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Well I said thanks for the card and she didn’t respond.

I don’t know even though I know she’s loyal I just think she lies. Even if I don’t think she’s lying she looks suspicious so I just perceive it as such.

Yea, I just didn’t trust her. I know she’s loyal af and would never cheat, but I just didn’t trust her. When she came back I’ll admiy I was pretty pissed that she broke up with me, but I told her that if she would just admit to lying about something then we could move forward. She said I’m not...

My ex broke up with me in early October saying she was just exhausted from all the arguing. She tried to get back with me a week later and I told her no. I admit I messed up and sent her a lot of messages the next and the days that followed after I rejected her. A week later I told her I was...

This. My guess is she already does. If she’s trying to make him jealous AND she was still responding to his messages she still wants him.

I hear you but I think there's a difference between using someone as a distraction vs wanting to genuinely move on.

I don't know. If she's liking his stuff, to me that's not trying to move on. Trying to move on would be avoiding her social media altogether.

I think it’s okay to like an ex’s picture if you guys had been broken up for years. The difference here is OP just told this new ex last month he was struggling with the breakup and is liking her pics. That’s way different than an ex from years ago.

So you two ended things with still wanting to be together but for whatever reason couldn’t? Well **** that makes the breakup all the worse and probably will take a lot longer to get over. It’s not like someone cheated or you lost interest-which actually make it easier to get over. Kind of...

Exactly. From the outside looking in with limited info we know why you’re still all on her social media. You just have to be honest with yourself.

Hell yea. For you it’s more than curiosity too. You don’t have to like her pictures but you’re choosing to do that instead of just acknowledging it and keep scrolling by it.

Yes someone can fall for the rebound, but it sounds like you can’t right now. You just liked a picture of hers and you’re still looking at her Snapchat, which you know she can see that you were looking. I see what you said to her, but your actions speak otherwise. Seems like you’re very much...

Yes, we know that. I'm sure OP's ex just believes he's looking at her stuff because he's just simply looking at it.

How so? He could genuinely like the picture-nothing less nothing more. Or simply be looking at her stories like he looks at his other friend’s stories. So you’re telling me if you and an ex recently split up and she was looking at your Snapchat, or whatever social media, you would perceive it...

How is looking at her snapchat keeping him in her frame? It's just social media. Looking and liking things doesn't mean anything.

if OP hasn't said anything to her since she said it was hard for me too I think it looks like he has moved on.OP's actions doesn't look like he wants to get back together so that's probably why she hasn't said anything.

You clearly still want to be with her. Who breaks up with someone and in 24 hrs message them 4 times? It doesn’t matter if you were venting (not completely buying). Without more details I can’t give you concrete advice, but go talk to her.

Well I guess this was petty. So my ex when she was around me she would tell her girlfriends she was getting ready to do something so she would get off the phone. Ex., she would say oh ok well I'm going to call you back I'm getting ready to go to the store, but she wouldn't go right then and...

Yea here and there. I just take my relationships very seriously. I told her if she would just admit to lying about other stuff then we could move forward but she refused.

You're right. Don't you think that the discrepancies in what I know she said vs when I bring the issues back up later and it being different is her lying though?