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You are going to go through a recovery phase, you will be confused and trying to put the pieces of the puzzle together, trying to put the answer to WTF just happened. It took me nearly a year to recover, I'm fully recovered I wouldn't ever talk to my ex again, I do think about her. Once you've...

You are correct on them wearing a mask they hide the fact they have issues its funny how they can flick the switch on and off when they are alone with you and when somebody comes around. My ex could do that we would be together in my office and she would be her true self a empty lost soul. If...

Not sure what your fascination is with this girl you should be run Forest run, she can't be drinking alcohol when she's on meds it will really screw her up.

Its all about control she's reaching out to you to see if she still has control of you, BPDs love control, my ex is a control freak. She would try control me it didn't go over well she would get mad because I didn't snap to her fingers. My replacement on the other hand she controls him she snaps...

Trust me don't get involved with a BPD girl, my ex was a high functioning BPD, nobody could tell anything was wrong with her,she was attractive and smart. When we first met she told me she was on meds she wouldn't tell me what mental health condition she had. She told me about her life it was a...

Yikes I watched the second video inter0 posted, a little freaky, what the guy talked about in the video is what I experienced a little scary. I'm glad my ex is out of my life. It has taken me well over a year to recover from the mess she put me through, trust me don't get involved with a BPD its...

Isn't that the truth, BPDs throw a tantrum like a child my ex was like that, she would get mad at me and act like a spoiled child.

LOL isn't that the truth, my ex caused me a lot of stress when she really ramped things up she wanted to see me pay for what I did to here holy crap I never seen a woman so vicious. She would constantly pick fights with me she loved drama, things would be going along okay, bam out of now where...

Yep its not like fine wine, deal with mental health women don't usually get better with age.

Give it time with the meds the side effects will mount up and they will become noticeable. As for me and the ex she had mental illness it was hard to handle her at times we ended up parting ways because it wasn't working out as I said she had BPD. When things ended it turned really ugly between...

My ex has BPD its what made us split apart it was an ugly mess she wanted to see me pay for supposedly hurting her feelings. The meds she was on gave her side effects, nights she couldn't sleep she would get night mares, all kinds of other side effects like body odor, no interest in sex. Its...

Women on any meds for mental health issues makes them a challenge to deal with I will never get involved with a women that's on meds been there done that. The meds help them function but boy does it F them up with the side effects, when the meds start wearing off. When I first met the ex she...

I know I find it funny that women think this way, soon as the weather gets warm enough they wear open toed shoes. My ex would kick off her work shoes peal off her wet sweaty socks and put on a pair of birks that she had for a long time that smelled pretty ripe.

I'm a guy with a foot fetish, women in heals have never done anything for me, women in Birks especially Gizeh, I guess its the fact they make a girls feet smell. I've been caught looking, but us guys have our ways of looking without getting noticed lol, got to keep in mind most women think their...

I'm the same, as I said in my post I ended up 12 years in a bad career it screwed up my personal life. I will never get those 12 years back it's frustrating to think about but you have to move forward. Can't change the past only shape the future.

A guy I met 14 years ago he wasn't married yet he was 44 at the time got married to a woman shortly after, he was with her for only a year his family didn't even know her. He was thinking with the wrong head, she was good looking she was 30 years old, probably banging his brains out. I sensed...

I've never had any issues with my height I'm only 5'9 but I'm broad shouldered and naturally big not fat but I'm not a gym rat either. You could be 6 feet tall and be lanky or fat. It's all about how you present yourself. I intimidate people at times it does bother me a bit Im aware of how I act...

There are days I miss my ex, I think about her, she pops up in my dreams, when I get this way I have to remember she will never change, I also remember how vicious she is. I treated her like a princess I was always there for her, gave her support when she needed it, she didn't remember any of...

Fly at it if you want to date a BPD you will see what its like. I will never get involved with a mentally ill woman again you only do that once. BPDs come across as a very nice warm and friendly woman, the high functioning BPDs like my ex you wouldn't ever know what is wrong with her. Once they...

These forums have helped me put all the pieces together to help me realize what happened as things were really confusing being with my ex. Its helped me figure out that she is a BPD, when I met her I knew she had mental health issues and she's on meds for it. I did notice a pattern of her train...