing retarded it is. What kind of freaks me out is how I'm going to act if I do manage to have a LTR with a chick and she dumps me.

Is that supposed to be some kind of riddle? It is a bit of a paradox. But it's not impossible. Confidence usually means the next time you do something, it will be done easier and better. So it's possible to pick up women without any confidence, but it won't be easy. That's because the PUA has...

Hiding from the fact that something is wrong with me? I know very well that something is seriously wrong with me. That's why I'm on this board and others like it, that's why I'm in therapy. I am screwed up in way that makes me unappealing to women. So if you can tell that something is wrong...

Learned self helplessness? I've never heard of that. The explanations I'm finding are confusing, though I did just wake up. I never understood the concept of being comfortable in my own skin. How could I possibly not be? Two girls ago, I burned the bridges and it wasn't a pretty site...

Because I take female attention when I can get it. For me it feels good to be around women who appear to give a damn that I'm alive.

I'm attracted to women with youthful, almost innocent pretty faces, thin but not too skinny, C or better breasts, long hair and a decent ass. Bree Olson is a good example, though she's not exactly innocent :p Race doesn't matter that much but I lean towards white and Japanese girls. Black and...

Thanks for the thoughtful post Mike32ct. How do I not beat myself up? I have been raging so hard over this whole situation. These past couple of days I have had a ridiculous amount of self-hatred. It was enough to go back into counseling after a three month absence. I completely understand...

LOL, I'm not going to come right out and ask it like that, I do have some tact. As for me having a serious case of oneitis....duh, did you read the first post :kick: