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    Dumper deleting ex off of social media...

    As the dumper, have you ever deleted your ex or someone that you weren't in a relationship with but really cared about a lot off social media? Why or why not?
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    Address the elephant in the room the same as 'we need to talk'?

    Guess that would explain why she called, which she never does.
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    Address the elephant in the room the same as 'we need to talk'?

    Yea I'm thinking that too...I figured she's trying to let me down/reject me in a nice way. Yea we've had sex. Not in a while lol, but it's happened.
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    Address the elephant in the room the same as 'we need to talk'?

    It's been about 5/6 months so yea we're past that early stage haha.
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    Address the elephant in the room the same as 'we need to talk'?

    Hmm. So her miss you doesn't mean sh*t and she's just trying to be friendly? So her wanting to address the elephant in the room is to reject me more than likely?
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    Address the elephant in the room the same as 'we need to talk'?

    Really? She said "want to grab coffee. Miss you". Still seems like I'm a back up?
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    Address the elephant in the room the same as 'we need to talk'?

    I agree to an extent. She blew me off. She then wanted to see me 2 weeks later after and I blew her off. I felt like she was toying with me.
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    Address the elephant in the room the same as 'we need to talk'?

    No I didn't "ghost". I initiated the conversation. We talked. She didn't initiate or say anything for 9 days. I figured she would have made contact with me.
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    Address the elephant in the room the same as 'we need to talk'?

    Right, after I contacted her and we talked she didn't say anything for 9 days. I don't know I feel like if she wanted a commitment she wouldn't have gone that long to say something or why not have come right out and ask, where is this going?
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    Address the elephant in the room the same as 'we need to talk'?

    This girl and I have been in a REALLY weird space lately. I'll admit we've both been playing games. The last time we spoke I reached out to her and she seemed receptive. She then initiated contact 9 days later and said she said "Called to talk. I wanted to address the elephant in the room so to...
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    Should I see her?

    So I've posted about this chick before. We haven't talked in a while. Two weeks ago she dropped off what y'all deemed a pitty/apology for ending things bag. I told her I was in her city and she responded with "ok cool". She contacted me saying "hey :). Heard you were in town. Since I missed you...
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    What the heck is going on with her?

    So you don't think that could have been her dad's, uncle's, friends, etc car?
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    What the heck is going on with her?

    Forgot to add before she dropped off the gift she snapped driving a BMW. In the snap she said " “When he finally lets you drive his M4” but you never see the guy just the steering wheel...
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    What the heck is going on with her?

    Well I was told now that I know she's open to being friendly it should be okay to say something if I really wanted to.
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    What the heck is going on with her?

    Thanks guys for the advice. I already said thank you beforehand so I shouldn't say anything else to her at all ? Not even a thanks again? Even though I'm still clearly interested it's best not to use the bag as means to open the door and try to be friends?
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    What the heck is going on with her?

    Damn that story hit home haha. Curious, did she say thank you for the card or anything?
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    What the heck is going on with her?

    Thanks. I appreciate the insight. Well she just put some old inside jokes kind of gifts inside of the bag. A movie I like. Favorite candy bar. A joke. Just a few of those things. So no matter the content of the bag, how thoughtful it was, or the effort she put into it if she didn't say she...
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    What the heck is going on with her?

    How was that a token attempt? I'll ask this though; don't you think that when I said I'm in her city she would've at least tried to link up or something instead of just saying ohok cool?
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    What the heck is going on with her?

    So my gf broke up with me a few weeks ago. She apologized a week later but I just was still pissed about the whole to be honest so I wasn't receptive. Anyways she and I haven't talked in weeks. Based on her snaps she seems just fine. On Tuesday I get text from her saying hey headed home (she...
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    Should I cut this chick?

    Again, she asked me the night before we could see each other so there wasn't much of a heads up to get things done. I really wanted to see her and thought I could get everything done that's why I agreed to see her, but obviously it took more time to finish.
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