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You men need to be men. If a girl says we will see. You tell her A$$ there is nothing to see you either want to go do something fun or not.

No..no..no... Never hit a chick back up. Know your damn value men. She canceled on you, thats okay. She did not flake. Flake is someone that does not show up. Your response should be " no problem, maybe we can try some other time" She has to reach out and ask you out. You don't wait a week to...

Do you guys feel disappointed by people more so people you date or try to date. Seems like there are no normal people in this worls. Trying to find someone to have a healthy long relationship is an enigma.

Did you lay down the law when she asked you to be monogamous. Most guys are usually trying to lock the girl down instead of the girl trying to lock the guy down. When a girl asks a guy for monogamy, the guy needs to have sit down with the girl and have a conversation on what he expects out of...

Passive Aggressive behavior...run forrest run. You are already miserable, now imagine being in a relationship, married, or having kids with this woman. Let some other loser deal with her. Go and find yourself a winner because this one has a major red flag, she does not know how to communicate...

She isn't your wife or girlfriend so why do you care how long she takes to get back. If you had other options or things going on in your life you would not have time to worry about it. All her blabbing about not being ready for a relationship is bs. If you were a man and showed up as one she...

Stop overthinking it. You guys have something setup on Saturday so just meet up and enjoy it, don't make any unnecessary drama. If she start testing you just be indifferent and remain centered. If you like her and see her as long term she might be worth the headache (dealing with her girl...

You have to realize one thing, girls are incredibly insecure. Guys think girls are incredibly confident with the front they put up but once you reach a certain point as a guy you will realize how insecure they are. The game will get easy for you once you reach this point as a man. Most girls...

This is pure gold, this happens to me a lot and I use to think I was doing something wrong but in reality it was their insecurities. She may be a great girl but this flaw will not take you anywhere unless she works on herself to get her self esteem to be able to deal with you. She is probably...

You naturally become selective and start prequalifying girls as a by product when you have purpose because your time is your most valuable asset and you don't have much time to give. Most guys are wasting time texting a girl back and forth while you are grinding away, eventually the girl will...

Haha, you guys actually go on these girls social accounts and like their posts? That is mind blowing.

You seem young so you are still learning. First, good job in walking up to her and asking her out, most guys cannot even do that so kudos. Things to keep in mind in the initial phases of dating: - respect: she should respect you and your time all the time otherwise she is gone - be willing to...

Not sure if you have experienced this but once you have reached this level women who are attracted to you will start rejecting you as well due to their own insecurities because they know they cannot control you and they think you are way above them. When this first started happening to me it...

I have been on this forum for a few years now and have noticed a similar trend..."how can I get this girl"...."why did this girl not respond"...."why is this girl not reaching out to me"....etc.... You see where I am going with this. Everything resolves around getting a girl. Guys need to get...

Who cares what her interest level is. If you are interested ask her out directly. You will find out your answer. Your original conversation was not direct, you were letting her lead the interaction. Girls want the man to lead otherwise they friendzone you thinking you are nice guy

This sounds like friendship vibes. She said she may be out Saturday and if she does go out she will let you know so you can hangout as "friends." Clearly you are interested in this girl romantically otherwise you wouldn't have made a post which is cool. As a man your time and attention is...

Never ignore people, you aren't an emotional woman who cannot handle things. My response would have been "no problem, I actually made plans with another friend" then go ghost until she reaches out. She will eventually reach out and make plans herself if she wants to. One mistake you made was...

Do not take this wrong but I just want to teach guys a lesson here since it is a place for learning. I do not know you or how you are. By just posting this it shows that you are needy. This is what I see from reading your post: You messaged a girl and she did not respond thus you created a...

No. You could have just left the ball in her court and let her reach back to you if she really wanted to see you.

Don't beat yourself up, you are young. We all made these mistakes when we were young, at least are willing to learn from it. Keep growing yourself and these girls will be asking you out and you will be rejecting them because thry are not to your standards. Most guys on here are just trying to...