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I believe that. But when it comes to the girls with BPD they have a special ability to occupy space in the mind (if you ignore red flags and let it get to that). Because of the amount of drama, manipulation, and emotional roller coaster that it puts you on. At first they become the perfect...

I had a BPD girlfriend and she ended up living with me. Was some crazy ass shyt. We got in a fight over her being jealous of another girl and she started cutting her wrists on my bathroom floor. Then she stabbed me. Then she tried calling the cops on me lol. Interestingly the cops arrested...

I told my friends mom I love her last night. I didn’t mean it. Muahahaha

Bro. What the heck are you talking about. If you want to send her running tell her you love her lol. Obviously her interest isn’t very high if she’s ignoring you so the absolute opposite thing you should do is tell her that you love her. You should learn to court her properly then maybe...

The fact that you think it’s manipulative is kinda funny. She just wants you to go fix your screw up and spend Christmas with her and her family. There isn’t any particular tactic of manipulation that stands out here. Your lucky her interest is so high otherwise she would’ve dumped you and...

One day I started chatting with this girl via internet. She had lots of pictures, was pretty good looking, and couldn’t google reverse image with any results. This went on for 4-7 days. Then *maybe-she called me and I heard a tv in the background. I said hello. And the phone just hung up. I...

I already knew why, because she was in bed the day before too. And I messaged her that day and told her that I just wanted to let her know that I care about her and to give me a call if she wants to chat for a bit (which she did). I messaged her in the evening and told her goodnight and that...

Oh no I’ve hooked up with her quite a few times over the past months. And the funny thing is that she did something wrong, I call her out on it, and then somehow I’m the bad guy. But I’m done. From what I think is that there’s two ways this will go from here: 1) she becomes a crazy stalker...

I’ve been seeing her for a bit. But she seems to be quite self absorbed and the funny thing is that if she does something wrong then she accuses me of making things about myself. Some annoying behaviours.

Girl is supposed to go on a date with me at 7pm this evening. Calls me at 6pm. I ask her how she’s doing, she says depressed, laying in bed all day. I ask her if she’ll be at the restaurant for 7pm. She responds that she doesn’t feel up to it. I said “thanks for the advance notice”. Then...

anyway. There’s something about this girl that’s just rubbing me the wrong way. I can’t put my finger on it. So I’m going to distance myself a bit.

I don’t understand your inept question. I just pointed out the hypocrisy in that social standard. When girls offer to split the bill, it is usually a shyt test, and you have to say no or you fail. Also, fake manners. Ive dated lots of girls that will legitimately go pay the bill behind my...

I don’t need spoon feeding bro.. lol. But thanks for the direction anyway.

Any ideas on screening for respect?

I’m sure that most girls offer to split but expect you to refuse their offer so they can disingenuously seem polite or maybe as some sort of shyt test. But I think this is the first time I ever met one that doesn’t say thank you after I pay. But on the flip side, actions always speak louder...

Do you really need an explanation as to why social conventions exist?

I’ve been seeing this one girl for a bit now. We’ve been on quite a few dates and pretty much always hook up after. Something has not been sitting right with me though, I have zero recollection of this girl ever saying thank you after a date and has never even offered to split the bill...

Two girls I’ve had sex with both and they are chasing me now. But I got excited and double booked them into the same evening. My schedule is quite busy so it’s hard to make time. They’re both hot. I would like some advice on the best way to know which one to reschedule and which one to go...

Okay I will start looking for a new girlfriend. Checked wiki how to figure it out.

I dunno bro. I don’t compromise my integrity just to get laid. I don’t like that she caused me to question whether I’ve done something wrong and I’m pretty sure I haven’t. I’m not looking to be gas lit. If her interest is high enough she’ll get in touch. If not then it’s a waste of time...