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I've been seeing a girl that I thought had supreme confidence but has slowly revealed herself to be an inexperienced/scared girl. If I just ask her out, do you think that'll help her open up?

She mentioned another guy that she's seeing ("not seriously") when I first talked to her. That guy has not been mentioned since. I am going to ask her out tomorrow. She said 'yes' to getting together after my mid-terms the last time we spoke (a while ago -- two weeks) when I brought it up...

Does it mean a girl has extremely high interest if she's willing to wait a little while to get with you? (ie. 90%~ interest)

You're overanalyzing the situation. Give it a rest.

If she's complaining, use one of my tricks: "Oh jeez, another negative person. Let's switch topics, shall we?" I used a similar thing (different words) /twice/ today when one of my newest friends tried to complain on two separate occasions.

The advantage of the bus is seeing girls that are just as poor as you are. Plus, the people who have to take the bus may have more character than those who are spoilt and have their own car 24/7. I'd rather take the bus if it means more number closes (and it does!).

Some guys/girls think that they can "fix" or "save" a person that they want to get with. Don't bother.

It's a common fallacy to think that once one avoids some AFC tendencies that they are suddenly a DJ. This is not true. Even the best can make mistakes, as we're all human. Just because you aren't acting like an AFC right at this moment, doesn't mean you won't slip back. Keep your ego in...

Hmm... That situation might be a bit different. It's up to you as a developing DJ to decide. However, confident persistence DOES payoff in spades. Btw, don't ask her out AND a number at the same time. It comes across as desperate. Be casual, be suave, and then you'll be on your way to Don...

Next her. Girls that give you a "I'm busy" or anything similar without a counter-offer are in fact helping you. When a girl doesn't want to be with a Don Juan, it's a win-win situation for the guy. Who wants to be with a girl/guy unwilling to put any effort into a relationship? Leave...

What you're doing is great, although it was probably bad that you know who she's been with. Bottom line: DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU. Oh, and be careful around girls with bad pasts. If other people find out or know, it can ruin YOUR reputation at the same time. If you can, try and forget...

Thanks everyone for this info. Even old DJ's (farts) have room to learn. :D

Won't most girls insist on a condom?

One fellow said it well the other day on these same boards (highlight this, write it down, and memorize it): Don Juans don't become complacent. If you were the girl, would you let the guy become Fat Albert? Hell no!

It means you need to be making monkey love to her. :crackup: (Nice to have my old account back!)

I'm explaining it for guys like Smooth as Anything. If you understand it, that's great. I'm so happy for you! Now shut up, turn off your caps-lock key, and learn how to write decent sentences, you AOL-wannabe.

If you accept that death is inevitable, then it can help motivate you into living your life better than thinking that you can die today. For example, if you knew that you were to die today, wouldn't that make you fear doing anything that could put you into harm's way?

Don Juans don't plagiarize. AFCs do. Nice try, though.

In other words, cause and effect.

It's better to say 'Apply yourself 100% in everything you do, but trust your gut and cut your losses at your own discretion.' If you're in a band in high school, it's dangerous to apply this philosophy of giving 100%. The higher your grades, the better you will do if something with your band...