I dated a girl diagnosed with BPD. She told me about it when we first started dating but I had no idea what it was. Turned into the most psychotic relationship I’ve ever been in everything from her grabbing knives and starting to cut herself to her being arrested by the police. Anyway. I...
Dating a girl that I like. Things are progressing forward and I will likely soon be in a relationship with her. We haven’t had a conversation about exclusivity yet but we spend quite a bit of time together and there are definitely feelings there. Now I’ve still been making dates with other...
We’re going to agree on some things and disagree about others. I do agree that you need to have enough of a woman’s IL to have influence, if you don’t, you’re not going to increase it by acting needy and emotionally investing into her. At this point if you walk away, at least you won’t...
I agree but don’t think that it’s a bandaid. It’s a step in the right direction. A guy needs to give a woman the space to choose him, to think about him, and to wonder what he’s doing. He needs to be able to walk away, and realize that these thoughts and actions are what will develop the...
If you look at the conversation, she was contacting him everyday after she’d been at his house and got naked. Then suddenly she pulled away. But they’d made plans for Wednesday night at his house. Based on the story, I think it’s unlikely because she felt pressured for sex.
Oneitus to me is just having obsessive thoughts about one girl that you’re not with and probably won’t be with. I have a bout of oneitus every few years and it is a real drag. Last time I had oneitus the girl wasn’t even that hot
Look bro. Just because she was initiating contact doesn’t mean sh*t. Because she isn’t now. It’s not weird, there could be a lot of different reasons for it. If a girl sends me a message, unless I’m completely uninterested, I’m going to respond. But I’m going to limit my communication via...
This is how women function. If you are contacting her too much, your value in her eyes will diminish ‘law of supply and demand’. As you’re no longer contacting her via text and only setting dates to meet up, your value increases in her eyes, which brings her interest level up. When her...
Robert Green’s books are entertaining. But I don’t find them to be too useful in reality. A lot of the evidence that he uses are based on works of fiction. And I can tell you that I wouldn’t watch a romantic movie and try to apply the principles from that movie to seduce a woman. James Bond...
When Wednesday rolls around don’t text her some weak sh*t like “are you still coming over tonight”. You assume that she will, because you are good catch, and high value man. Just remember that you have other options and It’s her job to fight for your validation. So you don’t compliment her or...
I wouldn’t call it no contact. If it were me, I would wait until she gets in touch. When she does, set a firm date. Say to her that if anything comes up where I can’t make it, I’ll get in touch, other than that, I’ll be there. Then not even confirm. Just show up for date. And stop texting...
Female game is far more wide spread than male game, it’s ingrained in our society. They are learning this sh*t from cosmo when they’re kids. On average men are amateurs compared to women.
If she’s getting distant and you try and chase her, you’ll just push her further. Your first mistake is messaging her everyday. Messaging is for making solid dates, not chit chatting. It gets boring, leaves nothing to the imagination, and will reduce your value in her eyes. Wait a week and...
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