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@billtx49 She knows that I go there (the pub) so I doubt it. She had celebrated with her best girlfriend this past weekend and her family is far away. @samspade She had previously offered to buy me dinner on my birthday a few weeks back. The place unexpectedly closed, so she brought over some...

I had asked if she had any plans and she said she was "just going to go to #### (local pub)". I suggested dinner and then the pub. It is her actual birthday.

I have been on a few dates with a girl who has a good girl vibe. I'm not going for the quick smash with this one. We have kissed. Her birthday is coming up and I told her that I wanted to take her to dinner via text. She replied in about two minutes: "You don't need to do that, but its very nice...

@flowtheory That wasn't a serious question, more rhetorical.

Great info guys, I appreciate all of the points of view. I got a fishing text from her a few hours ago. She was out and was hoping that I would be as well. Yeah, OK. I'm not responding. I was pretty sure that it was coming, but am surprised that it happened in just two weeks. Any bets on the...

@stringpuller Maybe it won't phase her at all. It really doesn't matter to me. My post was more of a case study than worrying about what to do and she would need my presence to be "in" her frame. The only way that she will see me is by accident.

@Focal core I agree and my gut is in line with the facts. Probably some unresolved things in her head. Its been 7-8 months since the ex and as we all know, bad memories fade. Its a shame that she wasn't straight with me. I don't want to be with someone who harbors any feelings for an ex anyway...

@Focal core She was 4 months out. I steer clear of those fresh from a breakup. Never ends well.

@oldmanofthesea Spot on. I should have just shut up, said goodnight and walked. I don't think that ill give her a chance, even on my terms...well that is unless I'm in a drought anyway. I think that she is seeing the crazy ex and he probably saw my car and went off. I noticed her staring at...

I have had a girl for a few months. All seemed great and I really grew to like her. We could be together and things never seemed to get old. She suddenly started being distant so I backed off a bit to let her simmer for a while in the event that she just needed space. Covid isolation is having...

Welcome to Women 101 If I only had access to this forum at 15! What a different life I would have had. We really don't have an idea of your personality, but if you are shy, force yourself to say hi. No matter how hot they are, it will get easier. They all take sh*t just like you do. As others...

As far as the original intent, I was only there to get what she wanted to give me. Basically, get it out of the way and continue to distance myself. I didn't expect her tell me that she missed me or back pedal on her earlier statements. On top of that, it was late and I was beat. Not a good time...

In a perfect world, sure, that would be the case, but not every interaction goes like a page from a PUA book. Its always good to share and learn. That's why I share "goofy crap" on here. Yes, fukking her could end this pretty quick, but she does, after all, have to be a willing participant.

Update: This could get long (again), so I'm going to try and summarize. I have not been initiating any contact, but she has been. My answers again were friendly, closed and short, but she wanted to meet to give me something, so I figured that I would just get that out of the way. Two days ago...

This /\ /\ This is a fairly close parallel to to what I am dealing with right now, with the exception of the one off s*x and what you are dealing with is exactly what I was worried might happen in my social circle. Smear campaigns can be pretty diabolical and subtle if she tries to go that...

All good as long as all parties are on the same page and you aren't the type of woman who lives for attention in any form and/or dangles the carrot. Don't kid yourself, those buddies probably wouldn't hesitate if you came on to them. Unless you are hideous or have an absolutely abhorrent...

An update to provide some follow up as this progresses: I haven't seen her, but she has been initiating texts with me and we hadn't texted much at all in the past. I had ignored some texts before without any grief from her and it wouldn't be taken as unusual. She keeps initiating texts, asking...

I have been there myself and realized that it was just my ego keeping me interested. Prior to that realization, it definitely was a drag on my self esteem. Sometimes these vixens will still outfox me, for a while anyway. I think that it is a self protection thing on their part, related to their...

I just got a horrible visual. Like softballs hanging in a pillowcase.

Yes, I know. One reply that I can recall was a deadpan "See, now you have gone and hurt my feelings" followed by a little smirk. Come on guys, I have already explained that we will be sharing space and I really can't recall anything in my interactions with her where she took the lead. This post...