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I've run into the problem a lot. Women want to be in a 'relationship' and don't want 'just sex'. But only they know and define what constitute a relationship. They start out lovey dovey, but if I'm not available to them all hours, spending the night or I suspect buying fancy dinners and shows...

He could improve his posture and hygiene and would be getting laid. This entirely hypothetical. Guys with attractive faces are at an advantage and almost always are average or better in every other measure. What I'm saying is if one's facial attractiveness is not good enough the rest won't...

I don't think it's just a funk. It seems to be the new normal for the past few years. I was picking up more successfully until about 5 or 6 years ago. I dress the same as then. My previous game didn't rely on looks anymore than any other around average guy. I was never considered a 'hot guy' and...

It's a lot like that in Midwestern and other medium sized cities and that are rather large too with maybe a population around 1 million or more. I mean there are way more good looking women especially being there's a huge state university, but still many fat, ugly and older women thinking they...

So for Friday I had plans all week with a girl. She canceled Friday evening. She had seemed very promising. So around 10pm I went to meet this other girl. After a few minutes, she rejects me. Actually her male 'friend' told me she was rejecting me. I didn't take too kindly too that. I had...

All that matters is your appearance. Some people are emotional basket case and can put on good non verbals, and some people are mentally strong but have bad non verbals. Women are primarily selecting men on facial attractiveness. Without facial attractiveness nothing else matters to the women...

Yes but that assumes your style has an appeal and you have an audience. Just believing your style has an appeal and audience doesn't make it so. That's what I object to. I thought most people learned that by their teens or early 20's when you thought you were the sh!t but hardly anyone else...

That's because the upper class protect their incomes but flood the middle and lower class with foreign competition. I didn't know Mexico had alimony and child support. I guess every where has become feminist.

I had been going out for years and been to bars picking up a few thousand times. I never saw many older guys usually 1 or 2 out of a crowd of thousands.. The few I see are shut out and standing on the sidelines, or just there with their older GF/date/wife. I don't need to open my eyes. Of course...

Absolutely agree. Most of the girls in their 20's eliminate anyone more than 5 years older, and pof won't allow more than a 13 year age difference. And it's not easy and depends on luck to be that attractive of a guy especially when you're over 35. An older guy that was always good looking and...

Well 40 year old males aren't picking up attractive 20 year olds in my city or any in any city in the US I've been. It's not happening online on any dating sites I've used since most of the girls in their 20's age block guys over 30. Seems it only happens on here. I've never seen a case where a...

I think of it as 'looks' is a still picture of you and appearance is you in motion and sound or your looks in motion or animated. The looks is important but so is appearance, looks plus demeanor/vibe/motion. I look at all like being a good actor-good looking plus good acting. Your mental...

You bring up a good point that hounding a woman over something she clearly isn't willing to do is counter productive.There is a middle ground between telling a woman to have fun "eat all the candy you want" and "lay down the law" though. I think it is most effective to tell a woman once...

That's what it looks like to me. The woman could easily see the guy as being passive and a pushover. Where does that end? And he never considered that maybe the woman wants her man to tell her no and maybe would rather not do what she is proposing and wants her man to be a little controlling...

I agree people including women are not mind readers and frankly don't give a crap about your mental frame. They care about your appearance. It's your appearance that has an effect on them and they just rationalize and attribute your mental frame inline with how they perceive your appearance. I'm...

Some guys definitely have it easier and other guys have it harder. I think it's something visual/appearance related. Women are consistently more receptive or less receptive respectively on first sight. It doesn't matter so much what the guy thinks or does as long as the appearance is right.

It would be one thing if 18-25 year olds didn't want a guy over 30, or just attractive girls didn't want a guy who looks older and isn't highly attractive. I'm finding even the 40-50 year old women who don't even look good for their age want to date a guy who is 5, 10, even 15 years younger and...

Yes, and the guys don't have to be ugly per se. Just something about their face or appearance isn't above average in attractiveness and despite having many other qualities such as height, not fat etc they're shut out by women. And to add insult to injury, both the manosphere and mainstream along...

Totally agree, well said zekko. And when you consider women have long hair, make up and heels and other flattering clothing it furthers the illusion. Even the playing field hair tied up, no make up and flat footwear or bare foot and no shape flattering clothing many women would drop 2 points...

I think I'm attractive too maybe as much or more than when I was 10 or 12 years younger, but that doesn't mean women think so or do me much good.