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I tried to keep this short, but its a bit complicated and may be more of a venting rant. Read on at your own peril. I was good friends with a woman (not friendzone friends) for a couple of years and about five months ago, we crossed the line to more than friends. I told her that we can just see...

Now that Covid is waning here in the US and I'm vaccinated, I'm seeing a notable increase in responses. I have 2 in rotation and have 3 more that I am messaging. I just realized that both of my current women offered up their number without me asking and just today, another from the messaging...

I'm dealing with the end of something like this right now. I have walked away twice and she came back hard the second time. It was great for a while, but I ended up catching some feelings. Just as I began to realize this, she decided to move and gave me the "we can still be friends" speech...

Been there, done that and the advice here is spot on. Sometimes, its hard to accept that you have been behaving like an orbiter, but I happens to everyone. I have only turned something like this around twice and both times, it was due to me ignoring them. Go figure. It sounds like you are on...

I has sinusitis that wasn't diagnosed for years. I felt drugged, foggy headed and tired. Finally a doctor figured it out. The four or five before her missed it and one diagnosed me with deep winter depression. F-ing quack. She sent me to the drug store for over the counter decongestant spray...

Oboz Bridger mid ankle hikers. Great with jeans or shorts.

OK one more haha. @LARaiders85 That's the same as my thoughts on the friend exposure. I have no problem with luke warm, I have turned up the heat from there many times before. If it doesn't heat up, you just move on.

OK guys, last post on this from me as all I am getting different ways of saying escalate or die in the friendzone. If I wasn't clear enough, I did escalate. I paid for the first dates, she is pitching in with this one and have been getting lots of buying signals up to this little snafu. I even...

I have been over this in my head and I can't see where I may have screwed up. All of these encounters have been on weeknights and we have a good time. My place was near perfect.. clean, music, lighting and drinks. Although she gladly accepted my invitation to go there, I could tell that she was...

Hey guys, I have had a girl on a few dates. First back at my place, nothing. Second, her place, kiss close, third her place, made out for a bit, but late and needed to be up early so I left. She invited me yesterday to go axe throwing later this week and then back to her place for drinks and...

Quite the contrary. It can put you on a pedestal. I have found that head gives the most mind bending orgasms to women. Add a couple fingers and some gspot stimulation and BOOM. After that, you can pretty much do things a hooker would punch you for trying.

I will sometimes give them a little room.. If she is late for a date and arrives dressed to kill and looking exceptional, she was obviously primping for me. If she is late and looks like she just rolled out of bed, you can pretty much expect the same forever.

I don't see the harm in it. Having three in rotation is proving to be hard as far as finding the time. All relationships (don't flame me for using that word) require at least some maintenance and all three treat me really well. There would have been nothing if that wasn't the case. Honestly...

My ex was, and still is, a raging alcoholic. I watched a wonderful woman slowly fall into a hole and I tried for years to pull her out. DUI, public intoxication citations, falls, hospital visits, car damage, home damage, mental abuse and more. As the others have said, there is nothing you can do...

I think that if you have been on five or more dates, something is warranted. Nothing big, just something. Any fewer dates and its a text. I have found that some don't care, but the majority do. I have three in rotation right now and actually didn't see any of them on the day. I bought three...

I would just be cool with her and leave her hanging on a few texts. At the end of the internship, ask her out. If its a yes, all good. If its a no, there won't be any awkwardness to deal with since you won't see her again. As it has been said many times, if you don't ask, its already a no.

This actually went as I expected. Dinner, a couple hours at the pub, back to her place. 3 hours later, Im home and about to go to sleep.. With a big F-ing smile.

So, I get a text last night from someone last night who happens to be a mutual acquaintance of the girl that I'm taking out for her birthday. I don't recall giving her my number. "Hi Gettinit, this is "blabla" We had planned a very small birthday thing for "HB" at #### and have a cake. I heard...

@lookatyou A second chance? I didn't realize that I had blown the first one or ruined anything. Some are just tougher nuts to crack and this girl is a bit guarded. Believe me, I worked it the best that I could, riding the line. In any case, honestly, I would rather be with a girl who held out...

Well, I went with the variation of what @stringpuller suggested (thanks), since I do sense that she is into me. I regularly tease her pretty hard, so what I sent was not out of character. I treat her like anyone else, keep it real and she seems to enjoy herself as much as I do. Oneitis? Haha. I...