Did i f8ck up and what do you think of this in general?

[TheGambino]

So my wingman (best buddy) and I cold approached three young women on the street in my car.
We talked for about 4 minutes, loads of fun, teasing, joking and they were laughing out loud. Only third girl didnt like us.

Anyway I grabbed snapchat of the girl I liked (S) and started to text her (only 2 days) a couple of texts a day but she reacts within 1 minute everytime super enthusastic.

Asked her to hang out the same night but she said: sorry third girl has a bf but we can hang out another day with my friend without the third one okay? I said sure. Texted her again today just how shes doing and she was reacting again very very quickly and enthusiastic.

Thing is I replied I was doing barbecue.

My buddy and I barbecued with 2 other girls in my backyard and I put it on my snapchat for my backburn chicks to get a bit jealous and showing them im having fun.

Replied to cold approach girl (S) after 4 hours but she ignores me now.

You think she will next because she saw me hanging out with other girls on snapchat or does this work in my favour? She is only 18 and not experienced I can sense that but she's beautiful.

What do you guys think of showing off girls on social media anyway? Not overdoing it but just a girl or two on your story once or twice a year ??

 

[TheGambino]

I am a man. Not showing off, last time I had a girl on my snapchat was last summer 365 days ago...

We were just vibing and it was hella fun so I made a snapchat of the barbecue and the girls happened to be on it...

Understand this.

 

[bat soup]

So my wingman (best buddy) and I cold approached three young women on the street in my car.
We talked for about 4 minutes, loads of fun, teasing, joking and they were laughing out loud. Only third girl didnt like us.

Anyway I grabbed snapchat of the girl I liked (S) and started to text her (only 2 days) a couple of texts a day but she reacts within 1 minute everytime super enthusastic.

Asked her to hang out the same night but she said: sorry third girl has a bf but we can hang out another day with my friend without the third one okay? I said sure. Texted her again today just how shes doing and she was reacting again very very quickly and enthusiastic.

Thing is I replied I was doing barbecue.

My buddy and I barbecued with 2 other girls in my backyard and I put it on my snapchat for my backburn chicks to get a bit jealous and showing them im having fun.

Replied to cold approach girl (S) after 4 hours but she ignores me now.

You think she will next because she saw me hanging out with other girls on snapchat or does this work in my favour? She is only 18 and not experienced I can sense that but she's beautiful.

What do you guys think of showing off girls on social media anyway? Not overdoing it but just a girl or two on your story once in a couple of months! ??

I think you gave her attention by talking to her, which is what she wanted. Now she's moved on.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I think you gave her attention by talking to her, which is what she wanted. Now she's moved on.

lmao

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

You have to understand the type of woman you are attracting when you flex on social media, these are the clout chasers, they are looking to create a victim narrative for themselves to gain followers through.

Absolutely do not flex on social media, these women will follow you around, stalk you and pretend like they are just running into you by coincidence.

You are making yourself a target, don't do that. If she is young, ask to see ID, she can lie to you outright or by omission if you don't ask and then you are fuuuuuuucked.

 

[TheGambino]

Your OP literally asks our opinion about 'showing off' girls on SM. You mention once every few months.

We need an Incel-only forum on SS.

Go f8vk off man you are around for less then a year and dare to call me incel go sck a d1ck. You did not contribute sh1t here nor gained Any respect to talk to me like that. Know your place lil sh1t.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

If the girl is responding enthusiastically no need to show off other girls. I'd save that for the lukewarm or problematic ones.

 

[Sam_J]

You millennials and your Snapchat, and 43 different communication apps. (shakes head)

Don't show off girls on Social Media.

Be a MAN.

MEN don't play childish games like this.

Says the guy who calls people with less than 300 Facebook friends incels

 

[Bingo-Player]

So my wingman (best buddy) and I cold approached three young women on the street in my car.
We talked for about 4 minutes, loads of fun, teasing, joking and they were laughing out loud. Only third girl didnt like us.

Anyway I grabbed snapchat of the girl I liked (S) and started to text her (only 2 days) a couple of texts a day but she reacts within 1 minute everytime super enthusastic.

