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Update and field report! Update After my last post I decided to fully dedicate myself into my uni course and to the gym. However 2nd month in, I got a gym injury and hand has nerve damage so I stopped. Through this time I also got counciling therapy over the phone which helped a little. I'm on...

Good! You've dodged a bullet with that one. Always listen to your gut, it will steer you out of the bs that they always have. It would have been a long road if you didn't eject when you did man. I didn't when I was in a similar situation and now paying the price. It's only now 4\5 months on I...

Quick Thread update and very very short rusty rapport So, things havent been too great lately, my mental health situation has gotten worse, my inner confidence is completly gone, I tend to keep to myself and just get on with sh*t. But I do make an effort to dress well and appear well groomed...

Do things that you like, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of them. If you're feeling down or mentally shut down or begining to then eat some food, listen to some music or go for a smoke if you're a smoker. Always have a badass play list to listen to. Adz--

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VN4upVaDFFs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eU4ZvfkmOck https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kaO_ZLIeo7M https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GF8aaTu2kg0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGtlq-cvIS4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fGx6K90TmCI...

Got a whole list here, it ranges from US hip-hop, US rap to UK grime

Time to switch it up from the norm of the posts that I've seen on SS lately. It's more specifically for uplifting and inspirational posts where other members can benefit from, where it be mental health, inspirational quotes, things to motivate you or whatever else positive. Try and keep it...

Yes pretty much, you get the jist of where I'm coming from. One thing to be wary off is the ones that you still give a little bit too, might end up milking you without realising. Also if you use some laws of the 48 powers you can gain or play with these people if you so wanted to. On the whole...

In my opinion and past experiences you're right about the cynical perspective, it will only breed more negativity and could potentially alter your mind set\ expectations on others to continuously prove their worth to you which could then stroke\ enlarge the ego. The optimistic perspective is...

Day 60+\lost count Things have gotten a lot better now. Don't think of her and when I do it's only memories and hardly of any emotions attached to them. I Haven't heard from her since I last posted on here. I Do still get dreams from time to time but I can manage with them a lot better. I've...

You got some sound points there and you know what direction you want to go in all of this and it sounds like you're going with your gut instinct. You're right about the secure men thing you wrote, but also remember that secure men know when to stop giving value and to walk away in some cases...

Update So I'll try and keep this short and sweet. I've come to realise that there are issues within myself that need to be addressed so that i can move forward in my life and for me to develop so that i can become a better Don Juan. For the last year i haven't developed myself and been in the...

I'm late to this but I'm game, Currently on Day 4, i don't think this month i will have the time to fap with university, gym and projects, but we shall see adz--

Day whatever the f*ck it is Tonight me and one of my boys went out for Halloween, we were killing it! Getting loads of attention from everyone for our costumes. Half way through the night we bump into my ex and her new man, she immediately looked at me in a kind of shock and said that's my ex...

Day 50 So today, I was sitting around with my class mates having a beer when I got a phone call, Now I answered cos I thought it could be my counseling assessment or something (I self referred for some counseling\ therapy) It was her (I didn't know it was her cos I don't have her number saved)...

Help needed\ where have I gone wrong? Last night I went out and did not get any results. Didn't try too many cold approaches, I started conversations with loads of random people on the night. I did notice that there were way too many guys to girls, almost 6 guys to 1 girl type ratio. In the...

Day 46 Ive messed myself up today. I ended up taking a look through her instagram and twitter. Felt my heart pumping and all that other bs when I looked at it. That's my own damn fault. I should have known better. She had a pic up of her and someone's arm holding on to her. On a side note...

Give it time and keep on working on yourself my friend, you're putting in work on yourself and keep that up. It's hard I'm not going to lie, I'm roughly around the same amount of time of NC as you are. I still get thoughts of her and all that bs, mine was a BPD phsyco who got Physicaly violent...