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    Message old oneitis after natural disaster?

    ^^^ So true... Its not beta making sure someone is alive. Ive been through earthquakes - very bad ones. Not funny.
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    No contacting a No Contact Ex - Switch Power

    Update - ugh Well just a brief update as some of you may be interested. The NC from the ex-oneitis (as I now realise thats what it was :) - that got me into this recent mess, where I lost the advantage Id had for years... Not good, in fact I feel a bit crap. I have confirmed that she was in...
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    Message old oneitis after natural disaster?

    I would contact her regardless of whether I think she would contact me, in the same circumstances. Its a horrible feeling that someone you knew may have been badly injured or died. I know, Ive been there. Make no mistakes about setting her up for future 'good times' - just contact, ask if shes...
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    Expert Help needed: Turn the tables on a woman

    OP - a lot of us here - can I say most of us - have been through what you're going through. It isn't uncommon. While some of the advice you get on this forum may be abrupt, to the point - and at times downright rude - try and take the good parts from the replies that you can. Its all a work in...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    A friend of mine is a psych nurse. I asked him of ALL the mentally ill/diagnosed people he nurses, who are the hardest. He looked at me and said 'Do you know what BPD is?' I said I did. He said 'theyre the worst, the most manipulative and cant be treated with drugs.' He also said he has to...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hey there - My turn to reply on one of your posts? I know what youre talking about re the BPD NC thing. The BEST sex ever with these girls right? Well the FB is a great idea, but as we know so difficult to not get sucked back into the void. The post you replied to me on - the female Im talking...
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    No contacting a No Contact Ex - Switch Power

    Great post and something I will take on board. As I say, I AM a bit out of practice, but your comments have helped me to re think my strategy. Ugh - NOW I feel like an idiot. Never mind, I will make sure if I rescue the situation that I post the results here...
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    No contacting a No Contact Ex - Switch Power

    Slash - that is something I have thought about (it will be email though as txt/FB isnt doable for reasons I wont go into). I have thought about doing that and wanted to wait a few days before sending something off. The whole point Im wanting discuss, is NCing a person who has NC'd you. I get...
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    No contacting a No Contact Ex - Switch Power

    As I said she is an excellent FB. Most of the FBs that I have been with ARE game palying/head case females. That just seems the way it is in my cases. However Im not in this for the luv - Im in it for the sex. Quite a difference Id say?
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    No contacting a No Contact Ex - Switch Power

    Good feedback WM. We have never had the cuddling type deal - its been sexual with constant one up manship back and forth. Yes the chasing thing IS important, let's be honest. And that also goes back and forth, however it is usually her doing most of the chasing. Due to her NC I have sent one...
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    No contacting a No Contact Ex - Switch Power

    Thanks for your comment. I did say I was somewhat out of practice. I did set up a meeting (I wouldnt call it a date setting), and knowing me, she assumed that I would try to fck her on the spot. Instead I did not. I subtly rejected her which DID up her IL immensely. The NC thing from her behalf...
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    No contacting a No Contact Ex - Switch Power

    Interesting reading all the NC posts here. I have used them in the past and they have worked very well. As I'm out of practice at the moment, thought I'd ask your opinions. Had NC with an ex. I initiated (and stuck to) it. Lasted 3 years. She contacted me recently. I'm not one to turn down...
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    Women with smelly / Stinky Vagina's

    I always carry a disposable razor. If I'm dogging a chick and the smell or look of her down there isn't pristine - I offer to fire the shower up and shave her after she's washed. I've actually done this a few times. What's a woman going to say? Either I do it or she does it. If I do it = instant...
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    Woman confesses that she intentionally had "accident"

    Theyre not daft. They need sperm AND regular free income for the rest of their lives.If they just get the sperm and no cash theyre semi fvcked.
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    Take a cheater back?

    Most people will probably advise you to forget her. It's up to the individual. The problem as I see it, is if you did take her back, she will know you are weak, beta and have low self esteem. She will never tell you that of course, but she'll lock that one in her memory banks. Was she...
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    She mentions boyfriend

    ^ Females display this type of behaviour to validate themselves. By not mentioning their 'boyfriend' to you, and by either acting interested in you, flirting, or sending you "tell me Im desirable" behaviour, they get their validation. Of course if a guy actually ask them out, they can then...
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    Gilfriend Acting distant. Need Advice.

    ^ I agree but would add that you need to spin more plates. Or at least another plate. Even if it's plastic type quality. Less mess to clean up than a porcelain plate :whistle:
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    First Date with a Feminist

    love it, please update when possible.
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    Man Tricks Girlfriend Into Getting Abortion

    A-Fvcking-men.
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    article: My husband has a small penϊs. Help!

    The small penis theory is femmo krap. Start throwing around the "my ex had a huge Vag" and see what reactions you get. Did this in front of some femnazis a while ago and the look of horror on their faces was priceless.
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