Asked her to hang out the same night but she said: sorry third girl has a bf but we can hang out another day with my friend without the third one okay? I said sure. Texted her again today just how shes doing and she was reacting again very very quickly and enthusiastic.

Thing is I replied I was doing barbecue.

My buddy and I barbecued with 2 other girls in my backyard and I put it on my snapchat for my backburn chicks to get a bit jealous and showing them im having fun.

Replied to cold approach girl (S) after 4 hours but she ignores me now.

You think she will next because she saw me hanging out with other girls on snapchat or does this work in my favour? She is only 18 and not experienced I can sense that but she's beautiful.

What do you guys think of showing off girls on social media anyway? Not overdoing it but just a girl or two on your story once or twice a year ??

getting involved in petty games like this with 18 year old chicks is a fast track to nowhere

they will always win because they have more options and more time than you

move on and next time don't waste time playing indirect snapchat games , i used to do it a lot it very rarely if ever does you any favours

 

[ThisIsSparta]

My buddy and I barbecued with 2 other girls in my backyard and I put it on my snapchat for my backburn chicks to get a bit jealous and showing them im having fun.

Replied to cold approach girl (S) after 4 hours but she ignores me now.

You think she will next because she saw me hanging out with other girls on snapchat or does this work in my favour? She is only 18 and not experienced I can sense that but she's beautiful.

What do you guys think of showing off girls on social media anyway? Not overdoing it but just a girl or two on your story once or twice a year ??

Competition anxiety only works with women that are already into you.

I wouldnt show off girls on social media in general. This is going to scare away more women than attract.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You millennials and your Snapchat, and 43 different communication apps. (shakes head)

Don't show off girls on Social Media.

Be a MAN.

MEN don't play childish games like this.

When you do something and make it obvious what you are trying to do with a woman(ie make her jealous or show off or show them you have other women) it comes across as try hard and kinda lame.

Never make it obvious...this is why she is ignoring. It was a super eye roll by her at your behavior.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

My buddy and I barbecued with 2 other girls in my backyard and I put it on my snapchat for my backburn chicks to get a bit jealous and showing them im having fun.

I agree with @Hank Moody here.

Only weak men do this. Men don't need to prove anything to anyone. The moment you consciously need to prove something, it is the moment you can consider yourself a beta and a straight-up poser. Let that sink in.

And that is not to mention snapchat, I mean come on. I do not know how you are, and I am no one to judge but we as men should stop all these childish behaviors.

I am 34 and I don't even know what snapchat looks like and does. I use Instagram for my business and one personal acct for my photography and that is my extend with these social media platforms that only cultivate a childish and fake mindset.

Modern Man Advice

 

[Vantagepoint34]

You guys forget how powerful C&F since some of you are reading about pua... Powerful is the mind. Op bothers to post update to Y'all. Not insinuations

 

[Clamslammer]

So my wingman (best buddy) and I cold approached three young women on the street in my car.
We talked for about 4 minutes, loads of fun, teasing, joking and they were laughing out loud. Only third girl didnt like us.

Anyway I grabbed snapchat of the girl I liked (S) and started to text her (only 2 days) a couple of texts a day but she reacts within 1 minute everytime super enthusastic.

Asked her to hang out the same night but she said: sorry third girl has a bf but we can hang out another day with my friend without the third one okay? I said sure. Texted her again today just how shes doing and she was reacting again very very quickly and enthusiastic.

Thing is I replied I was doing barbecue.

My buddy and I barbecued with 2 other girls in my backyard and I put it on my snapchat for my backburn chicks to get a bit jealous and showing them im having fun.

Replied to cold approach girl (S) after 4 hours but she ignores me now.

You think she will next because she saw me hanging out with other girls on snapchat or does this work in my favour? She is only 18 and not experienced I can sense that but she's beautiful.

What do you guys think of showing off girls on social media anyway? Not overdoing it but just a girl or two on your story once or twice a year ??

Do not take this wrong but I just want to teach guys a lesson here since it is a place for learning.

I do not know you or how you are. By just posting this it shows that you are needy. This is what I see from reading your post: You messaged a girl and she did not respond thus you created a thread about it. Who gives a f that she did not respond, a man that is high value does not worry if and when a girl responds he is busy with life, if she responds great if she does not respond that is great as well.

The fact that you created a snapchat of other girls with you shows your insecurity. You are basically trying to show a girl that you have status by doing that instead of naturally acting like you have status which she would have picked up right away.

Men need to start acting like men again. Be direct and make sure you maintain self respect. The first time you messaged her you should have asked her out, you already met her and built rapport why did you waste your time texting back and fort without asking her out on a date?

 

[Glassguy]

Showing off chicks on social media for validation- beta behavior.
Worrying about what a chick thinks- beta behavior.
Wondering if a chick will text back- beta behavior.

Come on Gambino....you know this isn't the action that gets you the action.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Showing off chicks on social media for validation- beta behavior.
Worrying about what a chick thinks- beta behavior.
Wondering if a chick will text back- beta behavior.

Come on Gambino....you know this isn't the action that gets you the action.

He's coming along, the secretary Saga was cringe af but he's coming along

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

He's coming along, the secretary Saga was cringe af but he's coming along

And what kind of stories do you have that involve actual people?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

And what kind of stories do you have that involve actual people?

I didn't realize I needed to tell stories lol

 

[RangerMIke]

Don't show off girls on Social Media.

Completely agree with this. I don't know... maybe it's because I'm in my 50s and just don't understand this... perhaps this is completely normal for younger people and I just don't fvcking get it. But I never post anything on social media about women I'm on dates with.

I know women do this sh1t all the time, taking pictures of what they are about to eat in a restaurant.... doing stuff... I don't know I don't get it. My teenage daughters do this stuff all the time. I find it annoying. I'm on vacation with my kids right now and they spent so much fvcking time picking out the right clothes... finding the best place to take pictures of themselves in front of sh1t... it's aggravating as fvck. But hey... they love doing this stuff so who am I to get in the way of having fun.... then later, they'll sit in the hotel room and see who responded to their posts. Like I said.. I don't get it.

If you looked at my social media posts, you will not find ANYTHING about any chicks I'm dating.... nothing.

From my perspective, I've been out with women who will 'tag' me on on post when we are doing stuff, and I really don't like it. Maybe theses chicks are the same... I don't know. This happened to me with one women that we were on a second date with about 4 years ago at at a event, and it ticked me off so much I never asked her out again. Maybe the same thing happened with these women.... I don't know.

I will only say one thing about this, and it's true with everything. When you meet a chick, and you know she is interested in you... all you can do at that point is fvck it up. You can say the wrong thing, post the wrong picture, call too much... text too much... do too much. On your first few dates, doing talk too much, don't push too hard, don't overthink stuff... just plan dates doing things you like to do and invite them along on things you are planning to do anyway and see if she comes along.

Men now-a-days, talk too much, try too hard to sell themselves, agonize over where to take her and what to do or try and do things to impress women. It might work short term, but what you end up with is women you have to tie yourself into a knot over, you lose yourself, and the best that you can hope to achieve in this is you get a woman who isn't really aligned with things you like to do. If all you want to do is bang chicks and move on... well fine... be a chameleon. I guess when you are younger this all makes sense, but when you get to be my age, dating is more than just a means to have sex... it's fun. I'm at a point in my life right now that I would rather go on dates that I actually have fun doing then getting laid. The sex comes as a by-product.

 

[2Rocky]

Your motivation is wrong. It will happen on it's own and you trying to MAKE it happen is just Doubling the Spices in a hot recipe already...

My buddy and I barbecued with 2 other girls in my backyard and I put it on my snapchat for my backburn chicks to get a bit jealous and showing them im having fun.

Replied to cold approach girl (S) after 4 hours but she ignores me now.

You think she will next because she saw me hanging out with other girls on snapchat or does this work in my favour? She is only 18 and not experienced I can sense that but she's beautiful.

What do you guys think of showing off girls on social media anyway? Not overdoing it but just a girl or two on your story once or twice a year ??

You can show yourself in a group that contains attractive girls for sure but a couple's selfie infers a relationship. Years back I had my sister concerned about some pictures with a platonic female friend while I was married, if that gives you any idea of what women read into photos.
Your 18 yo girl gets plenty of options from guys already so she doesn't need to fight for your attention. For the next 10 years she will have more abundance than you will. Keeping her attention will be a challenge.